Help us stop avoidable child deaths and make sure children are put first in the family courts.
What are we calling for?
We are calling on the Government, all family courts professionals, and involved agencies to make the family court process safer for women and children survivors of domestic abuse.
Join our the Child First campaign today and help us to ensure that children are always put at the heart of contact decisions made by the family courts.
Sign the petition below and use #ChildFirst to help us spread the word. Together we can put an end to unsafe child contact.
We have launched the Child First campaign to stop avoidable child deaths as a result of unsafe child contact with dangerous perpetrators of domestic violence.
Survivors of domestic abuse frequently tell us that they can be re-victimised and traumatised by their abusers, even after separation, through the family court process.
“The family court was an arena for him to continue his abuse on a much more damaging scale. I wasn’t heard or listened too. My children have suffered drastically as a result.” – Survivor
Our campaign report, Nineteen Child Homicides, highlights the tragic stories of 19 children and 2 women in 12 families that were killed by perpetrators of domestic abuse in circumstances related to unsafe child contact within a ten year period. It’s possible that these deaths could have been prevented if the domestic abuse had been considered as an ongoing risk factor.
Survivor Claire Throssell’s two sons, Jack, 12, and Paul, 9, were both killed by their father, a known perpetrator of domestic abuse.
“There are many reasons why I have decided to support this worthy campaign. Having experienced the judicial process and its protocols, the tragic outcome that occurred whilst court proceedings were still ongoing highlights and expose flaws and malpractice within family law. This malpractice ultimately can and does destroy people’s lives.”
“Attending court is an emotional, frightening and at times a traumatic experience which nobody decides to initiate lightly – but does so to protect their children’s physical and emotional wellbeing.”
“No parent should have to hold their children and comfort them as they die or be told that their child has been harmed in an act of revenge or rage. There are often many facets to one family’s breakdown, and all too often children’s voices are not heard or acted upon.”
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Further information & support
Whilst the cases featured in Nineteen Child Homicides are truly shocking, it is important to note that these extreme cases are very rare, and that there is advice and support out there for anyone wishing to leave an abusive relationship or anyone who has concerns around child contact.
If you have any concerns about your safety, or that of anyone you know, please contact the police on 999 in an emergency or call the National Domestic Violence Helpline (run in partnership with Refuge): 0808 2000 247