The Expect Respect
Educational Toolkit
The Expect Respect Educational Toolkit consists of one easy to use ‘Core’ lesson for each year group from reception to year 13 and is based on themes that have been found to be effective in tackling domestic abuse.
Although the Expect Respect Education Toolkit is targeted for use by teachers within schools, it can just as easily be used by a range of other professionals working with children and young people in a variety of settings such as youth clubs or play schemes. You do not need to download the whole toolkit. You can just download the introductory section and the year that is appropriate to the age group you are working with.
All the links below are PDF files – you will need Adobe Acrobat Reader to view these files.
The Education Toolkit is available as a download only.

Introduction to Toolkit
Toolkit Cover [PDF 328kb]
02. Contents [PDF 162kb]
03. Foreword and Acknowledgements [PDF 206kb]
04. Section 1 – Introduction to the Education Toolkit [PDF 1174kb]

Section 2: Lesson Plans: Primary Years
Section 2 cover page [PDF 310kb]
06. Reception: Looking at and challenging gender expectations using toys [PDF 394kb]
07. Year One: Friends, secrets and people who can help us [PDF 280kb]
08. Year Two – Gender, Careers and Assumptions [PDF 291kb]
09. Year Three – Resolving Conflict and Where to Get Help [PDF 309kb]
10. Year Four – Examining Violence, Excuses and Responsibility [PDF 347kb]
11. Year Five – Secrets and Stories [PDF 300kb]
12. Year Six – Court Room Game [PDF 366kb]

Section 3: Lesson Plans: Secondary Years
Section 3 – Cover page [PDF 542kb]
14. Year Seven – Unwritten Rules and Managing Conflict Year Seven: Unwritten rules and managing conflict [PDF 297kb]
15. Year Eight – Introduction to Domestic Violence and Abuse Year Eight: Introduction to domestic violence [PDF 654kb]
16. Year Nine – Myths and Realities Year Nine: Myths and realities [PDF 308kb]
17. Year Ten – Behaviours – Ok or Not Year Ten: Behaviours – ok or not? [PDF 300kb]
18. Year Eleven – Domestic Abuse – It’s Criminal Year Eleven: Domestic abuse – it’s criminal [PDF 336kb]
19. Years Twelve or Thirteen – Young People and Domestic Abuse PDF 365kb]

Section 4: Supporting Resources
Section 4 Cover [PDF 196kb]
21. Supporting Resources – Suggested Ground Rules [PDF 166kb]
22. Supporting Resources – Sources of help [PDF 222kb]
23. Supporting Resources – An Historical Perspective [PDF 310kb]
24. Supporting Resources – Hot seating [PDF 215kb]
25. Supporting Resources – Circle games [PDF 177kb]