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Women's Aid Survivors Forum

Poster Posts Last Post
First meeting at Womens Aid 232901hope 2 03-04-14 07:42
was it sexual abuse? destinysstar 18 03-04-14 07:29
Emotional Abuse, how to explain it? RaggyDoll 26 02-04-14 15:03
Argument with child Hope111 24 23-03-14 01:31
Back on Track again SUGARB 6 22-03-14 10:39
Self representation in court. 232901hope 12 20-03-14 15:20
Message from the Moderator WA Moderator 58 20-03-14 13:31
I dont know if its best telling or not ibizababe 8 20-03-14 09:25
No contact... Dreamer14 21 19-03-14 21:49
my statement destinysstar 5 19-03-14 08:36
a quote for all you ladies brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 16 19-03-14 07:35
outreach worker...next step?? destinysstar 8 18-03-14 23:14
He wants an answer Manicmum 21 18-03-14 23:11
Smear campaign babyblue 11 18-03-14 13:03
OMG there multiplying bubbles328 4 18-03-14 12:47
What is best call blocker? Struggling 6 18-03-14 12:41
Can we ever be happy-go-lucky again? Catlover 19 18-03-14 12:07
Adapting to life, RaggyDoll 19 18-03-14 12:02
im in lady b 10 18-03-14 07:51
remembering how bambi2010 18 17-03-14 15:20
How do you get rid of the hold they have over you... 232901hope 7 16-03-14 21:17
Husband not moving at all!!! Blue-bubble 4 16-03-14 13:20
Court help advice Lightening1988 11 15-03-14 10:05
am trying to work out despairing 5 14-03-14 23:51
my ex keeps threatening all sorts itsme80 4 14-03-14 22:14
Message from Moderator All Party Parliamentary Group (APPG) Report WA Moderator 10 14-03-14 21:23
Should I Head cook 8 14-03-14 21:20
Furious! and disbeleiving Struggling 5 14-03-14 18:25
help!!! destinysstar 1 14-03-14 17:19
Call me suspicious but... Tough Cookie 10 14-03-14 14:56
Often wonder what my Mum would think if she were alive today Ashley 4 14-03-14 14:00
He has been arrested! Struggling 2 14-03-14 13:04
OMG the lies .... giggles 7 14-03-14 11:42
he's gone bubbles328 4 14-03-14 10:56
Feeling scared... Dreamer14 1 14-03-14 05:15
sympathetic quote of the day comes from... destinysstar 9 14-03-14 01:53
So tired of fending off the Demon... my2girls 11 14-03-14 01:40
New to this....Please chat :( 232901hope 6 14-03-14 00:09
I started out in a mess not knowing what KarmaSister 18 13-03-14 23:16
abuser and special occasions yummy123 32 13-03-14 23:12
I have lost legal aid Southern E 1 13-03-14 21:39
am doing so well, but...... kitkat 2 13-03-14 18:28
Feeling a bit stifled Ashley 7 13-03-14 18:23
It's over... Dreamer14 1 13-03-14 17:38
Police officer asked "so how did he emotionally abuse you?"..... Breaking free 20 13-03-14 12:48
if you loved him you would av brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 5 13-03-14 09:59
police are "too busy" to come out!! destinysstar 6 13-03-14 09:58
School want to do a CAF and TAF :( uncertainty1 4 13-03-14 08:00
D you think they ever loved us and hurt when we leave? Struggling 16 12-03-14 23:12
A little advice please .. giggles 6 12-03-14 21:04
Family Tinka 3 12-03-14 17:37
Doesn't care about anything Wiseowl123 3 12-03-14 16:14
cant stop crying xnotahappybunnyx 12 12-03-14 15:38
I've told him!! Blue-bubble 1 12-03-14 11:50
is it wrong to chat to people...men as friends? brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 3 12-03-14 11:46
Financial Abuse Please HELP! Little Me 3 12-03-14 10:21
woke up dreaming id text him yummy123 2 12-03-14 10:17
Was it rape? uncertainty1 2 12-03-14 09:39
for those of us who write the wrongs...literally destinysstar 4 12-03-14 00:49
I am lost and scared.... Cherry 9 11-03-14 23:08
child having counselling because of me :-( destinysstar 6 11-03-14 22:51
I'm being brain washed. Blue-bubble 4 11-03-14 22:21
The decision has been made lady b 4 11-03-14 22:06
my life has been thrown totally out of balance bubbles328 3 11-03-14 20:23
children hostile to new partner.... Help please!!!! Someday 1 11-03-14 20:11
Memories of Abuser Someday 1 11-03-14 19:00
Time has flown by Calypso 1 11-03-14 17:16
I am struggling today SUGARB 8 11-03-14 16:34
Life has moved on but I haven't FreedomWriter 6 11-03-14 15:43
period of enlightenment for me destinysstar 5 11-03-14 14:35
Todays the day twicesurvived 3 11-03-14 14:08
started my new job brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 10 11-03-14 14:06
unbelieveable bambi2010 4 11-03-14 12:29
tempted to contact him after no contact yummy123 26 11-03-14 11:57
How Long Classy lassie 1 11-03-14 11:22
Looking back... Dreamer14 6 11-03-14 10:34
What do you tell everyone Wiseowl123 5 11-03-14 08:22
Anxiety has subsided Ashley 1 11-03-14 06:20
His strange habits Ashley 36 11-03-14 05:14
feel quite up beat stella61 0 11-03-14 03:50
should i inform him?? destinysstar 8 11-03-14 01:54
family do :-) destinysstar 6 10-03-14 23:57
just a wee quote I got today xnotahappybunnyx 7 10-03-14 23:46
fao manicmum destinysstar 3 10-03-14 23:00
emotional day bubbles328 10 10-03-14 22:59
Hollyoaks Tinka 1 10-03-14 22:29
At a complete loss! despairing 1 10-03-14 22:03
Effects on family Head cook 2 10-03-14 21:11
Binned all the stuff SUGARB 15 10-03-14 19:14
What to do with his stuff? Catlover 1 10-03-14 18:53
having a bad day yummy123 8 10-03-14 18:46
Is this normal or still abusive??? Determinedthistime 2 10-03-14 18:20
sexual controle stella61 6 10-03-14 17:40
promises of change bubbles328 5 10-03-14 15:43
want to forget, but cant destinysstar 1 10-03-14 13:47
soo angry xnotahappybunnyx 4 10-03-14 12:54
society expects too much part two how mad am i 14 10-03-14 12:47
Court Date getting closer countrygirl71 4 10-03-14 09:28
in a mess bubbles328 5 10-03-14 08:11
What's it going to take Hope111 4 10-03-14 06:45
Would u warn new woman? Struggling 18 10-03-14 00:45
Another night another fight brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 0 10-03-14 00:44
fixed a date to collect my belongings brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 7 10-03-14 00:22
Will I.miss him? dreams of New life Tiffyco 2 09-03-14 23:18
The Silence.... MsMax 3 09-03-14 23:14
society expects far too much pink 13 09-03-14 21:58
what do i tell my parents? destinysstar 2 09-03-14 21:00
sad song and wine night bubbles328 1 09-03-14 20:26
going out with a friend today brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 6 09-03-14 19:44
receipts bubbles328 0 09-03-14 19:36
Coral Barnie 2 09-03-14 19:25
Residency and prohibited steps Mumto3 2 09-03-14 18:26
How do you stop their actions bothering you? Hope111 10 09-03-14 16:54
I am the product of him! Dreamer14 4 09-03-14 16:42
the right to know about a partner's violent past... KarmaSister 12 09-03-14 15:20
He will never change.... He doesn't want me... Dreamer14 2 09-03-14 11:42
I read a quote everyday to help with the healing Little Me 3 09-03-14 11:02
Clare's law debate on BBC1 now Catlover 1 09-03-14 10:46
Anxious night brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 4 09-03-14 10:39
Ex's family whatdoido 9 09-03-14 10:23
Was it abuse? Tiger11 4 09-03-14 10:16
Why do they try to make u jealous! Struggling 4 09-03-14 10:13
how does he get help birdbox 2 09-03-14 10:05
do you get the message now??? bubbles328 2 09-03-14 09:42
Lonely weekends - got to get used to those again Catlover 18 09-03-14 07:54
Don't know what to say lady b 8 08-03-14 23:43
do I have a case brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 9 08-03-14 23:36
International Women's Day panicattack 3 08-03-14 23:33
iv decided bubbles328 3 08-03-14 23:09
International Womens Day - some quotes to prove how brilliant we all are brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 1 08-03-14 21:12
why do judges refuse to allow video links in DV cases KarmaSister 21 08-03-14 20:23
claires law bubbles328 12 08-03-14 20:13
Nearly having a melt down Manicmum 4 08-03-14 19:59
Closure Makeastand!1 1 08-03-14 18:16
Say sorry a lot ?? Struggling 5 08-03-14 17:57
Empowerment Song bambi2010 2 08-03-14 17:45
To tell him or not to tell him Manicmum 2 08-03-14 17:28
does/did your abuser try to control your conversations with him? Ashley 27 08-03-14 17:24
Lack of shame Blue-bubble 14 08-03-14 15:17
He thinks it's funny inneed1 3 08-03-14 14:17
divorce issues destinysstar 5 08-03-14 14:16
Thought it had stopped, RaggyDoll 4 08-03-14 11:37
Can't cope with my ex, wish he did not have to be in my life gogreenlight789 1 08-03-14 10:46
Couple counselling Tinka 11 08-03-14 10:46
So I've asked my husband to leave birdbox 4 08-03-14 08:22
Day 6! Struggling 1 08-03-14 08:14
marriage certificate Blue-bubble 13 08-03-14 07:16
for brokenBUTnotDEFEATED how mad am i 2 08-03-14 00:58
Dreams of Him brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 2 08-03-14 00:24
My sister made me laugh tonight...laugh with me ladies Catlover 3 07-03-14 23:31
Does counselling help?? Classy lassie 9 07-03-14 22:50
why PurplePanda 4 07-03-14 21:42
Lundy and other worries twicesurvived 2 07-03-14 20:51
was it my fault brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 1 07-03-14 20:45
What do you do Tinka 14 07-03-14 18:57
Just had an drunken abusive phone call from my son Ashley 8 07-03-14 18:41
Girl has died today!! whatdoido 4 07-03-14 15:27
My mistake was to marry him not employ him... Tough Cookie 9 07-03-14 14:51
viewing a house on monday! Blue-bubble 3 07-03-14 12:30
Not Guilty 19bestrong1 6 07-03-14 12:29
If life took a different path SUGARB 3 07-03-14 11:26
Get out plan Mumto3 2 07-03-14 10:37
Thought we'd made it Head cook 3 07-03-14 10:23
is they courses to help us women not be to nice in the future yummy123 16 07-03-14 09:36
Have Faith onthepier 2 07-03-14 02:32
What stage are you at ? giggles 31 07-03-14 00:05
48hours and No contact brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 5 06-03-14 22:49
Having a wobble Ashley 6 06-03-14 22:02
Didn't think the peace would last!! Barnie 6 06-03-14 21:37
Got to go to court :( Willow72 3 06-03-14 21:15
animal issues destinysstar 3 06-03-14 21:05
how do you stop contacting him brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 10 06-03-14 19:37
Im so scared right now. lostmyway 6 06-03-14 19:25
feeling a little down right now bubbles328 1 06-03-14 18:48
the unavoidable legacy. to dreamer14. and thanks to those who saved my life how mad am i 9 06-03-14 18:34
his last msg brokenBUTnotDEFEATED 7 06-03-14 15:45
when they accuse you of cheating bubbles328 2 06-03-14 15:27
well done women's aid KarmaSister 8 06-03-14 14:54
Trama Bonds, RaggyDoll 2 06-03-14 13:52
HOW DID YOU MANAGE??? Classy lassie 8 06-03-14 13:16
how do you stop.. SmallStep@aTime 2 06-03-14 11:31
bit of a up and down day Struggling 1 06-03-14 10:40
what a vile horrible man bubbles328 2 06-03-14 10:21
will never be truly free destinysstar 5 06-03-14 00:15
Destinysstar and other lovely ladies....Moving on..... elizadoo 1 06-03-14 00:10
how has it changed you since you find out you was being abused??? yummy123 9 05-03-14 23:52
control freak bubbles328 10 05-03-14 23:28
Am a bit sad but feeling so much better already Ashley 4 05-03-14 21:28
He couldn't of been abusive... He left me... Dreamer14 12 05-03-14 21:27
Raggydoll sending you love and warmth and all good wishes KarmaSister 5 05-03-14 20:33
Louise casey Mumto3 3 05-03-14 18:45
seriously considering bambi2010 3 05-03-14 15:31
enough i'm done!!! xnotahappybunnyx 6 05-03-14 14:43
when you are good i will always need you and love you bubbles328 1 05-03-14 13:44
Can I just ask mitzi 2 05-03-14 11:56
substituting feeling things bubbles328 2 05-03-14 11:42
mythology bubbles328 1 05-03-14 09:54
FINDING A WAY TO STOP LOVING YR ABUSER/ EVEN MISSING THE ABUSE WHY? yummy123 4 05-03-14 08:47
He's angry Ashley 13 05-03-14 07:07
Symptoms Tinka 1 05-03-14 07:05
Great day! Struggling 2 05-03-14 00:54
Feeling stronger Hope4future 2 04-03-14 23:58
What is a "normal "relationship then ? giggles 9 04-03-14 21:41
Just Venting, RaggyDoll 3 04-03-14 21:37
really dont want to message the ex ex but im fuming hes just dropped the kids bubbles328 1 04-03-14 20:42
wierd dream....! twicesurvived 6 04-03-14 16:59
should i still go? bubbles328 2 04-03-14 09:37
Desperate to phone Classy lassie 3 04-03-14 09:31