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police say one thing and do another....arrested him tonight, cps said no trial and let him go olliebob 6 19-05-13 13:54
Joint Residency rosey1 2 17-05-13 00:01
Non-mol Clock 7 16-05-13 22:35
Hi ladies ,well here is the latest twist .. Bubbles 9 15-05-13 21:57
eventually....hes been caught out!!! at last olliebob 7 15-05-13 21:42
Feel devastated PollyC 2 15-05-13 16:40
Sorry I haven't been around lately, little court update. Ico 2 15-05-13 16:33
Re final hearing springflower 2 14-05-13 11:56
Since the CPS decided Bubbles 28 12-05-13 18:06
Pre trial therapy/medication Comfort1 17 10-05-13 22:58
Lost faith completely now CB27 28 09-05-13 22:12
ShoeButterfly563 Are we there yet? 6 09-05-13 09:17
Worried... PollyC 6 08-05-13 23:30
Sentencing Friday... yoyo 4 08-05-13 16:23
Have to give video evidence Ashley 7 05-05-13 20:29
well I could've screamed at the judge troubled88 6 04-05-13 18:47
struggling to understand nelladean 18 04-05-13 12:24
I think he's found a new method of harassment Determined 2 03-05-13 12:17
tomorrow I can finally start to put him and this mess behind me troubled88 9 03-05-13 09:57
There may be some justice...? Tesserae 4 02-05-13 23:28
Ladies urgent re Nelladean. Please please read Guardian angels 59 02-05-13 23:21
When will he be out of prison? sasha82 14 02-05-13 21:55
Does anyone know why... Are we there yet? 1 02-05-13 21:21
brick thru windows now police conntacted can't prove it was him pinklady 12 02-05-13 20:02
He's being sentenced today Fluffyhun 15 02-05-13 14:18
OMG.......... springflower 4 01-05-13 23:00
Restraining orders.... And how to lift them miss kitty 11 01-05-13 21:06
Court later Confused29 6 01-05-13 17:14
torn apart nelladean 25 01-05-13 13:03
why does it go from bad to good? pinklady 2 30-04-13 08:55
legal aid mess up inneed1 11 29-04-13 21:23
parole hearing? soashamed 15 28-04-13 22:09
advice. Blessedbyanangel 2 26-04-13 21:36
Looks like going back again! desperatereturn 2 26-04-13 20:41
On Breakfast news today wendy34 8 26-04-13 13:12
out of prison sending threats! Blessedbyanangel 2 26-04-13 07:11
I need some help on legal matters inneed1 6 25-04-13 23:34
Legal Aid help MsMax 4 25-04-13 23:13
legal aid Anon1979 19 23-04-13 21:12
there is hope!!! yoyo 18 22-04-13 09:58
next wk springflower 2 19-04-13 22:52
contact? troubled 5 19-04-13 19:34
Divorce in court today Lizzyloo 9 19-04-13 18:14
struggling today......feel like im heading downwards olliebob 4 19-04-13 13:38
court order update! :( Blessedbyanangel 8 18-04-13 20:20
just need someone to say he won't take my children nelladean 9 18-04-13 20:01
Everything is just getting worse... ForeverFeelingThisWay 3 18-04-13 14:39
even more scared nelladean 9 18-04-13 11:26
voice recordings. elizadoo 11 17-04-13 23:24
I feel so drained right now!! :( lifeolife 2 17-04-13 21:53
broke 3 written agreements help!!!! missyme31 8 17-04-13 21:03
Police visit wendy34 6 17-04-13 17:19
thought of u all today at court, represented myself regardless of intimidation, and they listened!!! olliebob 18 17-04-13 11:17
Husband allowing mortgage arrears, help desperatereturn 3 16-04-13 21:35
court tomorrow.....im a nervous wreck olliebob 11 16-04-13 08:38
Still being harrased even after bail conditions in place Ruby22 4 15-04-13 07:37
Victim impact statement Fluffyhun 1 14-04-13 09:35
do things get emotional easier after all arrangements in court are made? peace-NO-abuse 4 14-04-13 00:12
ex's appeal/How do residenc' orders work please flo 1 12-04-13 15:11
can't take any more nelladean 3 12-04-13 13:41
all orders servrd and police have told me to wait till 10am to meet for handover!! olliebob 3 11-04-13 23:39
been to court now the police have to locate my child... olliebob 6 11-04-13 19:24
The Non-Molestation order was lost in the post!! Anon1979 2 11-04-13 19:11
had enough with being tortured by the so called justice system! ! troubled88 1 11-04-13 18:07
SO confused cs 5 11-04-13 16:57
11 hours later.....police still havent been olliebob 6 10-04-13 23:49
Reporting old abuse Ashley 2 09-04-13 02:18
hes taken my child, dragged me from a car whilst my children screamed watching...i can take no more olliebob 7 08-04-13 21:07
Reporting past events Pumpkinpot 5 08-04-13 11:35
Just heard from the police ... Bubbles 9 04-04-13 18:30
Your thoughts on a plea bargain? cs 7 03-04-13 18:22
The Police Tesserae 4 01-04-13 17:54
Good cop ,Bad cop ..wow .. Bubbles 14 29-03-13 23:28
Justice for 'domestic' violence committed years ago? Maat 7 29-03-13 08:10
The Police ... Bubbles 11 28-03-13 17:42
Trial date set GirlOnFire 14 24-03-13 19:54
Help needed Lizzyloo 3 22-03-13 22:58
Lies, lies and more lies! Are we there yet? 6 22-03-13 09:13
He is up to something elektra 4 21-03-13 21:27
Hearing for occupation order and non-molestation order is tomorrow elektra 5 20-03-13 16:13
im taking the next step - petrified rockystinker 5 20-03-13 12:41
Just as I suspected, court didn't go great. Ico 7 20-03-13 08:34
scared of court :-( 1231. 10 19-03-13 22:55
Feel let down PollyC 3 19-03-13 22:30
Court tomorrow can't sleep :( Ico 2 19-03-13 10:09
Pushed to the edge PollyC 6 19-03-13 09:01
Legal aid TinyToes 6 19-03-13 07:57
Given ex parte non mol and hearing for occupation order by Thursday elektra 5 18-03-13 20:43
Solicitors appointment today inneed1 2 18-03-13 17:48
Police arrested him then released without charge elektra 1 18-03-13 07:56
Mediation TinyToes 2 18-03-13 00:19
Why do family courts side with abusers? I feel helpless again PollyC 6 17-03-13 14:16
reporting mental abuse nearlyout 8 16-03-13 20:35
Very traumatic day Lizzyloo 10 15-03-13 20:11
Should make a complaint? Ico 3 15-03-13 12:18
He was found guilty!! Theateam 2 14-03-13 14:16
Does anyone know what happens after a section 7 report? Escapes 2 14-03-13 12:47
I don't know if I should call the police inneed1 12 14-03-13 12:07
It all feels hopeless Pumpkinpot 3 14-03-13 12:01
very confusing situation.. please help!!! lifeolife 2 14-03-13 11:30
Anyone that's had dealings with CAFCASS... Ico 7 13-03-13 19:35
PR freshstart 2 13-03-13 17:52
separation or call it a day? babyblue12345***** 7 13-03-13 15:05
Ancillary relief hearings and enforcement order Kia Kaha Wahine 2 12-03-13 23:54
having doubts cs 4 11-03-13 18:18
Guilty Hopenothate 9 09-03-13 08:28
Advice please!! busymum 2 08-03-13 14:42
Restraining order - advice cara 3 08-03-13 13:12
been off site for ages pingu2 2 07-03-13 22:19
Trial tomorrow. Petrified Hopenothate 6 07-03-13 16:25
Kicking him in the balls GirlOnFire 4 07-03-13 13:39
Feeling guilty about reporting anonymous 9 07-03-13 13:20
In praise of my lovely local DV officer..... Tough Cookie 5 06-03-13 22:58
could anyone enlighten me?? cross roads 1 06-03-13 19:39
How do I retain sole residency ? Someday 17 06-03-13 17:01
Court Tea 7 05-03-13 11:48
1 year no contact & boom! pls I need your support Orangutan 4 04-03-13 23:08
How Could He Plead Not Guilty?! Tigger-Doesn't-Bounce 2 04-03-13 20:14
Need help with what injunctions to get against ex for court case next Monday, pls help! Theateam 2 04-03-13 15:38
Please help I feel like im loosing it Beau 3 04-03-13 14:21
It isn't me now but it used to be me and does that make it my fault? elektra 2 03-03-13 21:36
Restraining Order Beau 9 03-03-13 15:40
Injunctions Tea 2 02-03-13 14:35
What do the courts take as proof of emotional and psychological abuse? nonidentifiablenickname 9 02-03-13 13:33
Can public protection help with court transfer whysitsohard 1 28-02-13 15:29
Falling over the edge - please help Tigger-Doesn't-Bounce 4 28-02-13 07:50
Desperate Court Advice yoyo 1 27-02-13 23:16
after court do they write to you? anotherday12 1 26-02-13 16:56
restraining order/now stalking help.. poppywillow 6 25-02-13 23:25
Solicitors costs - help Survivor78 3 25-02-13 14:18
Advice! He's obsessed!!!! Beau 13 24-02-13 19:29
he knows how serious it is now anotherday12 2 23-02-13 16:34
advice needed please... flipper! 3 22-02-13 23:11
It's me again.. Need more advice ForeverFeelingThisWay 2 22-02-13 12:37
worried for the back lash confused13 2 20-02-13 22:56
please help :( Snowdrops 5 20-02-13 22:24
small claims court rockystinker 5 20-02-13 18:48
Helpppppppp! :( ForeverFeelingThisWay 2 19-02-13 00:27
Do the courts hear from me? Tesserae 20 18-02-13 23:45
Feel like giving up. So scared Hopenothate 2 18-02-13 19:10
Losing hope. Catticus 1 18-02-13 13:14
He handed himself in Lolliloo 1 18-02-13 07:32
looking for a different view of things inneed1 4 17-02-13 22:12
All I need is a proper night sleep .... springflower 1 17-02-13 21:48
What can I expect from the first court appearance? nonidentifiablenickname 4 17-02-13 09:40
I've been failed by..... springflower 0 17-02-13 00:46
Marac? Moo 3 17-02-13 00:23
giving a victim personal statement anotherday12 11 16-02-13 18:59
Exhausted trying to hold it together Djc37 0 15-02-13 20:43
Court case soon ForeverFeelingThisWay 6 14-02-13 11:39
help as regards law how mad am i 2 12-02-13 11:45
help glitter 3 11-02-13 12:58
Advice please. GBH WITHOUT INTENT Pottery girl 2 09-02-13 13:32
so low :( troubled88 13 07-02-13 15:48
And so it starts Lizzyloo 4 06-02-13 21:32
Mr Reasonable has visited the solicitor.. Tough Cookie 9 05-02-13 22:49
Cross-Petition Divorce / Answer Form bolly1 3 05-02-13 14:57
CAFASS freshstart 2 04-02-13 09:48
i feel like what im doing is hurting him now anotherday12 5 04-02-13 00:42
im so worried!!!!! lifeolife 8 03-02-13 20:18
If I contact my ex whilst he is on bail and I am a witness, can I get in trouble Hopenothate 10 28-01-13 19:52
Going to court for emergency orders tomorrow - so scared he will see what I;ve reported! Escapes 10 27-01-13 20:17
OMG the court ruled in my favour! Lizzyloo 5 27-01-13 04:25
V low more out in the open in the local paper flo 3 25-01-13 17:14
They never change!! tinyclanger 7 24-01-13 22:57
Falling to pieces Tigger-Doesn't-Bounce 1 24-01-13 18:03
Please help. cs 25 24-01-13 15:44
court for plea hearing, what happens? anotherday12 2 23-01-13 21:13
Just so worried PollyC 5 22-01-13 18:17
He's applied for bail jbuckley 2 22-01-13 15:33
angry that I can't stand up to him nelladean 7 21-01-13 20:45
Consider This... Empowered 0 21-01-13 20:44
Feel so let down by courts and the system 123 2 21-01-13 18:44
How to get legal aid? Escapes 1 20-01-13 16:36
What sentence will he get? Hopenothate 10 18-01-13 20:50
Wish me luck.... PollyC 4 17-01-13 20:35
So distressed tonight he's started a custodial scentance Lizzyloo 7 16-01-13 23:20
human rights who do i contact whysitsohard 4 14-01-13 16:20
am i being ripped off by the divorce solicitor ? 8msmdfss 1 12-01-13 16:29
Dilemma! MilfordSound 4 12-01-13 08:28
So complicated... PollyC 7 11-01-13 15:33
the judge to me to stop being malicious! clover 7 10-01-13 21:39
another delay, and trying to pick myself up nelladean 9 10-01-13 16:13
he is back in contact... wendy34 1 10-01-13 00:05
worried about being cross examined in court.. PollyC 6 09-01-13 20:51
ex met me from work, what he said has drained me Hopenothate 6 08-01-13 23:04
He doesn't care blondey86 15 07-01-13 23:27
If you mutually contact each other during bail, will the police/courts throw the case out? Hopenothate 6 06-01-13 09:22
So ashamed, confused, not sure what to think Hopenothate 7 05-01-13 19:06
The same Police officer came to my house today and his comments were even worse! Lady Luck 8 05-01-13 09:14
Reporting to the police...any advice Escapes 1 04-01-13 22:56
IT'S STILL NOT OVER :-( extra-large-momma 8 04-01-13 16:59
Fool blondey86 4 04-01-13 14:06
Messed up so badly :( forestfox 6 03-01-13 13:18
he's been in touch despite bail conditions anotherday12 4 03-01-13 01:38
I came clean, and he gets to walk away.. I GIVE UP! AlternativeGirl87 8 02-01-13 15:29
contempt of court? or police clover 1 31-12-12 16:34
He tried to get ME removed and got arrested! AlternativeGirl87 2 31-12-12 15:41
so stupid Hopenothate 18 31-12-12 09:34
Am so angry and need advice rayofsunshine 0 30-12-12 22:23
Moving tomorrow! Ashley 9 29-12-12 16:35
He is trying to get to me plus social services are coming to my house next week Hopenothate 3 29-12-12 07:35
Why do I feel so guilty? Taz 9 28-12-12 16:20
confused about Non Molestation order Hopenothate 3 28-12-12 07:55
back to the station Hopenothate 0 27-12-12 22:13
apperently hes in a bail hostel wishingforpeaceandhappiness 2 27-12-12 10:08
so down. He is being charged Hopenothate 2 26-12-12 00:17
Police Station and hospital on Christmas morning Hopenothate 6 25-12-12 12:14
Why am I being called to the Police Station? Tilly86 15 24-12-12 10:03
no court nelladean 3 23-12-12 20:19
so deeply hurt myfault 8 22-12-12 19:30
had the police reports through today - shocked ladylumps21 4 22-12-12 16:05
Restraining order TinyToes 7 21-12-12 09:43
How did JLC case go all the way? FreedomFlower 0 19-12-12 17:35
worst case scenario myfault 27 18-12-12 13:53
Feel defeated PollyC 9 15-12-12 21:12
Data protection stronger_now 2 14-12-12 20:24
Ex's family taking me to court FreedomFlower 8 14-12-12 19:47
It's getting messy now. In too deep Lolliloo 6 14-12-12 10:06
feels like im loosing everything anotherday12 6 14-12-12 01:21
:'( Back to square one. Feel like im back to the start. Court results. x_blueyes_x 3 13-12-12 21:55
likely outcome of being charged with criminal damage? anotherday12 3 13-12-12 13:41
I retracted my statement Lolliloo 3 13-12-12 10:41
What a joke......that's it now till the next time! Ridiculous in every way olliebob 5 13-12-12 09:47
He won't stop stealing and lying to me! Lady Luck 11 12-12-12 22:17
Feeling like he's won yet again what is the point in this XbrownieX 5 12-12-12 22:11
court in morning whysitsohard 4 12-12-12 13:12
court tomorrow......my head will be held high, wish me luck x olliebob 4 12-12-12 11:35
how to find out the court date? anotherday12 8 12-12-12 11:16
I've never been so low XbrownieX 3 11-12-12 20:54
I've had enough of this!!!!! XbrownieX 4 10-12-12 22:27
Being arrested tonight for breaking bail conditions XbrownieX 2 10-12-12 18:30
feeling so sad nelladean 2 09-12-12 20:07
he's out on bail anotherday12 2 09-12-12 20:03
Pushing me to far :( XbrownieX 1 09-12-12 18:04
The police have just phoned me! Ashley 3 09-12-12 12:23
he hates me then loves me then hates me anotherday12 4 08-12-12 17:00
Lisa - alerting the police by text message Beau 6 08-12-12 15:12
Anyone been to court? Strongernow 4 07-12-12 14:05
I'm badly beaten and he got off with self defence....why why?? Giselle 3 06-12-12 12:36
eeek court on friday!! advice please! x_blueyes_x 1 06-12-12 09:11
Well now it's his (removed by moderator) Lolliloo 1 05-12-12 15:43
Urgent advice please Beau 4 05-12-12 08:22
So wound up Beau 7 03-12-12 00:20
my last attempt at being heard, then its mps and papers....how do i do this though? olliebob 4 30-11-12 23:18
im being taken to court for enforcement order? anybody know what this is..... olliebob 2 30-11-12 10:05
feeling very low olliebob 5 29-11-12 23:27
No answers....is he out there? maybe watching me! im so paranoid SmallStep@aTime 4 26-11-12 08:54
More Lies how to cope? zana 2 24-11-12 16:23
Worried about having to change solicitor PollyC 5 24-11-12 01:22
In total utter despair i just dont know how to go on Tobefree 4 23-11-12 22:36
hello am a neebiw want some advice (post DA sit) you don't fiken me 3 23-11-12 17:58
emergency application to court..... olliebob 1 23-11-12 09:10
what do i do? Marionette 5 22-11-12 23:11
court tommorow zana 2 22-11-12 21:44
They have arrested him and put him on bail springflower 3 22-11-12 19:41
Feeling detached Beau 3 22-11-12 00:57
Help......... springflower 1 21-11-12 23:37
CPS dropped charges Buffy 12 21-11-12 21:51
alone and waiting ..... springflower 4 21-11-12 19:26
yippppeeeeee CAFFCAS yet again springflower 3 21-11-12 19:15
Hello from mermaid going to financial mediation tomorrow mermaid 2 21-11-12 17:24
one big mess Marionette 2 21-11-12 14:59
It's all such a huge mess Beau 6 21-11-12 11:15
My statement Beau 8 20-11-12 23:42
such a mess and dont know which way to go anotherday12 1 20-11-12 21:07
Residence orders twilight123 8 19-11-12 20:51
Hey Ladies, not posted on here in ages Linky 11 19-11-12 16:07
Results from the police station SmallStep@aTime 1 15-11-12 09:38
Been told to upticks asap Beau 2 14-11-12 12:45
court tomorrow -re contact angelgirl 8 14-11-12 06:42
Some good news.. PollyC 6 13-11-12 21:17
Holding my head high..... springflower 1 13-11-12 14:13
Compensation ifeelblue 5 09-11-12 23:51
Defamation of character Catlover 7 09-11-12 23:44
COURT TODAY Dont know how to cope :( Build up to him in court im fine.... x_blueyes_x 8 09-11-12 20:25
Need some strength PollyC 8 09-11-12 19:45
Help to complain about the police Orangutan 2 09-11-12 09:49
Frightened, but glad the police know springflower 1 09-11-12 00:31
advice need please ??? whysitsohard 2 07-11-12 13:16
Prohibited Steps Court Hearing Tabbypeg 2 06-11-12 11:36
Worried not being taken seriously enough ... scampers101 3 06-11-12 00:14
HELP - will I find out first if he will be charged? Buffy 18 02-11-12 19:53
At last I have a date. springflower 4 01-11-12 21:29
Re Statement to police springflower 5 01-11-12 21:03
The waiting game isn't fun springflower 2 25-10-12 13:16
Have just spoken to police Ashley 1 24-10-12 11:48
update- been to court. ladylumps21 6 20-10-12 13:04
Just had phone call from Police Tilly86 16 16-10-12 22:17
Violent Ex Now In Prison? tails4sonic 6 16-10-12 17:39
Anyone able to give advice on representing yourself in cour? angelgirl 3 16-10-12 12:29
Please can anyone share their experiences about taking ex to court on harassment charge? Theateam 1 15-10-12 16:42
Crown court tomorrow end of the rainbow 14 15-10-12 14:46
Representing myself in court and extremely nervous!! NurseyRebs 16 15-10-12 11:19
cant eat because of stress angelgirl 5 14-10-12 04:57
when to move on nelladean 2 12-10-12 20:42
Police aren't listening Buffy 5 12-10-12 16:14
Feel so let down at the moment Intheshade 1 11-10-12 22:04
Will this cause me uneccessary pain Tobefree 11 11-10-12 13:13
Witnesses Buffy 4 10-10-12 22:31
Court visit today, case starts nxt week! end of the rainbow 5 10-10-12 11:34
overtaken by guilt zana 4 09-10-12 20:05
how long does it take ? magpie 2 09-10-12 11:43
I've reported him Tilly86 28 09-10-12 11:36
Breached Restraining order already !! Sweetlilac 11 06-10-12 19:14
Divorce – Irreconcilable Differences 'v' Unreasonable Behaviour nicole 7 04-10-12 22:58
Scared... am I doing the right thing???? zana 2 03-10-12 12:35
Victim Impact Statement anyone done one? harassment Theateam 8 01-10-12 16:59
Statement whysitsohard 1 28-09-12 00:22
do you know what a letter of intention is? Freewoman 2 27-09-12 18:18
Court tommorow sleepingdogs 11 26-09-12 09:55
Abuser breaking bail conditions. Getting Stronger 4 25-09-12 08:44
things i have offered my ex rockystinker 4 24-09-12 16:53
will i ever be free? mummylion 8 22-09-12 16:37
please help me needing advice Tobefree 14 22-09-12 16:14
Angry and sad peace-NO-abuse 1 22-09-12 15:58
I'm terrifield about going to court Linky 2 22-09-12 14:50
why does everyone believe them? Skye 6 21-09-12 12:35
To Sunshine Smile re the CPS sunshine 1 19-09-12 16:36
evidence angrybitter&twisted 3 14-09-12 20:58
At a loss worriedmummy 2 13-09-12 08:47
Likely punishment? blondey86 2 12-09-12 23:19
should i go to court for my own self closure? yorvikprincess 4 12-09-12 22:18
Court date nearing and I feel sick! end of the rainbow 6 12-09-12 20:51
Has anyone changed their solicitor? Beau 5 10-09-12 22:58
Help!! Police have definately lost my evidence! Orangutan 2 10-09-12 21:25
I am scared - and worried I'm getting paranoid sunshine smile 2 10-09-12 14:42
playing mind games angelgirl 1 10-09-12 10:18
scared of the consequences shirly 3 04-09-12 17:56
Just filed a complaint; looking for support/advice/experiences with police etc. crocodile 6 03-09-12 01:06
Feeling so low and alone SarahJane 4 31-08-12 15:22
before filing divorce papers Ketugraha 3 29-08-12 21:17
He's adjourned crown court again!!! Tips please Orangutan 3 29-08-12 18:35
Children&court, advice please Loopz 7 28-08-12 21:09
Still controlled Butterfly1120 2 26-08-12 18:02
Fact finding over Butterfly1120 2 25-08-12 15:08
Feeling completely betrayed by the legal system :-( Petal 4 25-08-12 12:28
YES, some justise empty 6 24-08-12 11:51
decree nisi tkf 1 22-08-12 11:12
Worried and confused Butterfly1380 6 21-08-12 14:36
He pled not guilty FouD'elle 3 21-08-12 11:05
It's true Beau 2 21-08-12 10:41
Quite a day dreamer7369 5 21-08-12 08:05
Apparently he's in prison Beau 9 19-08-12 22:41
what happens when you report abuse to the police Little sunflower 5 19-08-12 21:09
Ex released on bail, fear for life yoyo 3 17-08-12 13:58
Justice! What's that? CandyCaneArmy 3 16-08-12 15:14
Poss a mistake.. scared2011 6 15-08-12 22:02
family court-he won't stop nelladean 8 15-08-12 20:37
Is there no justice empty 8 14-08-12 15:32
he went guilty on all charges but one!! yay there is a god!! yorvikprincess 3 13-08-12 22:10
Divorce advice - how do divorce these kind of monsters :-( Moving On 2012 3 11-08-12 21:44
Don't think cops all understand DV scared2011 2 11-08-12 18:18
Cops taking my statement today feel so guilty... scared2011 2 11-08-12 14:15
Back from cops scared2011 3 10-08-12 21:32
today beano 1 10-08-12 16:03
He is still in control Marmite 5 10-08-12 11:56
Non molestation order? TinyToes 7 09-08-12 12:28
Charge changed to (number removed by moderator) of ABH Orangutan 2 03-08-12 16:58
the Hague Conventions-anyone experience with this? peace-NO-abuse 2 02-08-12 18:29
does anyone know.... suffering 5 02-08-12 09:33
feel like i've been hit by a sledghammer citizensmith 22 01-08-12 19:26
mixed emotions Marionette 2 31-07-12 11:33
I am exhausted Marionette 5 28-07-12 12:07
called the police today Marionette 11 27-07-12 00:14
gggrrrrr!!!! Marionette 3 26-07-12 11:42
Solicitor called Petal 4 25-07-12 01:08
I'm a newbie! Just wanted to hear about other women's experiences when taken EX to court. Theateam 4 24-07-12 10:16
Hit an all time low Tobefree 4 24-07-12 03:52
BBC news Clare's Law - update ka3n 12 21-07-12 20:28
where is justice? drose 5 21-07-12 11:15
Help please....... springflower 2 20-07-12 15:04
Does anyone know Beau 5 19-07-12 10:11
Help urgent advice Beau 2 17-07-12 22:48
ADVICE-Police have 'lost' my evidence Orangutan 6 17-07-12 22:36
Devastated and Upset drose 4 17-07-12 10:41
argh police been incontact he wants to change bail conditions. x_blueyes_x 8 17-07-12 10:25
A new scheme ? inneed1 4 16-07-12 16:30
A bit scared and anxious buzzby 3 15-07-12 11:05
a summer of Hell springflower 2 13-07-12 10:14
Can't describe how I feel, so confused and court tomorrow Tatters 2 13-07-12 09:10
The CPS Beau 21 12-07-12 21:34
update anxiousann 2 11-07-12 22:20
KKW Someday 3 11-07-12 21:36
I am done Someday 3 11-07-12 20:04
Can't believe she did that !!! Someday 3 11-07-12 16:54
its starting again :( yorvikprincess 2 11-07-12 10:48
Ollibob Someday 0 11-07-12 00:06
Court today - I am in shock - Help Someday 1 10-07-12 23:48
Been advised to move Tatters 1 09-07-12 23:22
advice on getting an injunction needed anxiousann 4 09-07-12 12:07
Just gets worse Givemestrength 0 09-07-12 08:18
Reporting to IDAP WSO Beau 4 05-07-12 14:53
Losing it Givemestrength 1 02-07-12 18:54
I heart so much springflower 4 30-06-12 17:37
How should I be feeling expectant81 9 28-06-12 23:40
Court starts tomorrow Petal 24 28-06-12 11:00
what do you do when you realise he doesnt actually give a s**t :'( x_blueyes_x 7 28-06-12 00:48
Young and confussed to what to do. Please help me!! :'( x_blueyes_x 8 28-06-12 00:38
Sheer and utter panic/fear setting in. Tatters 3 27-06-12 20:21
court- appointed guardian honeybee 1 26-06-12 22:56
Waiting still Givemestrength 7 23-06-12 18:10
will it ever end springflower 6 23-06-12 17:54
Not sure anymore buzzby 4 23-06-12 16:54
Feeling so down Freedom20 14 23-06-12 15:22
I wish I could express myself more clearly inneed1 2 22-06-12 17:30
His statement Beau 13 22-06-12 16:49
Compulsive liar! Petal 6 22-06-12 12:37
Practical advice for family court needed Beau 7 21-06-12 20:52
What a clown he is! Give him enough rope, Beau 7 20-06-12 21:53
How much will this help?? Freedom20 1 20-06-12 21:38
catch 22 nettie2 6 19-06-12 22:09
time running out piey 5 19-06-12 16:29
what a day buzzby 1 18-06-12 23:07
Loney and upset Bumble bee 5 18-06-12 19:32
wishing i could just run away from the court case yorvikprincess 4 18-06-12 00:40
Court today .......... sunshine 4 15-06-12 23:08
Court on Tuesday beingbrave 9 15-06-12 15:37
why is it so hard to move forward springflower 1 15-06-12 14:45
Court tomorrow ..... sunshine 3 14-06-12 19:08
Fed up with the legal system suntree 1 14-06-12 10:51
Feel so sick today Givemestrength 3 13-06-12 12:09
NFA. Help Tallulah 3 11-06-12 23:44
Huge panics this evening - debilitating Beau 2 08-06-12 22:55
Crown Court-postponed :( Upset Orangutan 2 08-06-12 22:43
Help please....... springflower 4 08-06-12 21:48
The police want to see me Ashley 12 07-06-12 22:32
that's that citizensmith 7 07-06-12 18:19
he is on remand im in bits and cant face court if he goes not guilty... yorvikprincess 12 03-06-12 16:04
ridiculous decision by crown court judge.... tinyclanger 7 01-06-12 21:45
court in the morning impy 9 30-05-12 11:49
Court date Beau 0 28-05-12 06:46
Witnesses at crown court? Orangutan 5 27-05-12 21:37
The jury is out... littleone 16 27-05-12 19:42
why do I feel so bad springflower 2 26-05-12 09:35
hes dropping ALL allegations against me.....cannot stop crying happy tears!!!! olliebob 7 25-05-12 15:13
He'll never stop nelladean 2 25-05-12 11:11
waiting ? 12 24-05-12 23:43
He messed up again ladies. Someday 1 24-05-12 07:12
bail ? 4 21-05-12 00:10
Heads all over the place! Cookie 3 18-05-12 20:26
4th week of trial... littleone 13 18-05-12 11:47
lisa springflower 1 17-05-12 21:59
charge change79 5 17-05-12 21:08
Next step....Police? Katherine10 13 14-05-12 23:10
changed my mind change79 6 14-05-12 22:06
He's sending me messages Beau 7 14-05-12 15:07
Postiver outcome crazychick 3 14-05-12 10:03
Outcome of court case aliceinwonderland 3 13-05-12 21:52
do I go to refuge tmoro,have I messed things up?! yorvikprincess 6 13-05-12 20:48
I need to off load.... Black Horse 4 13-05-12 20:36
court at end of week - dont think i can go through this littleone21 5 13-05-12 10:29
Guilty Guilty Guilty angel 7 10-05-12 18:05
how long for the divorce nisi to arrive shannon 6 09-05-12 22:08
breach of bail but police let him go - advice urgently please littleone21 3 08-05-12 07:53
Can you subponea someone to attend family court? Beau 2 04-05-12 15:13
ash,awoken,kkw,lisa....anyone who knows the history i need advice please.... olliebob 5 04-05-12 13:26
Court & disclosure of what he did twiglet 7 04-05-12 09:18
Couldn't sleep last night Beau 3 03-05-12 13:40
dont know what to do brokensoul-07 2 03-05-12 11:41
Court today .... sunshine 6 03-05-12 07:40
I heart so much springflower 3 02-05-12 12:00
Dear God Black Horse 8 30-04-12 10:09
Finally spoken to CAFCASS .............. sunshine 5 28-04-12 16:39
Arsema Dawit citizensmith 3 26-04-12 22:29
Todays the day. fizz 4 26-04-12 15:15
Court Update BlueBird 4 25-04-12 08:06
Court, emotionally abusive ex, not sure anyone else sees the truth(really long sorry). rainbowfighter 4 24-04-12 14:32
mmm another breech of suspended tinyclanger 0 24-04-12 10:31
My solicitor Beau 1 23-04-12 22:20
Feeling positive for once Beau 2 23-04-12 16:31
advice needed littleone21 2 22-04-12 15:15
Trial starts next week... littleone 12 21-04-12 21:26
It's the weekend Beau 1 21-04-12 11:18
I'm a mess again .... sunshine 3 20-04-12 23:14
give me strength! citizensmith 3 20-04-12 17:47
Help need constructive advice, what to include in my reply statement Beau 2 20-04-12 15:42
cant believe this :( brokensoul-07 7 20-04-12 13:56
Just out of family court help needed urgently! Beau 8 19-04-12 21:51
What is the point in the court setting deadlines Beau 5 19-04-12 20:27
court hearing again crazychick 5 19-04-12 19:53
Repeated breaches of restraining order and police doing nothing! expectant81 4 19-04-12 18:48
So sad when will this stop????!!!! Please help me Beau 1 18-04-12 21:18
It's all happening/about to happen ............ sunshine 3 18-04-12 14:31
Help Beau 3 18-04-12 13:24
So peed off!!!!!!! Beau 2 17-04-12 21:57
Scared Freedom7 3 16-04-12 16:44
I`ve just signed a petition to give that b**t**d Shane Jenkins Life Trina 5 16-04-12 13:21
Solicitors letter recieved-advice needed please elizabeth31 5 14-04-12 19:47
Help - court soon and still haven't had his statement or seen cafcass what do I do? Beau 2 14-04-12 07:41
Grrrr!! angelgirl 1 13-04-12 12:40
court proceedings brokensoul-07 1 13-04-12 07:50
I can see why people give up! citizensmith 4 12-04-12 21:14
letter from solicitor shirly 3 12-04-12 13:58
Legal definition of assault - a MUST read Black Horse 7 09-04-12 23:05
:( brokensoul-07 2 08-04-12 16:43
laughable citizensmith 3 05-04-12 08:56
let down again scrumpy 4 04-04-12 15:26
He's applied for residency/contact - I'm scared sunshine 4 02-04-12 18:43
scared , even though he has gone littleone21 3 31-03-12 00:27
Court tomorrow beingbrave 15 30-03-12 22:48
Worried fizz 5 28-03-12 23:53
All my fight has gone fizz 7 28-03-12 09:28
Feel sick end of the rainbow 4 27-03-12 19:33
Legal aid Beau 1 27-03-12 15:43
5 1/2 hour police interview jarsofclay 2 26-03-12 23:04
Please...I really do need help citizensmith 8 26-03-12 17:58
Non Mol order beingbrave 2 25-03-12 18:06
Court papers served today Livia 4 22-03-12 18:28
Police and Data Protection - worth doing especially those who haven't had the best experience with the police x sunshine 5 22-03-12 18:11
recieved the solicitors letter i hope i wouldn't recieve :( elizabeth31 7 19-03-12 10:41
Thank you and never give up scrumpy 3 15-03-12 18:21
so angry....he's dragging me to court expectant81 2 10-03-12 23:21
I'm so scared empty 2 10-03-12 23:13
Stalking to become a crime sunshine 0 08-03-12 11:44
psychology reports... moomie 4 08-03-12 10:45
Indefinate Injunction - help please justbecoz 4 07-03-12 23:09
help, Chloe 10 07-03-12 22:13
Anyone interested? citizensmith 11 07-03-12 20:12
do they have an internal delete,making them truly think they have done nothing keep smiling 2 07-03-12 16:13
Help, why do I feel like this? beingbrave 4 07-03-12 10:17
Getting Cold Feet ... missblues 1 07-03-12 06:44
so angry!!!! this has got to stop... olliebob 4 06-03-12 22:11
What do I say scrumpy 2 06-03-12 20:26
Am hoping this is going to be enough... springflower 5 06-03-12 16:49
clare's law eva 0 05-03-12 22:40
Blocked calls Athena 3 04-03-12 11:53
Blocked calls Athena 2 04-03-12 09:45
great great great morning at court......AT LAST!! olliebob 12 01-03-12 23:13
legal reps refuse 2 inform judge of my WA involvement!!! keepsmilingxx 4 01-03-12 13:50
O,k COURT TOMORROW........... springflower 12 01-03-12 09:11
spanner in the works today before court tomorrow... olliebob 4 29-02-12 21:11
Going to court!! Gemini88 1 29-02-12 16:19
Emergency hearing-help? nelladean 3 29-02-12 15:12
Court once again... springflower 4 28-02-12 22:56
when can i call the police? PurpleButterfly 10 27-02-12 17:09
age limit to testify at trial, does anyone know ? moomie 1 26-02-12 20:43
huge thank you for advice!!! Seashell 2 24-02-12 21:59
burgled again, its starting to be every day pigeon 4 24-02-12 10:37
Lisa springflower 5 19-02-12 10:55
police whysitsohard 9 18-02-12 23:48
police whysitsohard 0 18-02-12 19:24
police whysitsohard 0 18-02-12 19:24
had to phone police again pigeon 1 17-02-12 18:00
Women police officers and dv Athena 9 11-02-12 21:22
Waiting for psychological report... nelladean 2 10-02-12 19:22
Hurt empty 1 10-02-12 11:50
He's pleaded not guilty... littleone 17 08-02-12 17:22
reported him to the police unlucky39 2 07-02-12 22:18
Does it get any easier? (Sorry this is long) ConfusedNScared 5 06-02-12 21:42
Non-molestation order MishMash 5 06-02-12 19:20
I have to give him access to the house today insomnia 6 06-02-12 17:45
I'm stuck and need to talk springflower 4 06-02-12 11:09
Does it get any easier? (Sorry this is long) ConfusedNScared 1 05-02-12 13:43
Indefinate Injunction - any tips please justbecoz 5 03-02-12 20:21
What's he up to? empty 4 03-02-12 11:06
A small victory.... Hope21 5 02-02-12 22:57
He was sentenced today Betty 14 01-02-12 18:04
Feeling helpless Nonamehere 2 31-01-12 12:57
can I get protection through the court insomnia 4 31-01-12 01:40
Thank you ladies KiaKahaWahine 8 29-01-12 15:46
Feel I'm falling apart end of the rainbow 2 26-01-12 23:50
Representing yourself? Chloe 4 26-01-12 21:04
Ex stalking his children Independent lady 4 24-01-12 16:50
I get to keep the kids :-) KiaKahaWahine 19 24-01-12 10:47
Need you to think of me KiaKahaWahine 24 23-01-12 19:05
non-molestation orders - anyone got one? snowbunny 8 22-01-12 18:04
Non mol order running out springflower 1 20-01-12 08:40
A small shift in the balance of power/control! Chloe 5 18-01-12 23:11
Do I listen to my head or heart!!!!! springflower 5 17-01-12 21:13
Help!!! end of the rainbow 2 17-01-12 16:28
Betty would love to know end of the rainbow 0 12-01-12 16:17
Charged!!!!!!!! end of the rainbow 6 12-01-12 09:31
Is it possible to Hate the air he breaths? angrybitter&twisted 6 08-01-12 06:14
Like slow torture end of the rainbow 7 07-01-12 17:06
*i wrote my statement!!!* keepsmilingxx 1 05-01-12 21:13
Court...any advice? Betty 5 04-01-12 16:46
Filed it anyway beingbrave 4 03-01-12 20:28
Freaking out KiaKahaWahine 12 31-12-11 21:48
Dilemma No win situation Trina 12 31-12-11 00:47
pointless citizensmith 4 30-12-11 11:14
My soul is dead Someday 13 30-12-11 11:05
It's been a year :) citizensmith 1 25-12-11 01:40
Has anyone been sucessful in getting a non molestation order ? Someday 6 23-12-11 20:33
Guilty ifeelblue 7 23-12-11 18:52
court citizensmith 13 23-12-11 17:49
my heads whirling ~some graphic content impy 8 23-12-11 02:34
sentenced tomorrow! citizensmith 20 22-12-11 20:20
Trial update ifeelblue 7 22-12-11 15:06
Court in the morning ifeelblue 17 21-12-11 22:00
Sick of happy couples! miss sunshine 6 18-12-11 17:52
I want to go - but they don't Someday 1 17-12-11 21:01
worried....... olliebob 0 16-12-11 20:28
Court...getting worried now Betty 8 16-12-11 19:12
In today's Sunday Telegraph beingbrave 14 12-12-11 22:34
Why do i feel sad 4 himx pixie74 1 12-12-11 19:24
We could change the world - will you help? miss sunshine 13 11-12-11 22:56
More delays ifeelblue 1 11-12-11 22:35
My experience in police custody Catlover 5 09-12-11 20:52
Wish me luck please!! end of the rainbow 7 08-12-11 14:46
Impending Court Case Jennywren 8 05-12-11 15:14
They're going to Re-Re bail him!! end of the rainbow 1 02-12-11 23:41
sorry citizensmith 5 27-11-11 21:26
looking back over the past year eva 5 27-11-11 19:58
:( so down Skyo1 8 26-11-11 13:16
Being strong luv4luv 3 25-11-11 20:04
an apology from the police... olliebob 2 25-11-11 00:37
very long day at court..... olliebob 4 24-11-11 00:08
What happend in court Skyo1 5 23-11-11 20:14
in court tomorrow olliebob 9 23-11-11 12:52
Verdict Skyo1 13 22-11-11 22:59
Citizensmith Ashley 18 22-11-11 08:34
disgusted at police....what is the point anymore olliebob 3 21-11-11 22:36
insomnia strikes again citizensmith 1 21-11-11 02:22
Yay! KiaKahaWahine 7 19-11-11 21:12
What happened in court - very important for ladies starting the process KiaKahaWahine 5 18-11-11 12:28
Grounds for Divorce nicole 6 17-11-11 18:14
In court tomorrow KiaKahaWahine 16 17-11-11 13:29
This time Skyo1 3 15-11-11 20:32
so confuse...help.. pickin 2 14-11-11 21:49
Anyone who has been in court... Betty 10 13-11-11 14:29
I've reported him Ashley 4 13-11-11 14:18
Court date set ifeelblue 7 12-11-11 21:23
Can I take him to court for emotional abuse Butterfly1120 3 12-11-11 06:34
After court...what then?? Betty 14 11-11-11 17:00
Should I tell the police? Ashley 9 06-11-11 15:35
Somewhere deep inside me KiaKahaWahine 10 04-11-11 14:31
I want to try again out 16 04-11-11 11:19
so fed up citizensmith 9 03-11-11 20:17
feel frightened beingbrave 1 03-11-11 13:00
I'm an idiot... Nerd 4 01-11-11 22:01
Phew! Ashley 8 01-11-11 12:10
Today the police made me cry Marionette 5 01-11-11 09:29
all to strange for my liking Butterfly1120 7 27-10-11 17:17
He's been bailed again till 5th Dec! end of the rainbow 3 24-10-11 18:05
Still Waiting but not looking hopeful end of the rainbow 11 22-10-11 16:20
What evidence is needed? end of the rainbow 9 19-10-11 14:00
Name and details appearing the paper? Betty 7 18-10-11 02:43
I dont understand KiaKahaWahine 14 17-10-11 14:41
ur posts got me thinking miss sunshine 4 14-10-11 22:46
feeling so stressed :-( citizensmith 9 12-10-11 21:18
Not sure how much more I can take Butterfly1120 6 12-10-11 20:36
Drained... citizensmith 5 10-10-11 14:38
messed up miss sunshine 5 09-10-11 21:33
feeling crap....still controlling my life :( olliebob 3 07-10-11 21:57
Court coming up out 4 07-10-11 21:03
Big decision citizensmith 9 07-10-11 19:58
i am in court in 6 weeks time to give evidenc agance my ex patner tazstrong 3 06-10-11 12:08
Waiting to hear if he will be let out on bail today expectant81 8 28-09-11 11:22
slightly worried citizensmith 8 27-09-11 17:38
Feeling guilty! Gemini88 2 27-09-11 14:10
good news! :) Skyo1 7 26-09-11 23:12
What's going on??? Skyo1 4 25-09-11 14:31
Court dates... ifeelblue 3 24-09-11 21:12
therapy citizensmith 3 24-09-11 20:00
refused to leave court till my son was home....just tucked him in to bed olliebob 7 24-09-11 19:03
To Betty Ashley 2 24-09-11 12:33
Help - I know going to lose my son to my abuser pocketfulofsunshine 1 23-09-11 12:37
nervous olliebob 3 23-09-11 08:42
How come he's got all this stuff? Ashley 4 22-09-11 21:44
Going to magistrate's court... Betty 5 22-09-11 18:00
falling apart Butterfly1120 1 22-09-11 14:45
need advice before i lose it.......worse today than last night, why do this!! olliebob 10 14-09-11 09:22
Is it illegal to .... Skyo1 15 13-09-11 22:03
so angry....just had the police at my door!!!!! olliebob 8 13-09-11 22:02
small step Butterfly1120 1 13-09-11 12:27
court adjourned citizensmith 4 12-09-11 19:36
court next friday citizensmith 5 10-09-11 22:25
police accessing phone records! dream4better 1 10-09-11 17:39
Social services experience? confusedandbroken 1 09-09-11 21:30
Would like you to think of me tomorrow KiaKahaWahine 15 08-09-11 08:07
Court tomorrow! end of the rainbow 1 07-09-11 23:40
Wooooooaaah! rid of him for 6 months!! Nazbaz 2 07-09-11 20:47
solicitor citizensmith 4 07-09-11 00:37
Police at trial??? Skyo1 5 02-09-11 21:53
WILL I GET INTO TROUBLE IF I DON'T TURN UP???? Nazbaz 2 31-08-11 09:35
Advice needed ASAP Skyo1 5 30-08-11 17:32
WILL I GET INTO TROUBLE IF I DON'T TURN UP???? Nazbaz 3 28-08-11 23:01
access law winniethewitc33 4 28-08-11 12:58
Right i'm not going to court now i feel physically scared!! Nazbaz 4 26-08-11 23:32
who do i call? Nazbaz 1 26-08-11 19:16
Back To the police Skyo1 1 20-08-11 16:31
Impact/victim Personal Statement citizensmith 3 20-08-11 07:48
Advice please!!! confusedandbroken 10 19-08-11 16:49
what happens when they miss a contact session, what is the penalty for them [the 'man'/monster]? woman1 2 18-08-11 18:03
so i went to court today.. Nazbaz 5 18-08-11 12:52
Went to court today Skyo1 9 16-08-11 22:29
Where can I find Skyo1 1 15-08-11 23:34
Getting very nervous now... :( Nazbaz 1 15-08-11 22:42
What should I do? Welshy22 10 14-08-11 20:49
Am I nuts or what? Some advice needed please. Ashley 19 13-08-11 16:52
COURT Nazbaz 2 13-08-11 09:44
Court Skyo1 8 11-08-11 12:12
What to do with this???? Nazbaz 1 11-08-11 01:28
Soon to have a full hearing for non-molestation and prohibitive steps order - what happens Learning 2BMe 0 09-08-11 22:16
Long day... 'tabbycat' 5 05-08-11 00:52
Sorry for the stress Miffy27 5 04-08-11 20:36
He's out of control... ifeelblue 4 03-08-11 18:27
dnt know wats goin on celine87 3 03-08-11 06:40
Ah another Court day and no further forward Miffy27 2 03-08-11 03:01
Emotions all over the place Ashley 2 02-08-11 20:19
hi celine87 6 01-08-11 19:39
Hi... "Waving from the door"... 'tabbycat' 5 01-08-11 11:56
Gobsmacked citizensmith 2 28-07-11 20:41
He's breached his bail conditions Ashley 3 21-07-11 20:49
dont know which way to turn jcsofedupeofmylif 4 20-07-11 16:04
All the memories Ashley 4 19-07-11 22:36
Court Tomorrow Miffy27 3 19-07-11 19:11
Court citizensmith 3 19-07-11 15:25
dead celine87 4 16-07-11 21:39
The lies he's told citizensmith 14 12-07-11 17:28
guilty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lou123 11 04-07-11 14:30
Legal system still clueless HM123 8 23-06-11 21:33
He Wrote Me From Prison Kela 3 23-06-11 19:54
The continuing saga.... Miffy27 3 22-06-11 17:26
Parental child abduction......domestic violence Rainbow 8 21-06-11 23:09
he's texting ...should i go to the police? Bobbie 2 21-06-11 21:51
Update MAUSIE 1 21-06-11 21:31
So am awaiting the Police to take a statement... Miffy27 4 21-06-11 20:26
Contact orders Rainbow 0 21-06-11 15:44
On An Emotional Rollercoaster Kela 6 18-06-11 13:07
Good news re Court and bad news re brother in law Miffy27 3 17-06-11 21:37
Court over and this is the result Upset 8 17-06-11 21:28
what do i do? peninsula 3 17-06-11 14:59
what can i do, patsy 5 16-06-11 21:32
Lots and lots of phone calls Miffy27 5 16-06-11 14:44
been to see the police squiffey 6 14-06-11 23:17
Court tomorrow, please send positive thoughts Blue 31 13-06-11 22:44
what do I do? he knows.. BrokenSparrow 23 11-06-11 09:58
Just ordered myself Upset 2 10-06-11 23:05
popped in to say hi and gather some courage! lou123 9 07-06-11 10:20
Police are no help rockabilly 3 04-06-11 10:30
feel so let down dreamchaser 9 03-06-11 23:58
how god damn hard can it get to leave this prison safely, BrokenSparrow 8 02-06-11 23:44
BAD NEWS LittleMissBlue 6 01-06-11 11:20
I rang the DV police BrokenSparrow 3 26-05-11 22:37
fancy mobilising ladies. getting better 2 26-05-11 03:10
different catergories of rape getting better 9 24-05-11 23:25
have seen solicitor this morning BrokenSparrow 6 24-05-11 19:26
scared wonderer 2 24-05-11 17:14
Warning: The registry court of Family Division (removed by moderator) astrid 0 23-05-11 19:50
does anyone really care? bannyd81 2 23-05-11 18:29
He sitting outside alcatraz 21 23-05-11 09:27
I thought it would be over Upset 0 21-05-11 22:00
courts..... max 2 17-05-11 16:00
Court Visit ifeelblue 1 16-05-11 17:33
COURT LittleMissBlue 9 11-05-11 11:45
laue82 getting better 3 10-05-11 23:53
Trying to move om but... movingon 1 10-05-11 22:04
Have to go through another video statement tommorow Laue82 5 10-05-11 21:57
life after refuge penguin 2 09-05-11 18:19
So nervous, patsy 15 07-05-11 19:57
SO LET DOWN AND SO ANGRY cloudyday 2 07-05-11 09:32
statements for the trial ifeelblue 3 06-05-11 21:55
oh i feel awful cloudyday 1 05-05-11 21:59
rocking cloudyday 5 05-05-11 21:42
COURTS.... max 6 05-05-11 21:37
Distraught patsy 10 30-04-11 23:56
Yet another court date misspanda 0 30-04-11 05:06
i must be dreaming ... queenofwands 26 21-04-11 22:13
Getting ready to file for divorce - I'm afraid We're all wonderwomen 8 20-04-11 22:04
what do you think? LittleMissBlue 8 20-04-11 09:54
Struggling to cope Blue 3 19-04-11 01:12
Advice needed cocapebble 6 17-04-11 14:05
Crown Court? Stam 3 16-04-11 14:20
bad news LittleMissBlue 3 16-04-11 09:28
THE POLICE ARE'NT GETTING BACK TO ME-R THET IGNORING ME? forever_trying 2 16-04-11 02:38
i saw a cpn on monday Dry-Puddle 4 15-04-11 21:31
Feeling really low - help Laue82 1 14-04-11 23:44
worried worried worried LittleMissBlue 1 14-04-11 19:19
it's making me feel sick having to woman1 5 14-04-11 01:09
charged cloudyday 3 13-04-11 15:38
your story wonderer 4 07-04-11 09:57
sentencing day finallyfree2beme 14 05-04-11 22:27
the sentence..... finallyfree2beme 2 05-04-11 18:04
sentence result Athena 8 05-04-11 13:47
today's the day Athena 4 04-04-11 15:33
Plea and Case Management today.... ifeelblue 5 02-04-11 22:41
The police helped him! Bobbie 3 25-03-11 20:30
got to face him today so scared lostmummy 2 25-03-11 19:14
Feeling awful, remanded in custody Laue82 2 23-03-11 17:24
panicking already... hope2goon 5 22-03-11 18:20
giving evidence against him genie 2 22-03-11 16:00
remanded genie 3 21-03-11 18:46
he was arrested gin 5 21-03-11 18:05
In court next week storm2007 2 19-03-11 00:43
Thinking of you QOW Athena 9 17-03-11 22:30
He says I lied unlucky 12 17-03-11 21:48
just found out he pleaded not guilty..... :( lou123 23 17-03-11 20:32
aissaf....hearing today? abused abroad 5 16-03-11 19:18
police doubted what happened and got a hearing tomorrow aissaf 3 15-03-11 13:43
Contested divorce astrid 6 14-03-11 16:20
GUILTY!! finallyfree2beme 16 12-03-11 09:48
Court time frame ifeelblue 1 12-03-11 08:11
My advice Athena 1 11-03-11 21:56
guilty!!! Athena 9 11-03-11 20:30
wish me luck guys...... finallyfree2beme 4 11-03-11 13:38
Court yesterday feel awful today help! jemster 2 11-03-11 12:12
court 2moro.... lou123 12 11-03-11 09:20
charges dropped belle2968 2 10-03-11 22:38
advice belle2968 2 09-03-11 07:52
for ladies going to court - here is a video link finallyfree2beme 7 09-03-11 00:03
your thoughts????? LittleMissBlue 3 08-03-11 14:40
From bad to worse.... ifeelblue 7 07-03-11 23:02
mad few days... lou123 11 06-03-11 16:19
in a state :'( Chalky 7 03-03-11 22:19
Can't even trust the police... unlucky 3 03-03-11 19:55
advice please.... max 1 03-03-11 12:42
Intimidation LittleMissBlue 0 03-03-11 11:55
Justice was served yesterday Bobbie 8 02-03-11 21:15
Wish Id had the guts still under the spell 5 01-03-11 16:50
Committal Hearing tomorrow ifeelblue 10 01-03-11 16:33
my beautiful wa friends xxx lou123 25 28-02-11 22:11
up date LittleMissBlue 0 28-02-11 11:19
apparently what I suffered isn't considered serious. Bobbie 9 25-02-11 13:11
guilty queenofwands 19 22-02-11 18:18
court next week - slightly panicky long rant following ... queenofwands 6 21-02-11 11:42
newbie need some1 2 talk 2 Chalky 10 20-02-11 23:09
I'm so confused - please help unlucky 4 20-02-11 15:42
Trial date - 11 March Athena 8 18-02-11 23:10
((ifeelsoalone)) Athena 1 18-02-11 18:48
Victim 'support' Athena 1 18-02-11 16:56
Remanded!!! Athena 10 18-02-11 08:47
court pickle73 3 18-02-11 08:41
lost faith pickle73 3 17-02-11 20:28
Police - Please read sillyme 1 17-02-11 13:12
do I go Athena 2 17-02-11 08:16
just a thought GINA 2 15-02-11 13:58
CPS ADVICE GINA 0 15-02-11 10:27
I SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO YOU GINA 15 15-02-11 09:29
Evidence?? lostintranslation 6 14-02-11 16:43
he knocked on my door Athena 6 14-02-11 16:37
need help with court lost22 0 14-02-11 03:08
Legal question - summary offence Athena 3 13-02-11 22:22
for ladies that have already been to court against there abuser......... IFeelSoAlone 0 13-02-11 20:27
hearing Athena 6 11-02-11 08:50
court today was... devi 12 09-02-11 16:27
So disappointed :-| gemmalayla16 4 06-02-11 20:10
My children were not returned after contact and he has now applied for residency bellini 5 06-02-11 03:50
he's been charged Athena 9 05-02-11 08:53
wish i wasnt so weak!!! lis 3 04-02-11 19:41
MARC? 2bon1own 1 03-02-11 08:44
Upcoming court/story (please help) gemmalayla16 5 01-02-11 14:32
Advice from experience Whatamess 3 01-02-11 09:30
tired of being strong devi 5 30-01-11 18:30
sentence gin 10 30-01-11 17:40
CPS Decision girl25 6 27-01-11 10:33
court date confirmed and scared dollydaydream 10 26-01-11 23:01
For those of you dealing with court and law issues! viviana 4 26-01-11 18:43
You're kidding me? HM123 7 26-01-11 09:49
Am I making a mountain out of a mole hill? Bobbie 6 26-01-11 00:08
YAY!! got the order but.. Becks 6 25-01-11 23:00
Tuesday's D-Day(quite scared)! Becks 5 24-01-11 14:01
Thinking of going to police - any advice? LauraJo 4 21-01-11 17:08
looks like it was for nothing?? justme123 3 20-01-11 21:59
merrick? s 3 20-01-11 19:58
Need some advice and an ear GINA 1 20-01-11 10:44
what the sentence will say gin 4 20-01-11 10:32
it must be me gin 4 19-01-11 22:27
how stupid was i!!! lis 3 19-01-11 22:10
RANT GINA 2 19-01-11 18:56
feel like giving up!! lis 4 19-01-11 14:31
Fun and games....NOT!!! Becks 3 19-01-11 09:43
Dreading his reaction... Becks 4 17-01-11 13:53
Injunction Advice Strong!! 2 17-01-11 13:38
update hes been sentenced lil 3 10-01-11 23:37
Do I go the police GINA 5 05-01-11 14:01
How do I get a restraining order against my husband gin 4 05-01-11 10:16
remorse / denial GINA 3 29-12-10 11:41
hi need some advice jcsofedupeofmylif 4 28-12-10 13:04
need much better lawyer... any advice pls woman1 8 24-12-10 15:23
reporting abuse to the police a while after it has happened? He is claming he is Depressed? freeagain 2 24-12-10 09:47
another down day. lis 10 19-12-10 10:38
NON-MOLESTATION ORDER help please? freeagain 3 16-12-10 23:04
non molestation worriedmummy 7 14-12-10 18:11
So many worries!! Skye 4 14-12-10 17:37
court tomorrow lil 5 10-12-10 11:28
court on friday Skye 3 09-12-10 13:19
Its all going to kick off diamondstarss 7 07-12-10 17:37
winning in court lil 5 07-12-10 12:50
jail for xmas? Christina 9 04-12-10 23:21
why do i feel guilty??? lis 6 29-11-10 22:19
what's this? update what is this? 4 29-11-10 17:20
extreem abuse for 15 years - services dont listen -long post - tattyteddy13 7 27-11-10 18:45
CAFCASS - delays? WispaGirl 1 25-11-10 21:36
cracking down on abusers lilianna35 0 25-11-10 10:50
going to court v soon - first time... any advice please? woman1 14 17-11-10 23:56
so scared and lonely fallen_angel 5 17-11-10 20:45
Legal questions HM123 4 17-11-10 20:30
A very sad and upset 'WhyMe'... WhyMe 2 16-11-10 16:21
Letter to my MP regarding the Safe Child Contact campaign by WA Don'tLookBack 3 14-11-10 23:00
given him the pleasure of me loosing it lucy1 10 11-11-10 04:19
please help, is there anyone out there who has lost sole residency with their kids??? mish 3 10-11-10 09:38
The British justify system works when you are telling the truth. :-) Flower10 1 04-11-10 17:19
Advice needed regarding police/charges etc justme123 1 28-10-10 10:20
Hello! whyme? 4 26-10-10 16:55
In Court Today pixie 5 20-10-10 11:57
good morning you lovley ladies.x itsmylife 3 16-10-10 17:10
Court last Friday wkmmum 10 25-09-10 11:43
Experiences of Going To Police/ Court Charcoal 7 23-09-10 13:12
i HATE the british legal system picxie 2 22-09-10 21:17
Court tammy 11 22-09-10 18:05
has pleaded not gulity and has been charged with harrassment and breach of restraining order maldives 1 21-09-10 23:18
Been arrested for stalking and breach of restraining order, now been released on Bail maldives 6 20-09-10 22:17
Court tomorrow.... wkmmum 8 16-09-10 18:47
thinking of calling the police... Cannotthink 11 15-09-10 17:35
Epic Fail picxie 10 15-09-10 10:56
Representing yourself at court wkmmum 5 14-09-10 01:30
scared is going to court and have been told to get a solictor maldives 4 11-09-10 10:25
court hearing soon i need to make a closing statment please help tina 9 10-09-10 02:08
Seems that legal system protects more abusers than victims! sasha 12 08-09-10 21:54
Shared Care wkmmum 5 30-08-10 08:53
disclosure of my kids school. help needed please itsmylife 1 29-08-10 17:25
time elapsed - is it still possible to report crimes? TBA 1 27-08-10 12:10
so happy pixie 4 24-08-10 01:25
Feeling much better girl25 0 12-08-10 13:33
his word against mine will it go to trial ? yme 0 11-08-10 19:38
:) darceyprincess 6 09-08-10 10:13
lost faith in the court system mish 8 06-08-10 09:59
Questioned girl25 7 04-08-10 13:09
whoop whoop itsmylife 7 27-07-10 22:54
I'm so scared to tell him it's over EnglishRose 3 23-07-10 20:25
he finally gets caught in the act and arrested, but may come to nothing! pingu 7 20-07-10 21:04
my mental health!?, darceyprincess 1 14-07-10 16:52
I can't do it girls!!!! NOT AGAIN!!!! Louise 5 13-07-10 22:33
court friday Domidoe 3 13-07-10 20:13
social services report pixie 2 06-07-10 18:59
Typical lizzie 1 06-07-10 12:50
Court Update - OMG! Krazy 2 05-07-10 13:35
Court -Nervous! free n happy 23 03-07-10 13:26
Shall I go to court Krazy 2 03-07-10 09:06
back in court!!! lisa 2 02-07-10 18:23
just my luck itsmylife 9 01-07-10 17:26
Court this week Fliss 4 01-07-10 10:59
Any advice, would be greatly appreciated. openeyes 6 27-06-10 20:11
Victims of domestic violence - what happens when he's served his sentence? still standing 5 25-06-10 12:50
I would like your help please re the Police ka3n 8 25-06-10 02:12
dont want to go to court! pixie 9 23-06-10 18:08
Police not much help Snowgirl 6 22-06-10 22:33
Feeling stressed re VPS Krazy 8 21-06-10 23:42
been a while girls.............. Louise 2 21-06-10 22:00
Sexually Assaulted - Please help me. aarti 22 20-06-10 21:14
Panic Alarms? Krazy 3 20-06-10 09:29
Lisa Krazy 6 19-06-10 22:56
He's been charged Krazy 3 19-06-10 19:26
panic attack re soliciters letter itsmylife 11 18-06-10 18:17
Don't think I can do this wkmmum 3 18-06-10 12:16
why do we fu***** bother!!!! lisa 5 18-06-10 12:15
Going to court wkmmum 10 18-06-10 07:42
sentencing btoni 5 17-06-10 21:38
arrested!! lisa 2 17-06-10 10:57
why do i bother?????? itsmylife 13 17-06-10 10:44
the police came!!!! lisa 2 16-06-10 13:26
police rang lisa 2 15-06-10 01:14
spoke to dv today!! lisa 1 14-06-10 19:49
dropping charges darceyprincess 14 14-06-10 18:18
am i doing the right thing? itsmylife 7 14-06-10 13:41
So CONFUSSED!!! Help, please as new on here... Becks 2 14-06-10 13:13
soooooooooooooooo angry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lisa 3 13-06-10 19:16
can you believe this! Lottie 2 11-06-10 17:38
advice needed Lottie 3 10-06-10 14:11
Final hearing and NO legal aid . . . Helppp! dooleys 0 10-06-10 02:47
hes spent the night in the cells lucky lady 2 09-06-10 17:37
Where's the justice? Fliss 2 08-06-10 11:28
back at court 1 more hurdle! 6 07-06-10 13:40
Fear nursie27 18 28-05-10 22:40
he's contacted me becs146 3 27-05-10 18:39
advice on anti-molestation order hartleyha 15 27-05-10 11:53
so many questions......... becs146 3 27-05-10 11:02
police lizzie 14 26-05-10 23:08
im not happy mumof3 8 26-05-10 23:05
on that date mumof3 1 25-05-10 19:24
Is law in Scotland different? marachino 6 25-05-10 10:07
Felling numb and kind of weird marachino 1 22-05-10 18:01
Do they ever get the message? Fliss 2 19-05-10 13:44
Good news hopfuly cookiemonster 6 19-05-10 13:28
Back to court marachino 1 19-05-10 13:06
he's going to play the mentally ill card in coart mumof3 7 18-05-10 21:12
I have wrote to the court marachino 2 14-05-10 16:45
woop!! my book's have just arrived mumof3 3 14-05-10 13:45
kids and everything its all happening mumof3 13 13-05-10 10:05
jen itsmylife 3 12-05-10 17:54
i d a p programme itsmylife 6 11-05-10 17:47
Move without asking court marachino 4 10-05-10 23:04
harassment from ex marachino 11 09-05-10 23:10
You are not going to believe this......... Louise 5 08-05-10 15:26
sentencing btoni 10 06-05-10 22:28
Anyone who has pressed charges lizzie 7 06-05-10 18:45
i had a mad moment today mumof3 10 05-05-10 23:40
Appeal Court on Friday Louise 9 04-05-10 20:42
anyone about? lizzie 6 04-05-10 14:53
thank u btoni 1 03-05-10 14:03
HELP! theendofmydreams 8 02-05-10 23:42
Bad day today lizzie 4 02-05-10 11:29
Experiences of court? darceyprincess 4 30-04-10 21:41
Everyone believes him!!! why can't he just admit it? Louise 11 29-04-10 23:58
Barristers-Help is out there... cookiemonster 3 29-04-10 17:39
Court - can't do it darceyprincess 10 28-04-10 18:23
guilty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! btoni 13 28-04-10 18:06
i dont know if i can do coart! mumof3 2 26-04-10 09:10
hes getting his own back mumof3 5 24-04-10 20:52
court btoni 2 23-04-10 23:40
He went to court today I got out 3 20-04-10 10:35
2 weeks 2 go court btoni 7 17-04-10 12:03
scared and worried btoni 8 06-04-10 20:45
Police and the law Jen (WA Moderator) 16 04-04-10 08:49
so hard.. crown court.. tiredeyes 3 03-04-10 22:21
'Progress with my case'!?!? darceyprincess 2 24-03-10 10:04
how do i get through this btoni 6 20-03-10 13:02
more ups and downs freeatlast 3 20-03-10 10:47
Court Undertaking Broken cal 2 19-03-10 14:35
Giving up BreakingFree 6 19-03-10 14:32
Court Orders Ive Done It yesterday cal 5 17-03-10 21:29
ex plead not guilty btoni 2 15-03-10 16:20
What do I do next? daisychain 3 01-02-10 15:47