ARCHIVE - Children, young people and domestic abuse

ARCHIVE - Children, young people and domestic abuse	Poster	Posts	Last Post
should i report this?	sansmoke	9	21-05-13 13:37
chilling conversation	currentbun	17	20-05-13 17:31
Afraid	Dandelion	9	20-05-13 15:07
Everything feels so hopeless	littlemiss13	3	19-05-13 00:18
does any body get this??	pinkone21	1	18-05-13 23:43
Contact help and confusion	pinkone21	2	18-05-13 21:48
Subtle threats	Mumof2	4	18-05-13 21:34
Devastated at social service's lack of support and in need of advice	nonidentifiablenickname	3	17-05-13 22:59
child maintenance	atlast1983	1	17-05-13 21:43
grandparents	atlast1983	5	16-05-13 21:34
Just exhausted	Mumof2	7	16-05-13 16:19
What do you do to keep safe?	Relieved	9	15-05-13 09:24
CAFCASS	freedomgained	0	14-05-13 13:02
Tough Cookie	ShoeButterfly563	2	14-05-13 11:17
Ex called the police on me last night	freedomgained	4	13-05-13 23:06
My son keeps asking for he's dad..	UnderConstruction	2	13-05-13 20:19
Feel so betrayed	zedbeds	1	13-05-13 16:47
Do any of you know?	angelgirl	19	13-05-13 06:42
MARAC help	freedomgained	6	12-05-13 12:07
Not looking forward to the weekend	Pumpkinpot	8	11-05-13 10:18
I liked it when daddy lived here, well except for the shouting	freedommaybe	6	10-05-13 10:18
Supervised Contact	littlemiss13	6	09-05-13 23:58
Accused of child abuse.	Didz	1	09-05-13 22:06
Please help, son turning into his father.	cloret	6	09-05-13 19:47
Trying to raise awareness	Relieved	6	09-05-13 17:32
he has crossed the line	feelinglostagain	2	09-05-13 08:21
Social services are trying to take my kids. Need advice	Out-With-The-Old	7	06-05-13 15:15
I WAS GRANTED PROHIBTED STEPS ORDER	pinklady	5	03-05-13 17:10
Worried about tomorrow	Pumpkinpot	1	03-05-13 11:27
Mind Games???	Clock	2	02-05-13 20:18
e-petition re child contact issues?	Relieved	10	02-05-13 18:26
Child contact, the injustice!	Relieved	5	01-05-13 16:01
how can i trust again?	dyinginside	11	01-05-13 14:56
cafcass and court	rockystinker	5	01-05-13 12:22
Babys home safe! :)	pinklady	10	01-05-13 07:47
A bit random but does anyone know...	Relieved	2	30-04-13 21:57
Why isnt anyone hearing me?	Happy2013	3	30-04-13 19:41
he's taken my baby	pinklady	13	30-04-13 18:45
full custody	pinklady	9	29-04-13 23:24
I Have told him NO	pinklady	5	29-04-13 19:27
Nelladean	Guardian angels	22	28-04-13 23:55
How to cope with badfather manipulating daughter	Can't pick a nickname!	2	28-04-13 23:11
Advice for children	Clock	4	28-04-13 20:16
Help! court order	beebop	7	28-04-13 13:23
State of Shock	Clock	14	28-04-13 11:24
my son is starting school, had threats to take him from ex, advise please	stillhere	2	26-04-13 17:34
Baby poorly does he need to know?	TinyToes	10	26-04-13 15:30
Sorry me again!	Relieved	5	26-04-13 13:18
Compromise?	Pumpkinpot	6	26-04-13 11:12
heart's breaking	nelladean	7	26-04-13 09:52
Will he ever change?	sunshinesoon	6	26-04-13 00:18
Feeling hopeless	PollyC	10	25-04-13 22:20
absent father	crazymum	1	25-04-13 21:53
When, or what to tell the children?	Relieved	7	24-04-13 21:59
I admire my daughter...	Moniker	1	24-04-13 18:15
I admire my daughter...	Moniker	0	24-04-13 17:32
Contact centres	Pumpkinpot	1	24-04-13 13:21
I feel shot to pieces	TwistedSister	28	23-04-13 22:10
he's affected my child more than i thought	anotherday12	1	22-04-13 18:24
am so scared of letting my children down	nelladean	8	22-04-13 17:48
New girlfriend and court case	Ico	4	22-04-13 16:47
Chances of my daughters father getting access when hes been tested positive for heroin	bobby26	14	20-04-13 22:27
Disabled teen may have to sleep in car!	desperatereturn	7	20-04-13 22:19
TYPICAL!	Relieved	6	20-04-13 18:27
Guilt, anger, sadness...so many emotions...	sunshinesoon	5	19-04-13 22:41
Angry son :'( worried about him! Will he ever get over this or will history repeat? What can I do?	Ruby22	3	18-04-13 10:54
court order... advice please :(	Blessedbyanangel	10	17-04-13 22:59
Advice on meeting with barrister	nelladean	13	17-04-13 20:36
Wish I could understand how he thinks!	TinyToes	7	17-04-13 16:04
positive day but still cant get my head straight or understand this past week	olliebob	3	15-04-13 18:14
Telling Cafcass when your ex shouts abusive things when dropping off my daughter	littlemole	4	15-04-13 16:05
Contact advice anyone??	Tough Cookie	5	15-04-13 07:41
huge self-pity alert	nelladean	2	13-04-13 10:36
Started Again!	Survior for life	1	12-04-13 14:21
Don't know what to do anymore	NewMe13	7	11-04-13 22:44
Advice and Help Needed	pinkone21	1	11-04-13 22:08
Non-Molestation Order broken	freedomgained	2	11-04-13 21:22
WHAT HAVE WE DONE	myfault	2	11-04-13 15:21
help! child contact	pink-star-27	4	10-04-13 23:34
evil.....brought our child back then took him again	olliebob	6	10-04-13 18:10
He wants my address	Pumpkinpot	4	10-04-13 12:15
Cafcass first telephone call	Escapes	6	10-04-13 07:52
Holiday	stillfighting	4	09-04-13 19:15
still no child......i am prepared to take the farce of my life to the papers if court doesnt end this	olliebob	32	09-04-13 19:01
so trodden on.	compass	2	09-04-13 12:19
Dreading tomorrow	PollyC	10	09-04-13 09:35
Feeling lost and needing a bit advice :,( xx	Just another number	4	08-04-13 00:24
Oh god	Pumpkinpot	6	06-04-13 23:11
don't know where to turn	Sun	3	05-04-13 10:46
Feeing a bit lost an in need of some advice :,( xx	Just another number	1	04-04-13 19:20
abusive ex coming to visit tomorrow	rosylips	8	04-04-13 15:35
Do you feel guilty?	Flowerlove	9	03-04-13 11:29
I feel like a bad mum :(	TinyToes	4	03-04-13 08:18
No contact is NOT helping	Pumpkinpot	4	31-03-13 23:29
Feeling lost	Beau	2	31-03-13 22:17
not brought my girls back	panda100	3	31-03-13 22:04
Contact again	Pumpkinpot	6	27-03-13 19:19
What do you do when the abuser changes	flossy	5	25-03-13 08:42
Upset. I need to let it out so I feel like I'm doing something...	rosie	5	22-03-13 17:50
being blamed for the abuse	jcsofedupeofmylif	6	22-03-13 13:41
Upset. I need to let it out so I feel like I'm doing something...	rosie	2	21-03-13 20:36
New here - advice re family court proceedings (contact)	Mosaic	3	21-03-13 13:11
Upset. I need to let it out so I feel like I'm doing something...	rosie	3	21-03-13 08:54
He just won't stop	nelladean	4	19-03-13 20:17
Do they ever give up?	Tryingtoswim	1	19-03-13 19:02
Feeling very sad tonight	littlemiss13	5	19-03-13 00:04
Fed up!	Are we there yet?	1	18-03-13 21:26
got out of d v relationship lost my kids	jcsofedupeofmylif	7	18-03-13 16:53
felt like ending it all yesterday	jcsofedupeofmylif	1	17-03-13 23:55
Anxious	Pumpkinpot	6	17-03-13 23:27
Late after contact - what can I do	PollyC	2	17-03-13 19:53
Contact unresolved	Beau	4	17-03-13 19:27
So this is how it is!	angelgirl	5	16-03-13 09:52
Has anyone applied for leave to remove?	Escapes	1	15-03-13 23:22
Feel as though am going mad	springflower	4	15-03-13 14:39
Help!!!!!!	AlternativeGirl87	5	15-03-13 12:39
Am I obliged to have a line of communication	TinyToes	6	14-03-13 22:27
Its so relentless - feel like I can't take any more	PollyC	7	13-03-13 17:01
huge news	how mad am i	5	13-03-13 15:09
What happens about ex seeing our child if we go into refuge?	bubbalicious	2	13-03-13 14:35
refusing indirect contact view please people	whysitsohard	7	12-03-13 00:46
Wavering again	Pumpkinpot	8	11-03-13 23:04
Help please	rosie	3	11-03-13 17:43
I have lost my daughter to adoption/Ex been bullying me again, can't take anymore	Tatters	24	10-03-13 14:03
not sure what has just happened?	angel	3	08-03-13 12:38
Please help re child contact	Pumpkinpot	4	07-03-13 23:27
Children matters	Survivor78	3	07-03-13 19:03
TwistedSister meant to ask...	laurausa	1	05-03-13 01:15
Back after some time.....hoping for some support	twiglet	1	04-03-13 21:44
I feel so sad	TinyToes	4	04-03-13 09:58
How to broach subject of residence order?	Pumpkinpot	3	04-03-13 08:30
Mediation Help	pinkone21	12	02-03-13 23:09
Don't know what to do...	Tea	13	02-03-13 01:25
Advice Please Lovely Ladies...	Tryingtoswim	2	01-03-13 22:26
Late night, feeling very sad and low again	Tatters	7	01-03-13 16:15
Emergency application for mediation	Newbie	2	26-02-13 19:19
Re ex and children	Butterfly2	2	22-02-13 13:38
Missing the children	PollyC	3	21-02-13 18:09
Social services involved again	cara	6	18-02-13 21:50
has anyone stopped contact with children?	nelladean	9	18-02-13 19:26
Help - Scared I will lose custody of daughter because of abusive ex.	Catticus	7	17-02-13 15:29
he keeps calling	SUGARB	2	17-02-13 14:21
would you give up?	Pog28	5	17-02-13 10:21
what is he doing?	confused13	1	16-02-13 08:54
ashamed	iwanttobreakfree	5	15-02-13 11:14
Hmmm...what do I do now?? Any ideas?	Tough Cookie	4	14-02-13 22:58
confused and scared	nelladean	16	14-02-13 14:25
Understanding CAFCASS	CB27	5	13-02-13 12:33
Thanks so much everyone	PollyC	4	11-02-13 19:34
Final judgement	PollyC	8	11-02-13 17:44
what to do now	julez73	5	11-02-13 16:16
Final judgement	PollyC	0	11-02-13 12:15
hard to cope...so long to wait	imagoodmum	4	10-02-13 14:53
the professionals are taking sides and telling lies	red2000	8	10-02-13 01:39
im finding no contact really hard	veryconfused	3	09-02-13 20:49
Am I being foolish? Honest opinions please	Pumpkinpot	5	07-02-13 21:58
Feel like I'm headed for a break down	Beau	13	07-02-13 17:55
no ones listening to me	red2000	2	07-02-13 13:07
won't tell me when the children are coming home	nelladean	12	05-02-13 21:51
advice really needed please	Theateam	2	05-02-13 16:27
I'm desperate to ....	TwistedSister	5	01-02-13 12:56
Social Services and Core Assesment	shnoodle	8	28-01-13 17:38
CAFCASS again tomorrow	nelladean	13	27-01-13 20:40
CSA	Bumble bee	3	25-01-13 21:57
Child Contact Advice Help Needed	pinkone21	4	25-01-13 12:56
He's reverted to form	Pumpkinpot	2	25-01-13 10:49
Any1	Tom and Jerry	2	24-01-13 22:25
Just a few questions	inneed1	1	24-01-13 14:13
frowned upon	julez73	3	23-01-13 17:54
child protection	creasedtiara	3	23-01-13 00:03
can he take my baby off me?	Toothfairy	5	22-01-13 22:05
another rant (sorry)	nelladean	5	22-01-13 17:37
Feeling very low	littlemiss13	1	21-01-13 21:01
I hate him so much... Blood is boiling	Tatters	5	20-01-13 00:54
Just a few questions	cara	5	19-01-13 23:45
ex convicted but appealing	flo	1	17-01-13 21:09
To let you know	angelgirl	2	16-01-13 23:17
Why is it so tough	springflower	4	16-01-13 17:37
Advice Please.x	angelgirl	5	15-01-13 22:13
Just advice	rosie	4	14-01-13 21:48
guidance	shelby72	2	12-01-13 13:00
Support in court	springle	8	11-01-13 23:26
Discredited	Tryingtoswim	4	10-01-13 16:20
cant stand it anymore	julez73	3	09-01-13 16:20
Outreach support	Pumpkinpot	4	09-01-13 09:45
he will take my son now	gaslighted	6	09-01-13 09:00
It didn't go that well...	PollyC	3	08-01-13 22:03
not sure of the best way to deal with this	inneed1	2	08-01-13 21:36
In court tomorrow and feeling worried	PollyC	4	08-01-13 21:15
I miss my baby so much	Tatters	2	08-01-13 17:51
Three years and counting	goldielocks	3	08-01-13 09:07
What do you tell the children	T-pot	4	06-01-13 20:55
am I being paranoid?	nelladean	6	06-01-13 17:24
Update on things..	AlternativeGirl87	2	06-01-13 16:43
I'm cross with myself	FreedomFlower	3	05-01-13 23:38
any advice?	angelgirl	1	05-01-13 19:27
New - Scared of even writing experiences on here	canieverleave	6	04-01-13 23:42
had SS come over and been assessed by a DV charity	Hopenothate	2	04-01-13 21:08
The Health Visitor, Social Services and the Police all in one day!	Lady Luck	5	04-01-13 02:12
He is all remorseful now	Optimist	2	03-01-13 18:15
feeling so low	nelladean	8	02-01-13 22:20
Had to take baby to A&E	TinyToes	9	31-12-12 19:03
Sorry to ask...	Escapes	3	30-12-12 22:43
What to do - advice please	Pumpkinpot	3	29-12-12 23:25
Guilt over impact on baby	Pumpkinpot	5	29-12-12 21:43
Ex husband (childs father) demanding my address and im scared.	wornoutmum	10	29-12-12 19:39
How do I know it's not me?	Pumpkinpot	9	28-12-12 22:21
Feeling down	Pumpkinpot	1	27-12-12 23:33
ex-inside a wk ago	flo	4	27-12-12 10:14
Anyone involved a health visitor	Pumpkinpot	5	26-12-12 23:59
Ex is trying to mind f**k me again.	Someday	2	26-12-12 12:46
Why do children side with the perpetrator against the non-abusive parent?	Ashley	4	26-12-12 12:32
Thank goodness that's over	Pumpkinpot	0	26-12-12 07:09
What can I do with my anger? It's so high...	Tatters	5	24-12-12 01:27
For my baby, lost through dv	Tatters	9	23-12-12 22:33
said goodbye to my child for christmas...while my ex was recording me....when will this stop?	olliebob	2	23-12-12 10:27
Not gone well	Pumpkinpot	16	22-12-12 22:59
what can I do????	springflower	2	22-12-12 19:47
Husband smacks children sometimes, need advice	Indigo123	10	20-12-12 21:37
Just had some bad news. So upset. Help???	BlueMe	2	20-12-12 18:06
Wot a s*** mum I am	Tryingtoswim	4	20-12-12 10:33
Christmas tactics	FreedomFlower	2	19-12-12 12:47
CAFCASS say ...........	springflower	3	13-12-12 10:15
moving on...	pregnant&heartbroken	2	12-12-12 10:40
contact problems (new member)	clover	6	12-12-12 00:26
Still controlling and messing with the kids heads :(	sleepingdogs	4	11-12-12 23:02
My ex's partner is 'buying' my kids	Ashley	2	11-12-12 21:49
I like some advise on cascaff interview	peace-NO-abuse	4	11-12-12 13:01
Social Services	Tryingtoswim	3	10-12-12 20:42
a revelation	glitter	1	10-12-12 12:43
17 Years of abuse and (removed by moderator) many children in a nutshell!	braveface	2	08-12-12 23:04
angry with all the wrong people	nelladean	11	08-12-12 20:53
Taking back some of the control	snettie	4	07-12-12 20:40
should i tell my children about their move?	glitter	2	07-12-12 10:33
so terribly low	angelgirl	13	06-12-12 00:36
Is it normal	Beau	2	05-12-12 22:35
Just had some upsetting news, feeling very low	Ashley	3	05-12-12 10:20
contact	rockystinker	2	03-12-12 16:57
supervised contact	stronger_now	2	30-11-12 07:57
absoloute joke.....how is this allowed to happen	olliebob	7	28-11-12 15:33
feeling worn out with more delays	nelladean	4	27-11-12 12:29
feel so frustrated!!	angelgirl	9	26-11-12 19:31
Newly out of it	RealRose	16	26-11-12 16:42
Help needed	sunshine	4	25-11-12 00:54
He is trying to spoil his sons birthday	springflower	7	24-11-12 23:34
Contact centre issue	Empowered	3	24-11-12 22:03
just to let you know that he may have tried to but didn't	springflower	3	24-11-12 21:18
Should I send my estranged daughter a Christmas card and present?	Ashley	3	23-11-12 17:12
interfering family making it worse	nelladean	5	22-11-12 23:35
today is the start of my nightmare starting all over again, am i strong enough for it??	olliebob	2	21-11-12 23:28
How do you break free from an abusive and controlling mother?	Tobefree	6	21-11-12 22:08
Help me please	Bexx	12	20-11-12 22:20
handover, feel like screaming	nelladean	15	20-11-12 21:16
It didn't last long...	TinyToes	5	19-11-12 23:29
Tips for a safe, smooth and positive hand-over	Sinking despair	8	19-11-12 22:11
Is he a bully ? Or is he right ?	So.sorry	4	15-11-12 19:15
rollercoaster ride!	angelgirl	4	14-11-12 20:22
how do I deal with the manipulation of my children?	gaslighted	1	12-11-12 21:31
He wants my address	BlueMe	4	12-11-12 15:29
Do I stop contact?	Pog28	3	12-11-12 13:12
I though SS and the courts where meant to protect children?	k33p1ngmum	19	12-11-12 08:31
complaints to the school-SS?	nelladean	4	09-11-12 14:30
are any of my old friends on? life is crazy again.....	olliebob	6	09-11-12 12:42
Legalised abuse	Bexx	14	07-11-12 00:31
Its going horribly wrong i feel im fighting a losing battle, he continues to win, dictate and control :'(	Tobefree	9	06-11-12 23:33
He always WINS!!	Titch25	5	06-11-12 12:47
wish I was someone else	nelladean	2	05-11-12 08:16
Children removed?	teary	4	03-11-12 19:31
Can i retract a restraining order ?	Sweetlilac	5	03-11-12 15:13
Considering to put my children up for foster care	peace-NO-abuse	5	02-11-12 23:14
So he wants access now	TinyToes	11	02-11-12 13:41
my children seem lost to me	gaslighted	9	01-11-12 07:52
moving, court orders and self-doubt	nelladean	4	31-10-12 13:11
Bad day	PollyC	3	30-10-12 22:09
KEEP STRONG LADIES FOR YOUR KIDS SAKES	me82	2	30-10-12 19:27
son's birthday	angelgirl	1	30-10-12 15:13
court and coontact	running free	3	30-10-12 11:13
kids	stronger_now	1	29-10-12 11:43
Shared residency experiences please!!	polly123	7	29-10-12 11:18
worrying times	springflower	5	29-10-12 09:55
Excellent book: Definitely worth buying if you have children	Ashley	2	28-10-12 21:07
Its a mans world	angelgirl	5	28-10-12 10:41
appointed guardian please please help	angrybitter&twisted	5	27-10-12 18:39
Telephone contact - advice please	PollyC	6	26-10-12 19:28
Please someone help me	unsure82	9	26-10-12 16:18
Contested child contact	Skye	2	26-10-12 07:03
And it carries on	bella9	5	25-10-12 19:11
How do I tell my child	JAJL	6	24-10-12 23:29
contact	moulder	1	23-10-12 17:36
Whatever can I do???? (vulnerable son)	mumx5inuk	3	23-10-12 15:59
my next dilemma desperate for advice	stuckin	3	23-10-12 05:43
Can anyone explain...	TinyToes	7	20-10-12 09:13
im so scared at the moment	rockystinker	5	18-10-12 10:06
Children unsettled after spending time with dad...	neagley	8	18-10-12 09:08
feel like I'm going mad, again.	nelladean	2	17-10-12 23:33
First Christmas	TinyToes	6	17-10-12 23:12
worried about school.	unsure82	13	17-10-12 20:38
ive put my foot in it	s	11	16-10-12 19:27
Annoyed!	Beau	3	16-10-12 12:32
Advice needed about work	cocapebble	2	15-10-12 23:11
Antidepressants?	hummingbird	6	14-10-12 20:32
Anyone know anything about how children affected? school and aggression	sunnytown	16	13-10-12 21:59
what do I do now?	nelladean	4	12-10-12 13:00
How can I stop behaving like this?	hummingbird	7	12-10-12 09:18
my children question me	gaslighted	4	11-10-12 19:43
He must think Ive got no brain!	angelgirl	4	09-10-12 18:11
Question..passports, ex and children	Theateam	12	08-10-12 15:32
Worried now	whysitsohard	1	05-10-12 06:37
numbness	angelgirl	2	04-10-12 23:21
ignorance must be bliss	ka3n	1	02-10-12 19:21
ex claims he's not seen solicitors letter	exhaustedandscared	10	02-10-12 07:43
thought id let you ladies know	impy	8	30-09-12 09:44
Very sad at the moment	JAJL	7	28-09-12 10:27
Settling kids after contact	Kia Kaha Wahine	2	26-09-12 12:26
How do I help my daughter cope with her dad??	lookinforward2	11	25-09-12 16:23
What have u told ur child?	JAJL	4	25-09-12 12:11
terrible handover this evening	Tobefree	4	24-09-12 11:58
Opinions please ladies	Beau	11	22-09-12 18:18
A CAFCASS postitive to keep us strong	onthepier	3	22-09-12 11:26
turning up at the school	nelladean	4	21-09-12 09:59
Mediators and ex have made me so angry	Kite	7	20-09-12 22:35
My baby girl and me after court	Tatters	11	20-09-12 22:32
I have lost my baby girl	Tatters	25	19-09-12 23:26
How does that work?	angelgirl	3	19-09-12 21:18
A really s***ty couple of days and now my baby is showing signs of distress	Deflated	2	18-09-12 21:45
pregnant!!!! and I thought life to starting to become smooth again	pocket	4	14-09-12 18:26
Moving miles away ?	Breathoffreshair	10	14-09-12 14:01
Is it right and what can i do about it?	angrybitter&twisted	4	13-09-12 17:20
Divide and Conquer!	onthepier	5	08-09-12 20:43
he wanted to bath my sons	sunnytown	15	08-09-12 20:08
The school treat me like a leper	openeyes	4	07-09-12 18:27
Hi, for those who have moved area ... how quickly did your kids adapt?	rain	2	07-09-12 09:31
need to be strong	reasonunknown	3	06-09-12 13:47
the kids blame me for the break up :(	courage	1	02-09-12 23:06
fedup with treatment by authorities	angrybitter&twisted	2	02-09-12 20:01
He's a shell	witsend	1	01-09-12 23:54
Sorry to be here again	nelladean	6	01-09-12 20:58
CAFCASS ........................	sunshine	4	31-08-12 23:07
waiting for court papers to be served	angelgirl	2	31-08-12 15:27
My dilema.....	Tatters	5	30-08-12 15:29
desperatly need advice?? :(	courage	2	30-08-12 00:06
Knowing what you've lost	Butterfly1120	2	29-08-12 22:04
is there any end to it 2 yrs later	yankygirl	2	27-08-12 16:14
Now the system is abusing me	Ragtrade	1	25-08-12 22:04
Dreading tomorrow	nelladean	6	25-08-12 10:03
I'm scared....	duckface	3	23-08-12 15:13
Cafcass done x	sunshine	2	22-08-12 00:42
having to speak to him about child contact	unstuck	1	21-08-12 16:15
Where is this leading?	Lara	1	21-08-12 14:34
Please help	nelladean	4	21-08-12 09:33
just want to run away	nelladean	6	20-08-12 18:10
fed up	expectant81	2	20-08-12 15:54
I've got CAFCASS on Tue .............	sunshine	4	20-08-12 00:43
need advice for helping my youngest	rain	12	16-08-12 20:16
Will the fear ever go away?	nelladean	3	16-08-12 19:03
My son's birthday tomorrow	inneed1	1	16-08-12 15:18
tired	Marionette	2	16-08-12 11:37
Noone understands	witsend	5	15-08-12 15:03
hurting and scared	Tobefree	11	15-08-12 00:23
too late??	lizzy57	1	14-08-12 21:16
How do I get rid of a highly intelligent abusive ex?	duckface	4	14-08-12 11:16
Breaking down again, getting up again.	Tatters	2	13-08-12 00:41
hes threw us out..... worried bout him askin to see my daughter ????!!!	courage	2	12-08-12 12:46
my childs new headmistress	witsend	5	11-08-12 12:10
Urgent advice please help	TinyToes	29	04-08-12 14:43
Follow on from 'emotional abuse'	TinyToes	4	03-08-12 20:30
children and domestic violence - advise please	peace-NO-abuse	4	03-08-12 19:47
Cafcass... putting kids last!!!!!	Freedom20	5	03-08-12 10:56
Taking your children	CandyCaneArmy	19	01-08-12 23:26
Things just get more & more difficult to deal with	rainbowfighter	2	25-07-12 15:58
Lilbird, how was your weekend?	Flowerchild	0	23-07-12 10:27
what courts have awarded	rockystinker	1	20-07-12 13:23
I know what u mean- y bother splittin up??!	sunnytown	1	19-07-12 11:36
last court hearing and really worried Help!	angrybitter&twisted	2	19-07-12 10:44
Sat sobbing	Bumble bee	5	18-07-12 14:35
he wants his money back	rockystinker	9	16-07-12 00:30
really need help	bb12	1	12-07-12 19:22
really need help	bb12	4	12-07-12 15:36
really need help	bb12	0	11-07-12 21:39
really need help	bb12	0	11-07-12 21:39
There is NO point to my life	Someday	4	11-07-12 13:04
trying to take my son out of his bed	rockystinker	5	10-07-12 17:02
i feel sick	brokensoul-07	2	10-07-12 11:57
child contact	Neverends	4	09-07-12 01:24
Reporting breeches of RO	Beau	15	08-07-12 21:00
Mental illness or good acting ?	inneed1	3	08-07-12 17:53
my poor children	s	9	08-07-12 13:42
I just need someone to tell me it's going to be ok	Sindymmm	2	06-07-12 10:49
So angry this morning !	inneed1	11	05-07-12 21:10
Short position statement?	Freedom20	2	04-07-12 20:46
What a mess...	Freedom20	3	04-07-12 14:50
Report still not here, am desperate to find out what C,A,F,C,S,S	springflower	3	03-07-12 21:50
Anybody awake? X	Emma-Jane	14	03-07-12 18:01
Nothing more important than being safe.x	Emma-Jane	18	02-07-12 20:50
what now?	angelgirl	1	02-07-12 20:32
Abusive fathers / freedom 20	inneed1	5	01-07-12 17:11
Update x	Emma-Jane	18	30-06-12 00:59
I am a dreadfull person.	Silas	1	29-06-12 18:10
Help at court	angrybitter&twisted	1	29-06-12 10:05
I don't know where to turn with this	Tatters	1	28-06-12 19:36
To my little	Emma-Jane	11	28-06-12 12:22
holidays	rockystinker	3	27-06-12 15:56
rock bottom :(	Starlight	2	19-06-12 23:40
feeling terribly low	angelgirl	1	19-06-12 23:01
1st court v. soon feeling scared.	Freedom20	5	19-06-12 14:58
Cafcass have just increased risk!	Freedom20	3	14-06-12 12:41
blamed!	nowisee	2	11-06-12 14:04
He did NOT turn up at court	Someday	3	10-06-12 14:26
am I being oversensitive?	Treetops	5	10-06-12 09:53
I have amazing kIds!!	lookinforward2	4	09-06-12 07:56
This just doesn't sound right	Beau	7	07-06-12 17:56
I hate my ex....	Ashley	9	06-06-12 20:35
I am so stupid and weak	rainbowfighter	9	02-06-12 20:14
Is he still abusing me? So confused.	rainbowfighter	5	31-05-12 21:33
How to cope with joint custody and find head space?	suntree	2	31-05-12 15:58
strict	awoken	2	31-05-12 08:53
It seems so unfair	rainbowfighter	9	28-05-12 06:59
has antone experianced this.....i dont know what happens next??	olliebob	4	26-05-12 17:17
Struggling today	beingbrave	10	24-05-12 22:29
I feel so desperate to see my children	Sindymmm	10	24-05-12 09:14
Having 2nd thoughts...advice needed pls	Kite	1	23-05-12 20:53
KKW	Someday	7	22-05-12 20:14
in a terrible mess	littleoldme	8	22-05-12 11:18
another bad day in court	nelladean	8	20-05-12 02:18
scared to lose my daughter	scared123	5	15-05-12 20:44
Any ideas ladies	Beau	2	15-05-12 10:44
I hate myself	awoken	4	14-05-12 10:27
Pregnant but still a coward!	Katherine10	26	13-05-12 09:26
jealous	awoken	3	12-05-12 08:51
He is still trying to control me!	Pog28	1	10-05-12 23:08
Any suggestions?	angelgirl	0	08-05-12 18:44
Things SO much clearer!!!	survivor82	2	05-05-12 23:23
Freedom programme day three	beingbrave	4	04-05-12 06:56
Setting an example	feelinglostagain	2	03-05-12 22:55
More abuse from daughter	Ashley	6	03-05-12 22:04
Is Refuge an escape forever from abusers	stillunsure	3	03-05-12 11:34
The kids are suffering	feelinglostagain	1	03-05-12 00:38
I have gone backwards...	Pog28	2	02-05-12 18:06
Pain	Ashley	4	02-05-12 17:19
what should I do?	angelgirl	2	28-04-12 08:16
This is exactly why I don't need to mess up his life	Someday	9	27-04-12 18:23
He's trying to undermine me with the kids	shirly	3	27-04-12 16:32
Ladies	Beau	1	26-04-12 17:25
Urgent advice needed please	BlueBird	2	24-04-12 10:45
in need of some support please	olliebob	4	23-04-12 22:21
caffcass report	Skye	2	22-04-12 22:11
Good morning Ladies	Beau	2	21-04-12 22:43
feeling totally rubbish	angelgirl	2	21-04-12 16:07
I just want someone to tell me, "It's ok..."	Freedom7	8	20-04-12 15:46
can I have your opinions please lovely ladies?	angelgirl	2	20-04-12 15:30
Feedback letter for Cafcass	Black Horse	13	20-04-12 11:53
childrensvoicesinfamilylaw1	true to myself	3	18-04-12 20:38
anyone to lend me an ear?	rosie	5	17-04-12 00:12
Neverending	witsend	8	16-04-12 23:12
Feedback letter for SS	Black Horse	0	15-04-12 16:43
caffcass	Skye	3	13-04-12 10:47
court in the morning	impy	9	12-04-12 00:46
wishing he was decent dad and i could trust him and allow him access	elizabeth31	10	10-04-12 15:14
He's utterly MAD!!!	beingbrave	3	06-04-12 21:31
Daughter	Lisse Lou	4	03-04-12 08:23
disaster weekend visit	tkf	4	02-04-12 11:00
Dear God	KiaKahaWahine	3	01-04-12 21:40
Afraid	flower	3	26-03-12 16:24
Feel Down- Daughter wants to see dad	whysitsohard	2	25-03-12 03:48
child contact	tkf	2	24-03-12 21:51
Did social services get involved in child abuse cases in the 1980s?	Ashley	4	23-03-12 22:26
i know my son is only little, but	Asaldis	0	23-03-12 15:51
child contact o/n midweek am i being unreasonable ?	eva	7	22-03-12 14:28
He has my kids	jarsofclay	3	22-03-12 13:06
There's always something else ...	sunshine	1	21-03-12 20:21
Feeling sad	Beau	3	21-03-12 10:51
using her to relay messages !	moomie	2	19-03-12 16:57
my sons away for mothers day :(	olliebob	4	16-03-12 19:57
Mothers Day	Lisse Lou	3	16-03-12 11:51
threats but no proof	rockystinker	4	12-03-12 17:35
Help! Advice needed	missblues	1	10-03-12 21:14
Who do I report it to ????	Someday	5	09-03-12 18:13
What do I do ???	feelinglostagain	4	09-03-12 16:30
Lisa	springflower	3	09-03-12 15:25
really worried will this ever go away	cross roads	1	09-03-12 11:46
Lawyer Letter Sent...	missblues	2	08-03-12 20:49
Another question (sorry)	whysitsohard	2	07-03-12 11:01
Aggression (child)	whysitsohard	3	07-03-12 10:36
Feel soo sad	Someday	3	06-03-12 22:59
He wants access	elizabeth31	9	06-03-12 21:35
Advice	dream4better	9	06-03-12 10:55
dont know what to do...	pregnant&heartbroken	15	04-03-12 21:41
why havent they asked	whysitsohard	2	04-03-12 07:11
The mockery of the family law courts	Hope21	14	03-03-12 23:06
could it be a sign of abuse???	keepsmilingxx	1	01-03-12 15:55
custody of my girls	keep smiling	4	29-02-12 21:36
Re contact	shelby	4	27-02-12 22:54
Holidays and bunny rabbits !!	Lisse Lou	7	26-02-12 22:50
scared	scared123	3	25-02-12 23:20
Narcissistic personality disorder	beingbrave	5	24-02-12 18:27
Daughters problems after he has gone...	Helena	4	24-02-12 09:20
emotionally abusing my own daughter	moomie	10	23-02-12 12:53
I need to section my son	Marionette	10	23-02-12 09:22
the affects on children	daffodil	3	22-02-12 23:24
Children & Future	whysitsohard	2	22-02-12 15:10
standing on the edge of oblivion	impy	5	21-02-12 21:20
Bad psychological report-what next?	nelladean	2	21-02-12 21:17
Child support	Someday	4	20-02-12 09:36
CSA	Oncebiten	4	20-02-12 09:29
really need to talk...i am once again mentally battered	olliebob	6	18-02-12 23:48
Can someone please give me an opinion on this?	awoken	5	18-02-12 22:54
CAFCASS	nelladean	1	18-02-12 22:29
Thank God for my wonderful son	Lisse Lou	3	18-02-12 22:27
Dirty tricks	Lisse Lou	3	18-02-12 17:01
do i put it in my statement for custody???	keepsmilingxx	1	17-02-12 19:14
Wits end.	nelladean	4	17-02-12 19:05
contact handover	eva	2	11-02-12 22:30
my children	tkf	1	11-02-12 21:34
does anybody else feel this way....	olliebob	6	10-02-12 23:53
advice needed....son came home from contact with a burn on his hand...	olliebob	3	07-02-12 20:43
Struggling to hold it together	nelladean	4	07-02-12 13:54
Shared parenting	beingbrave	3	07-02-12 10:27
going round in circles getting nowhere	set me free	3	06-02-12 15:48
feel like im slipping back a bit.....	olliebob	10	06-02-12 00:58
Father trying to gain sole residency	nelladean	6	05-02-12 10:49
in the news today..	eva	6	05-02-12 09:33
Worried sick today	Independent lady	2	04-02-12 14:06
cafcass visit	eva	4	01-02-12 21:36
social services involved, beside myself!	Treetops	7	01-02-12 11:17
How I learnt and how do I unlearn?	hope2012	11	31-01-12 10:38
pathetic man!	angelgirl	3	26-01-12 21:58
feel rubbish	angelgirl	1	23-01-12 11:01
confused!	angelgirl	2	22-01-12 10:20
kakakawhini	awoken	3	21-01-12 16:47
What can I do about this	beingbrave	7	20-01-12 11:37
so here i am again while he no doubt sleeps happily in the comfort of knowing i cant prove a thing :(	keepingmum	4	20-01-12 10:35
no shame	angelgirl	5	18-01-12 12:51
cant sleep, so much rolling around in my head :'(	keepingmum	4	17-01-12 11:52
what is reasonable access when there is a divorce?	awoken	1	16-01-12 12:36
unhappy children	tkf	2	15-01-12 20:48
child contact - Cafcass report	Someday	6	14-01-12 23:14
Contact with the children	awoken	14	14-01-12 21:48
Please help - Cafcass report and abusive ex	Hope21	3	10-01-12 14:45
made me smile!!	keepsmilingxx	1	06-01-12 23:46
Rant & Query about Contact	humanclimbingframe	5	31-12-11 21:05
sorry	awoken	5	30-12-11 15:46
Morning	beingbrave	7	27-12-11 02:00
Can't get through on helplines	worriedmummy	4	24-12-11 23:02
got court tomorrow	eva	11	24-12-11 00:54
driving me nuts	desy	0	22-12-11 22:15
not sure how to feel	impy	7	21-12-11 21:41
my head is going to explode	olliebob	3	20-12-11 20:39
the ex wants to come to my house!!!!!	olliebob	2	19-12-11 20:41
Advice needed concerning CACASS	Hope21	2	18-12-11 22:10
ladies, i need some advice please... (control through child contact)	eva	4	17-12-11 14:36
Abusive (age removed by moderator) year old son	Pip	3	16-12-11 17:48
emotional abuse?	nowisee	1	16-12-11 10:45
AT LAST!!!!	olliebob	5	13-12-11 23:42
How long does this go on for?	humanclimbingframe	6	13-12-11 21:34
:'(	Marionette	7	13-12-11 09:49
no idea where my child is!!!	olliebob	2	13-12-11 09:26
Worried mum	fool4beleivinghim	1	11-12-11 13:58
Will this time of year always be hard?	unstuck	1	11-12-11 07:25
new names	troubled	8	10-12-11 23:18
Limbo	5princes	4	01-12-11 17:41
feel like im failing my kids	olliebob	2	01-12-11 13:27
needing advice	luv4luv	1	29-11-11 23:50
:(	KiaKahaWahine	5	27-11-11 07:38
SULKING! is this emotional abuse or am I over sensitive?	awoken	5	25-11-11 23:46
New to this...	auntyspuddy	20	16-11-11 16:35
Am I losing my mind?	Marionette	6	14-11-11 22:04
Cafcass	KiaKahaWahine	5	14-11-11 21:34
my daughter breaks my heart	lucy1	1	13-11-11 22:31
choked	Butterfly1120	1	11-11-11 16:59
Back here again	Zombie	2	10-11-11 21:04
Physical damage this time......	kk	3	09-11-11 14:10
Don't know what to do next	KittenKat	8	09-11-11 13:21
Really struggling with social services perception of me	sunnyg1rl05	4	04-11-11 19:19
Bad Day	Butterfly1120	3	02-11-11 20:40
Cafcass	KiaKahaWahine	2	01-11-11 22:31
overwhelmed	Confused29	7	01-11-11 21:58
Child access and alcohol abuse	beingbrave	6	01-11-11 16:20
all alone	awoken	10	01-11-11 12:19
really bad couple of days and then ROARED LIKE A LION!	awoken	4	28-10-11 13:09
Wobble	Headache	4	27-10-11 21:45
Teenage boys, how do we protect them?	nicole	2	26-10-11 18:56
hello	Butterfly1120	3	21-10-11 11:54
social services GRRRRRR	awoken	3	19-10-11 12:25
Thinking of you and sending all who need them lots of big hugs. Plus - words that really hurt you.	iwantout	6	19-10-11 09:57
catch 22......	olliebob	3	10-10-11 12:18
Today has not been a good day	Marionette	7	06-10-11 21:13
Responsibility of Social Services	Marionette	6	04-10-11 20:55
Cafcass	KiaKahaWahine	13	04-10-11 19:23
tears for the social worker advice needed HELP!	awoken	12	02-10-11 16:51
What is the point?	Marionette	3	29-09-11 22:01
advice needed re access arrangements	unlucky39	5	29-09-11 20:10
How low can one get	Butterfly1120	1	24-09-11 17:29
nasty messages to son	hopefullysafe	2	24-09-11 17:19
just had ss meeting hopefully my babys home tomorrow x	olliebob	5	23-09-11 20:00
So mad with social services i will burst	sunnyg1rl05	5	22-09-11 19:16
SS	Marionette	9	21-09-11 17:52
What the kids say	KiaKahaWahine	4	15-09-11 20:39
:-\|	Marionette	6	15-09-11 09:37
Ounce of normality	Butterfly1120	0	14-09-11 08:30
Arrghhh What is wrong with the man!!! for goodness sake!!	sunnyg1rl05	5	13-09-11 23:42
Can't fix this :(	Marionette	4	12-09-11 22:18
help me	Marionette	5	09-09-11 18:24
Ss news	Butterfly1120	1	05-09-11 23:12
Frustrated	Butterfly1120	1	01-09-11 21:59
hi its on edge	on edge	5	29-08-11 19:07
I would rather not start them at school here	Butterfly1120	1	29-08-11 15:49
The support planning meeting	Butterfly1120	5	29-08-11 00:12
Pretty certain	Butterfly1120	4	28-08-11 22:23
Why does a crisis make me feel stronger?	Marionette	3	28-08-11 21:37
My sons behaviour is really getting me down	Butterfly1120	2	28-08-11 18:18
children	Fed up	2	27-08-11 10:32
my little girl	solonely	10	18-08-11 13:54
What do I do?	Marionette	16	14-08-11 00:11
Does anyone relate to this?	unstuck	2	13-08-11 13:59
dying inside	Butterfly1120	0	08-08-11 15:21
ERRRRRRRRRRRR	keeping strong	3	08-08-11 08:34
Really bad weekend.	Mimi	6	26-07-11 09:40
?	celine87	5	26-07-11 01:35
control or love	kat74	1	25-07-11 15:53
no say in my daughters life that he is controling	kat74	4	25-07-11 13:00
help	charlie	1	25-07-11 01:18
its taken me a long time to see	charlie	0	25-07-11 00:43
victim who had to leave her older children	giz	4	20-07-11 09:59
step fathers!!	babycakes	0	17-07-11 19:01
Being FORCED by the Judge	Lacey	9	12-07-11 20:43
What's best for the children	Revelation	2	05-07-11 20:23
Urgh preparing for battle...	phoenix555	10	04-07-11 20:08
Just an update on my situation..	out but still trapped	4	25-06-11 11:05
Tell me I'm doing the right thing........	kk	8	24-06-11 08:43
I've been free one whole week	BrokenSparrow	4	22-06-11 23:21
Just when my life can't become any more like soap opera...	Miffy27	5	14-06-11 17:59
What do I tell the kids?	phoenix555	6	13-06-11 11:58
What to do with a problem Social Worker?	TheCoolerQueen	11	07-06-11 19:04
Arrrggghhh....	out but still trapped	1	05-06-11 22:51
Is this a really bad idea?	BrokenSparrow	6	04-06-11 20:51
a leopard never changes it's spots	Mummy C	3	03-06-11 20:14
secrets	earthstone	3	03-06-11 15:33
Control... omg i am so mad..	out but still trapped	3	03-06-11 12:43
reality back in check...	out but still trapped	4	27-05-11 16:19
Was great to see my little man....	out but still trapped	2	22-05-11 14:27
Children are his weapon!!	Skye	2	19-05-11 22:31
where do i turn now?	moo-moo	1	19-05-11 15:31
Hurrah for The Hideout	Fallen	0	19-05-11 10:24
update..	out but still trapped	5	12-05-11 22:50
help	Sandy8	5	11-05-11 16:08
New Here	Looking for Support	4	09-05-11 17:03
scared	PSYCHO	3	08-05-11 21:53
id like some advice	out but still trapped	25	07-05-11 09:43
unsure what to do	Dry-Puddle	1	05-05-11 20:04
talking nasty to my son too	PSYCHO	16	04-05-11 21:20
new here	PSYCHO	4	01-05-11 18:07
Really struggling	Laue82	1	01-05-11 13:58
hey all...	out but still trapped	2	27-04-11 12:55
not coping with dd reminding me of him constantly	picxie	3	27-04-11 11:04
kids home from their pedo father	jarsofclay	3	22-04-11 08:42
its calm i hope theres no storm	cloudyday	3	20-04-11 12:26
Fed up and wondering if it will ever end.	howmuchmore	1	19-04-11 15:01
Starting to get anxious	HMP	3	17-04-11 09:14
Conference today	jarsofclay	7	16-04-11 09:23
Can I...	MickeyTheMouse	3	13-04-11 14:14
Another question.	MickeyTheMouse	13	09-04-11 23:06
When does my life actually begin?	jarsofclay	10	05-04-11 23:26
Good support	lsuccv	2	30-03-11 22:46
child contact...	lou123	5	24-03-11 20:45
advice needed please	finallyfree2beme	7	19-03-11 20:28
What do you do when the kids feelings make you feel like you have made the wrong decision?	nicole	2	15-03-11 18:29
so annoyed	gin	3	14-03-11 20:52
Saw DV as a child, now grown up.	NowGrownUp	6	14-03-11 17:58
So scared, social services now involved. what a mess!	Indigo123	5	12-03-11 22:00
i emailed him :D	finallyfree2beme	1	12-03-11 11:37
Word of advice for those with contact orders made through court	aissaf	4	07-03-11 22:19
Advice needed	Lookingforward	7	06-03-11 17:58
No contact rule with children??	hope2goon	3	04-03-11 22:50
Had meeting with local Womens aid	Indigo123	2	04-03-11 15:47
Alarm bells but I could be over reacting	EnglishRose	8	04-03-11 00:08
Why can't he separate the two?? :(	HMP	3	03-03-11 17:40
being held responsible 4 others actions	missyb	1	03-03-11 14:35
Advice about access arrangements for children	Bouncing back	2	28-02-11 12:46
How can I help my Daughter ???	Pepsi	7	27-02-11 10:57
Hi ladies, I'm new here;)	angels3	5	26-02-11 14:16
against a rock in a hard place!	dollybird	1	18-02-11 22:00
Is this fair?	HMP	5	17-02-11 17:01
Mental abuse	jo4545	5	16-02-11 14:51
regarding contact	forever_trying	5	14-02-11 23:28
Managing contact with the children but not me	Flora	3	14-02-11 17:23
never get support	Lookingforward	5	14-02-11 10:22
19th feb	youngmum2009	4	10-02-11 12:22
advice needed son is suffering emotional distress	lostmummy	1	07-02-11 20:50
how do i help my daughter	lil	5	04-02-11 09:30
emotional abuse	lostmummy	6	03-02-11 10:11
domestic violence and the army	dollydaydream	4	02-02-11 19:26
childrens services	pickle73	2	01-02-11 12:28
social services	pickle73	5	01-02-11 11:56
i want to make the right decision	julez73	14	28-01-11 01:10
never ending.	kaz67	5	27-01-11 07:55
advice needed	jcsofedupeofmylif	1	03-01-11 14:04
all time low	charlie74	1	27-12-10 09:28
Kids have just left to be with him and his family!	nicole	2	26-12-10 21:25
i reported abusive and ss took my kids	jcsofedupeofmylif	2	24-12-10 23:28
he doesnt think child worth paying for	woman1	2	20-12-10 00:01
hi, any tips pls on managing not to cry at court?	woman1	11	15-12-10 21:07
What is it? Re -How to end	what is this?	1	13-12-10 11:34
advice re will writting	lucy1	9	12-12-10 13:09
advice re contact	lucy1	1	12-12-10 08:43
For your little ones... fun!	Cannotthink	5	11-12-10 23:15
just need some advice	jbs223	11	07-12-10 22:33
letter put through door	Christina	4	06-12-10 19:30
dreading it	lil	3	06-12-10 19:01
letters!	impy	11	05-12-10 03:14
what to do about my kids?	julez73	5	01-12-10 16:52
they have given my lovely children to abuser	Sun	11	23-11-10 03:17
how courts will just hand over children to the hands of abusers.....	sasha	5	19-11-10 11:34
will i loose my kids	lucy1	2	14-11-10 23:11
Think of the kids	Maisie	9	13-11-10 21:21
so bloody angry!!	sunnyg1rl05	10	04-11-10 13:37
I know I should be ready but Im not	Indigo123	5	28-10-10 22:21
I cant beat him	Skye	7	27-10-10 14:43
I've done it but have a question.	openeyes	3	15-10-10 12:26
daughter at ex's tonight	lucy1	4	10-10-10 00:06
facing him in court	fallen_angel	4	01-10-10 23:31
Advice for staying safe with children	Sunny	2	29-09-10 15:31
Help with dealing with teenage sons	mum4boys	7	24-09-10 15:31
What more can i do? Sorry it's a long one	happy***	21	24-09-10 14:59
How do you cope with protecting your kids and trying to help them have a (normal) relationship with the abuser	nicole	3	21-09-10 14:45
Sh*t's going to hit the fan	whyme?	2	20-09-10 11:14
children	lucy1	2	15-09-10 18:51
going nowhere	1 bad luck afta another	0	09-09-10 01:37
talking to the kids...	lucy1	3	08-09-10 21:41
I am slowly losing my son, and everyone seems to believe him	dani_cali	6	07-09-10 21:05
I've decided to fight!	wkmmum	1	06-09-10 21:47
3 months in	pixie	0	26-08-10 11:14
Not good - don't know what to do	scaredmum	10	23-08-10 00:43
Some women	Amused	4	21-08-10 23:13
NSPCC and help for children affected by DV	Don'tLookBack	1	20-08-10 16:37
hello ltnc.please help.	mumof3	22	20-08-10 01:49
it feels like cafcass have delivered the final blow.	mommanna	7	19-08-10 12:04
Update	wkmmum	3	18-08-10 11:35
CAFCASS	deannatrois	3	11-08-10 18:08
Contact with children	tutti	3	03-08-10 21:22
Supervising Contact	Han	5	29-07-10 15:32
Surviving - What do you think would be for the best?	Iamstrongernow	6	29-07-10 00:17
No contact rule	tillytot41	12	28-07-10 16:45
Social services, court and summer hols	wkmmum	2	22-07-10 21:01
horrid henry	me2	6	19-07-10 03:27
indirect contact	impy	1	15-07-10 16:32
Childrens Services	Nobacherie	1	14-07-10 17:37
Up to his old tricks	tillytot41	8	13-07-10 21:33
nelly	nelly	4	13-07-10 20:19
So much going on	wkmmum	9	10-07-10 13:11
message to ka3n	lisa	4	10-07-10 08:35
Confused	Samira	3	08-07-10 17:15
hes kidnapped my son	itsmylife	8	01-07-10 21:40
OMG how do i get ppl so wrong.......i feel like I'm going crazy	theendofmydreams	2	30-06-10 14:23
Help	trues	6	30-06-10 11:20
update	itsmylife	6	29-06-10 10:23
what do you think???	itsmylife	5	28-06-10 13:06
cant stop him hurting the kids	pixie	3	26-06-10 12:52
police take the mickey!!!!!	pixie	5	25-06-10 17:55
He knows that contact will have to stop.	rhiannon	4	25-06-10 14:38
please help me, i dont kno what to do	l3000	4	25-06-10 12:00
Ex is endangering son during contact	rhiannon	5	21-06-10 16:06
Don't know what to do re son	wkmmum	6	21-06-10 16:03
he wants me to phone him	itsmylife	7	20-06-10 22:23
bloody social services	itsmylife	7	20-06-10 14:12
Have others felt the same	stef	4	18-06-10 09:08
So hard re kids	cj x	7	16-06-10 19:59
stuck ...confused...	MK	8	16-06-10 17:06
So hard re kids	cj x	0	15-06-10 20:53
oh dear what a day	itsmylife	2	14-06-10 22:47
My son again	wkmmum	14	14-06-10 13:31
so angry	pixie	7	13-06-10 15:46
thank you	pixie	1	11-06-10 09:52
finding it hard to cope	impy	3	11-06-10 09:09
My son	wkmmum	8	11-06-10 00:31
Random question ....if	ka3n	5	09-06-10 17:42
advice kids please URGENT	Nich	9	08-06-10 11:25
can i stop him seeing the children?	itsmylife	3	08-06-10 11:23
Have i blown it?	berrygirl	9	07-06-10 19:00
im a wreck today	mumof3	2	06-06-10 16:33
expected it but still fuming	mumof3	7	05-06-10 19:57
accused of sexually abusing my son	stef	10	04-06-10 10:57
my son`s self harming again.	itsmylife	7	01-06-10 17:41
my sis needs help	eye85	5	31-05-10 22:20
Scared	saved	1	25-05-10 10:30
Blackmail	angel10	20	24-05-10 20:06
can someone post a legal link for me please	itsmylife	5	24-05-10 17:02
not messed up	lisa	3	19-05-10 22:21
really need advice pleaseeee	itsmylife	27	19-05-10 13:14
to many cook`s	itsmylife	3	18-05-10 18:15
Don't know	saved	3	13-05-10 09:47
Am I allowed to move?	marachino	5	11-05-10 11:22
why does he have to be a complete w**ker???	sunnyg1rl05	10	10-05-10 09:53
children and access. what are my rights with controlling access	carrie1979	2	06-05-10 22:12
Finally got to speak to my SS woman	sunnyg1rl05	5	06-05-10 11:00
Son's school asked me today did i still have 'parental responsibility'	dani_cali	1	05-05-10 21:56
In court next wednesday	marachino	8	04-05-10 23:16
I'm going to do it.....	theendofmydreams	2	04-05-10 17:41
SS just called	wkmmum	4	04-05-10 16:54
my girls	lolagain	8	03-05-10 09:35
wkdmum ...	bx	0	02-05-10 18:00
access	saved	3	02-05-10 13:03
Problems with the children	calon1	7	01-05-10 16:02
Had a crap few days	sunnyg1rl05	18	29-04-10 00:11
his revenge	little green pea	1	28-04-10 20:50
Scared kids wont come back	marachino	4	28-04-10 19:29
New, upset & confused	Daisy	2	27-04-10 15:35
Stockholm Syndrome	pinkpanther	3	27-04-10 07:43
wnat to cut out my childrens father from their life	marachino	2	23-04-10 16:43
iam in trouble	itsmylife	32	23-04-10 00:27
When will the mental abuse stop...........	marachino	12	22-04-10 18:11
Social services came round today	sunnyg1rl05	4	21-04-10 11:09
Supervised and Supported contact	Kay	2	20-04-10 20:10
So confused	wkmmum	6	20-04-10 17:41
Help please I'm really worried	Kay	4	20-04-10 12:24
desparate	freud	1	17-04-10 09:26
I finally rang the helpline	sunnyg1rl05	5	13-04-10 14:55
bad day 2day this is the only outlet	jb2710	1	13-04-10 11:50
i'm sinking please help me....	jb2710	5	13-04-10 11:38
Bitter sweet victory	tillytot41	7	06-04-10 11:52
Family Court Advice	freeatlast	8	04-04-10 20:36
Really nervous:(	tillytot41	4	29-03-10 09:40
Staying for the sake of the children	TJ	13	24-03-10 14:42
Injunctions and going to court	freeatlast	6	16-03-10 20:59
Children, young people and domestic abuse	Jen (WA Moderator)	4	15-03-10 21:10
Help with court	cookiemonster	3	15-03-10 12:13
CAFCASS	hurtingbadly	0	14-03-10 17:13
I should know better	freud	1	12-03-10 11:31
So so frightened	tillytot41	9	11-03-10 14:09
Still trying to cope - child / father relationship. Selfish feelings	Kirst	4	27-02-10 15:35
going to court, cafcass, my children and 2 abusive ex partners	hayleyr	2	14-02-10 02:24
Adbucting children	Sparky5	1	29-01-10 16:16
Time without our children	Moving On	3	14-01-10 12:01
Child contact	Leila-Rose	1	27-12-09 17:12