Child First: Safe child contact saves lives

Help us stop avoidable child deaths and make sure children are put first in the family courts.

New research on the family courts and domestic abuse

Women’s Aid has partnered with Queen Mary University of London on new research looking at the experiences of survivors of domestic abuse in the family courts through the lens of human rights. The research, launched on 30th May 2018, uncovers a glaring gender gap in the way human rights are used and understood in the family courts. It reinforces the findings of previous studies showing a lack of understanding of the dynamics of domestic abuse, and highlights new evidence of gender discrimination within the institutional culture of the courts.

The report makes a number of recommendations, including:

  • An independent inquiry into the handling of domestic abuse by the family courts.
  • Improved education and awareness raising on domestic abuse, human rights, theories of ‘parental alienation’ and equality for all professionals involved in child contact cases.
  • Ban cross-examination in family courts of survivors by their abusive former partners.
  • Guarantee special measures for survivors of domestic abuse in the family courts.
  • Better, empowering support for survivors of domestic abuse.
  • Take a safer approach to unsupervised contact.

Find out more about the research here.

More campaign news

The government and the President of the Family Division, Sir James Munby, have issued new guidance for judges and magistrates for child contact cases where there are allegations of domestic abuse. Find out more here.

The campaign has secured a promise from the government to create a new law to ban perpetrators of domestic abuse from being able to cross-examine their victims in the family court.

This new law is part of the Prison and Courts Bill which was originally stopped due to the snap General Election.

Women’s Aid marked the first anniversary of the launch of the Child First campaign and report Nineteen Child Homicides by handing the Child First petition into Number 10 Downing Street. It has been signed by over 42,000 people.

On the same day we released our report Child First: A Call to Action One Year On, which shows what we have achieved and what we still have to do to make children safe.

On 20th January, the President of the Family Division announced Mr Justice Cobb’s review of Practice Direction 12J: Child Arrangement and Contact Orders: Domestic Violence and Harm. The Practice Direction outlines what judges and magistrates must do when overseeing child contact cases where domestic abuse is alleged or has taken place.  The review makes various suggestions to improve the practice direction including a clear definition of ‘harm’, addressing the ‘contact at all costs’ culture of the family courts and always putting children’s interest and safety first.

On the 4th January the government announced an emergency review to find the quickest way to ban abusive ex-partners from cross-examining their victims in the family courts.

A debate in the House of Commons Chamber took place on 15 September 2016. Claire Throssell’s MP, Angela Smith, told the stories of Claire’s two sons, Jack, 12 and Paul, 9, who were both killed by their father, a known perpetrator of domestic abuse, in Parliament for the very first time. MPs from all political parties made moving and powerful speeches about the need for change. Read or watch the debate.

The Ministry of Justice has also asked Women’s Aid to review the training provided to family court staff on domestic abuse, and the guidance (Practice Direction 12J) issued to the judges and magistrates when there is an allegation of domestic abuse in child contact cases.

What are we calling for?

We are calling on the government, all family courts professionals, and involved agencies to make the family court process safer for women and children survivors of domestic abuse.

Join our Child First campaign today and help us to ensure that children are always put at the heart of contact decisions made by the family courts.

Sign the petition, get in touch with your MP and use #ChildFirst to help us spread the word. Together we can put an end to unsafe child contact.

Why now?

We have launched the Child First campaign to stop avoidable child deaths as a result of unsafe child contact with dangerous perpetrators of domestic violence.

Survivors of domestic abuse frequently tell us that they can be re-victimised and traumatised by their abusers, even after separation, through the family court process.

“The family court was an arena for him to continue his abuse on a much more damaging scale. I wasn’t heard or listened too. My children have suffered drastically as a result.” – Survivor

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Research & key statistics

View and share our infographics that support the campaign.

Survivor Claire Throssell with her two sons

Read Claire’s story

Survivor Claire Throssell’s two sons were both killed by their father, a known perpetrator of domestic abuse.

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Children & the law

The Rights for Women website has information on children and the law and the family court process.

Further information & support

If you have any concerns about your safety, or that of anyone you know, please contact the police on 999 in an emergency or call the National Domestic Violence Helpline (run between Women’s Aid and Refuge): 0808 2000 247

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