ARCHIVE - Leaving an abusive relationship

ARCHIVE - Leaving an abusive relationship	Poster	Posts	Last Post
My boyfriend was arrested, is this the end or the beginning?	KB27	27	04-05-13 16:53
Hey ladies...	lilbird	22	22-04-13 20:44
More fool me...again	phoenix1	10	19-04-13 20:08
ive left, why isnt he calling?	1shineday	21	18-04-13 19:40
Stll living in same house. He's seeing someone else	Spagetti head	7	18-04-13 00:05
scared of leaving	pam	11	17-04-13 15:07
Embarrassed	Lostmyselfalongtheway	6	16-04-13 23:18
Rock bottom ..	Bubbles	22	16-04-13 20:28
Support needed please.	sunshinesoon	10	16-04-13 19:47
Hw do i find the strength to keep him away for good?	nomorechances	4	16-04-13 11:30
pingu has her heart broken and scraped her self off the floor	pingu2	7	16-04-13 07:24
I'm angry :-(	peaches14265	6	15-04-13 20:12
Really hurt	Chocolateorange	7	15-04-13 20:05
how do you do it	myfault	5	15-04-13 19:24
Really need help	Still.Breathing.x	4	15-04-13 18:19
can anyone advise?	angelgirl	1	15-04-13 17:48
Really dont no what to do.	Still.Breathing.x	18	15-04-13 14:33
Hopes I picked the right exit	SUGARB	2	15-04-13 10:52
Really need to talk :'(	Still.Breathing.x	34	14-04-13 21:20
Tangled web	whoaminow	8	14-04-13 21:03
Could finally be over.......	f.adams	1	14-04-13 20:36
Just can't bring myself to split up farther and son	Lucy_Miller <3	13	14-04-13 20:26
People who won't back off	Fluffyhun	11	14-04-13 11:41
Can someone help me,need to leave saturday	rosie09	11	14-04-13 00:12
omg what so bad!!!!	pingu2	11	13-04-13 23:19
screwed up :(	pheonix123	9	09-04-13 16:01
Freedom program	tiptoemum	3	08-04-13 21:43
Finally seen the light...	Worthmore	2	08-04-13 14:58
I feel like I am going mad	Mysmileismymask	6	07-04-13 14:55
Advice	f.adams	7	06-04-13 21:17
sometimes i just need to talk	Themum	7	05-04-13 23:21
when will the balance tip	duckegg	8	05-04-13 21:15
He's not getting it	SUGARB	3	05-04-13 10:24
New on here	tiptoemum	11	05-04-13 07:27
feeling terrible looking for protection order	Moniker	4	04-04-13 00:57
Are things escalating for me because I'm taking a stand against him?	Moniker	4	02-04-13 23:43
So confused	elektra	5	01-04-13 16:54
Abuse is escalating alarmingly - getting worried.	Ashley	9	29-03-13 19:48
Ashamed	Mixedupgirl	10	28-03-13 16:57
Ever felt as though you aren't good enough?	ConfusedNScared	3	26-03-13 21:11
Need information please	compass	10	26-03-13 07:40
Paying the price for leaving	Beau	8	25-03-13 17:32
The biggest fight of my life	inneed1	7	25-03-13 15:55
Need a boost/pep talk	Determined	3	25-03-13 05:59
why do they tell me this?	sasha82	2	24-03-13 23:26
Why do I want him back	Tatty	15	24-03-13 22:57
How can he do this and why am I surprised?	Hopenothate	2	24-03-13 22:34
cant he get to me when u dont know the women hes friends with now on the internet?	Iriscream	1	24-03-13 21:43
upset bribery	Iriscream	1	24-03-13 21:35
Anually raped by my partner while i slept	Bubbles	31	24-03-13 19:08
Had enough	Popdedoo	2	24-03-13 17:17
I have screwed up big time ....	Bubbles	14	24-03-13 16:36
I would really appreciate any advice	Chocolateorange	8	24-03-13 16:28
The build up is starting	Lizzyloo	3	24-03-13 11:54
New and totally feeling crazy, any help/support would be appreciated	Allshookup	31	24-03-13 07:46
He said	Pumpkinpot	6	23-03-13 23:18
I've got it wrong, I'm over-reacting	whoaminow	8	23-03-13 22:38
Why is he being all nice and reasonable now?	elektra	4	23-03-13 19:44
Bruised	Head cook	2	23-03-13 12:06
Thank you all, you gave me strength	whoaminow	1	22-03-13 22:54
Elektra 1 - Him 0	elektra	1	22-03-13 21:54
Playing for Sympathy	SUGARB	10	22-03-13 17:38
I hate him I hate him I hate him	elektra	1	22-03-13 11:35
Staying strong	Pumpkinpot	1	22-03-13 10:53
The backlash is starting	Poppyfield	7	22-03-13 09:57
getting out safely	hoprfull	12	22-03-13 08:20
IM NEW...on here....God	patsy17	14	22-03-13 07:05
hi help?	london k	4	21-03-13 23:56
lundy bancroft	how mad am i	5	21-03-13 23:09
Change of heart...	lilbird	4	21-03-13 22:34
i did it.	s	5	21-03-13 20:34
Anxious and scared	lulupet	3	20-03-13 16:05
Such mixed feelings	Poppyfield	2	20-03-13 13:52
Got to make a plan	feelinglostagain	2	20-03-13 13:33
Katniss...	lilbird	5	20-03-13 11:45
duped again!!!	Bumble bee	5	20-03-13 01:02
Just how do you do it...	lilbird	9	19-03-13 22:44
Can they change?	Rosie123	9	19-03-13 21:58
too scared to leave him	winniebego	6	19-03-13 16:34
At any given moment ....	Bubbles	5	19-03-13 10:17
Serious help...	lilbird	7	19-03-13 08:14
argh	whoaminow	3	19-03-13 00:11
What do I do :(	lilbird	12	18-03-13 20:12
How do I block on outlook?	Treetops	2	18-03-13 16:28
From bad to worse	Bumble bee	5	17-03-13 23:19
Refuge advice please please please :(	lilbird	15	17-03-13 12:44
Planning to leave with my children	rosie09	8	16-03-13 20:53
Got to leave	Head cook	7	16-03-13 00:16
I'm drowning...	lilbird	4	15-03-13 21:39
He's got worse since he's been doing the Respect Programme!	Ashley	19	15-03-13 11:14
Feeling awful - was I that terrible to him?	Moniker	3	14-03-13 02:28
Leaving with financial commitments	357goingmad	2	13-03-13 21:54
Need strength to tell him it's over	whoaminow	8	13-03-13 20:18
what was the point - really ??	myfault	9	13-03-13 14:02
Rock bottom	blondey86	7	13-03-13 11:41
He's been dangling carrots in front of me all this time to keep me hooked in	Ashley	7	13-03-13 00:00
My story and I dont know what to do	357goingmad	14	12-03-13 23:03
Scared and don't know what to do...	Smile234	2	12-03-13 22:41
the short of my story	SilentButStrong86	4	12-03-13 21:51
What have I started	Poppyfield	5	12-03-13 20:09
Nothing is going right :(	lilbird	6	12-03-13 18:22
So Frustrated.....	Kingfisher	4	12-03-13 16:51
I'm losing it tonight.	rosie	5	12-03-13 03:51
I feel like my head is going to burst	Lizzyloo	5	10-03-13 17:59
I am out!!!!!!!!!!!	nearlyout	8	10-03-13 16:05
help	how mad am i	6	08-03-13 23:36
Don't know if I've got the strength :(	lilbird	13	08-03-13 16:25
scared but dont know why	nearlyout	7	08-03-13 08:03
Help/Advice	isabella42	84	07-03-13 18:54
lilbird and all. a rage that came from enlightenment	how mad am i	9	06-03-13 23:02
don't disturb the sleeping lion	snettie	4	06-03-13 20:20
Can someone please explain....	lilbird	5	06-03-13 16:29
Panicing and Shaking...	lilbird	6	05-03-13 22:16
I suddenly have a BIG urge to contact him, help plz	Tatters	2	05-03-13 19:17
No privacy	McMc	1	05-03-13 17:21
No Contact.....	Kingfisher	16	04-03-13 20:25
fed up	1231.	3	04-03-13 11:57
Scared...I feel like I'm going to explode....	lilbird	10	03-03-13 17:27
I correctly predicted another episode	elektra	11	03-03-13 08:38
Should I stay or go?	McMc	7	02-03-13 18:48
This website bring back old memories	SunDriedTomato	2	01-03-13 15:58
really good video about no contact	how mad am i	0	01-03-13 11:50
its beyond belief	how mad am i	8	01-03-13 10:53
Give in for quiet life or stick it out cos I am right??	Tough Cookie	18	28-02-13 22:22
this is it	s	17	28-02-13 20:46
help	how mad am i	11	28-02-13 00:30
youll lock me up i know it	how mad am i	4	28-02-13 00:10
cracking up	anotherday12	6	27-02-13 23:15
I opened the door after 3 months	Lolliloo	2	27-02-13 23:00
sick tired and just a tiny bit angry	how mad am i	5	27-02-13 18:49
still going	how mad am i	2	27-02-13 17:59
Advice, please.	DD	6	25-02-13 14:33
just new at the forum	.tabatha	1	24-02-13 23:54
Trying to put pieces together...	lilbird	14	24-02-13 09:45
Hiding again!!!	bella9	1	22-02-13 14:39
advice please	nearlyout	12	20-02-13 15:18
I just want him	Kingfisher	10	20-02-13 10:28
My personal space is non-existent	Tough Cookie	3	20-02-13 08:22
hes done it again.	s	12	20-02-13 00:19
Why does he hate me SO much?	Tough Cookie	12	19-02-13 17:43
update so you know for now im good	how mad am i	1	19-02-13 17:08
So glad I went no contact......	forestfox	4	19-02-13 16:48
Broke no contact	SUGARB	5	19-02-13 12:57
I'm fat and disgusting....	Kingfisher	12	19-02-13 00:42
Weak	Head cook	4	18-02-13 23:12
new survivor and gotten free	delicate flower	6	18-02-13 19:56
So...the first day he wants contact is Mother's Day...	Tough Cookie	14	17-02-13 16:59
help	s	10	17-02-13 01:14
n now he calls	SUGARB	2	17-02-13 00:12
I thought they had stopped	springflower	1	16-02-13 23:50
I slid backwards	how mad am i	5	16-02-13 22:16
full no contact for 48h	veryconfused	2	16-02-13 20:56
miracle	how mad am i	2	16-02-13 16:41
Weak and tired....	lilbird	2	16-02-13 16:24
Head to heart...how long!	Kingfisher	8	16-02-13 15:45
Was he an abuser?	stupidme	9	16-02-13 13:35
Struggling tonight..	Tesserae	5	16-02-13 09:15
please help.	s	13	15-02-13 23:39
I need help	Mysmileismymask	2	15-02-13 22:21
I feel like I'm crumbling from the inside out	Beau	3	15-02-13 10:26
When the invisible cord snaps...	Tough Cookie	1	15-02-13 09:06
Sinking	Poppyfield	9	15-02-13 07:23
Really doesn't care	Head cook	3	15-02-13 00:48
totally insane	how mad am i	6	14-02-13 19:04
alone	ashy $	7	14-02-13 12:01
Feeling desperate again.......	Kingfisher	5	14-02-13 00:26
Not making any sense today	loona1	6	13-02-13 22:47
Feeling Down :(	TinyToes	4	13-02-13 22:13
It's going to be a long night	ForeverFeelingThisWay	2	13-02-13 21:49
Feeling slightly positive this morning	elektra	9	13-02-13 21:08
so anxious and edgy today	anotherday12	2	13-02-13 20:44
alone	ashy $	0	13-02-13 20:05
What is wrong with me	Kingfisher	4	13-02-13 19:10
Is it me... again	how mad am i	15	13-02-13 18:54
I've opened up...	lilbird	2	12-02-13 22:16
Absolutely terrified about tomorrow	elektra	7	12-02-13 22:14
oh he is clever	how mad am i	3	12-02-13 22:02
Bad day again	Head cook	1	12-02-13 20:30
Don't know what's up with me	Tatters	0	12-02-13 19:29
Dont know what it is today but need a bit of support i'm sorry	Dot	5	12-02-13 17:55
How do you leave and make a fresh start!!	Ford25	30	12-02-13 13:40
difficult weekend	nearlyout	3	12-02-13 13:01
emotionally exhausted	veryconfused	7	12-02-13 11:18
Paranoid	Kingfisher	3	12-02-13 10:46
Why's it so hard?	cs	2	12-02-13 03:55
night shelter.	springflower	0	11-02-13 23:30
twisted or anyone xxx	how mad am i	6	11-02-13 12:47
sleep is killing me	how mad am i	2	11-02-13 08:14
Let me go	Head cook	2	10-02-13 22:18
Asked him	Head cook	1	10-02-13 20:19
here we are again	bluejeans09	6	10-02-13 16:27
having such a tough day	veryconfused	5	10-02-13 14:04
finally broke free!!!	veryconfused	13	10-02-13 01:47
The last month	nearlyout	3	10-02-13 00:57
stuck	whoaminow	13	09-02-13 00:16
Happened again	cara	27	08-02-13 21:46
Feeling a bit blue...struggling at night again	Tatters	5	07-02-13 22:02
WHY?	Pottery girl	3	07-02-13 21:33
Someone shake me please...	Pottery girl	13	07-02-13 12:59
I am usless	feelinglostagain	5	07-02-13 07:45
Support	Head cook	2	06-02-13 22:07
my first post	Kindhearted_fool	6	06-02-13 20:32
First day of Freedom course	Kingfisher	10	06-02-13 11:18
March Dee Day...	lilbird	10	06-02-13 07:37
Terrible panics	Beau	1	05-02-13 22:01
cripling	how mad am i	4	05-02-13 21:35
On the brink	Saved4	3	05-02-13 19:49
Still not speaking	Head cook	2	05-02-13 19:09
idea	how mad am i	5	05-02-13 16:52
blackmail	need2leave	4	05-02-13 15:26
press charges	how mad am i	5	05-02-13 14:22
my mum	how mad am i	3	05-02-13 11:57
breaking point	how mad am i	7	05-02-13 09:47
The crap never ends	Tatters	4	03-02-13 12:12
Coping with leaving	nearlyout	5	03-02-13 00:15
Am a fool	Head cook	2	02-02-13 23:40
How do I cope	Lizzyloo	3	02-02-13 07:15
I'm out!	MilfordSound	14	01-02-13 09:44
My husband squanders the child/housing benefit and threatens me with the fact that I do not have leave to remain	desperateimmigrant	17	31-01-13 19:58
In court in the morning	Lizzyloo	11	31-01-13 09:06
Last night I realised I this thing has got too big to fight alone	Kingfisher	8	30-01-13 17:32
talking to him and other things	myfault	6	29-01-13 13:15
Struggling tonight	pebble77	3	28-01-13 23:35
what the hell	need2leave	6	28-01-13 23:34
The floor	Head cook	6	28-01-13 19:53
what's wrong with me?	CandyCaneArmy	4	28-01-13 17:32
Remorse	littlemiss13	10	28-01-13 17:20
Second thoughts, terrified of his response....	Little Sparrow	3	28-01-13 12:33
Wish me luck	MilfordSound	21	28-01-13 11:14
Help me stay strong please-he's running out of money	Pumpkinpot	6	28-01-13 10:46
So confused	Lizzyloo	5	27-01-13 20:33
Desperate rant	yebut	20	27-01-13 16:21
So many different emotions in my head	Pumpkinpot	1	26-01-13 23:48
help me	Moniker	7	26-01-13 22:27
emotionally tired and want to give up	Hopenothate	7	26-01-13 17:12
Battling with myself	Little Miss Sad	4	26-01-13 14:52
New here, advice needed on memory loss	beach-babe	14	25-01-13 23:57
Needing strength	canieverleave	4	25-01-13 15:20
Help please...	Pottery girl	3	25-01-13 12:32
moving goalposts	Tryingtoswim	5	24-01-13 15:38
Feeling guilty	MilfordSound	12	24-01-13 13:32
So I walked into the lions den and I'm in tears this morning, lost my appetite tonight	Hopenothate	7	23-01-13 23:15
Finally beaten	Little Miss Sad	15	23-01-13 17:29
getting rid of his belongings	scampers101	5	23-01-13 05:43
Stuck	SimmeringStar	2	22-01-13 23:02
A BIG BIG THANK YOU TO YOU ALL	Pottery girl	2	22-01-13 17:57
My ex is a member of a organised criminal organisation	peace-NO-abuse	3	21-01-13 20:06
I knew it!	Beau	4	21-01-13 19:46
Only 5 days	Head cook	3	21-01-13 15:18
So ashamed xx	Doris29	1	21-01-13 12:53
Crisis of confidence	Lizzyloo	1	21-01-13 05:28
my mind is like Ground Hog day-help	Hopenothate	6	20-01-13 21:03
I hate myself	unicorn	6	20-01-13 14:49
Really sad sometimes i think i will never escape	cookies	7	20-01-13 00:26
Why do I feel guilty	Angel30lkg	2	17-01-13 05:49
blanketyblank	lifeolife	5	17-01-13 00:24
And now the apologies - need some strength.	canieverleave	8	15-01-13 18:34
one tex and im shaking!	Tryingtoswim	3	15-01-13 16:41
And more of the same	canieverleave	3	15-01-13 13:27
Just Need To Get Things Off My Chest	FishSticks	11	14-01-13 21:43
Just thoughts...needed to write them down	Perfect_day	2	14-01-13 02:17
10 Yrs on and off and finding it hard to break the cycle (Long story)	SUGARB	2	11-01-13 13:58
How can I leave when he is being so nice?	MilfordSound	9	09-01-13 23:18
It's officially over!	Ashley	16	08-01-13 20:24
Noooo what's this all about	Lizzyloo	8	08-01-13 12:40
Keeping Going	littlemiss13	5	07-01-13 22:07
Ok I've done it	Lolliloo	3	07-01-13 20:12
Abuser lives less than 3 mins walk away	love14	2	06-01-13 16:07
Am I ready to go.....I'm scared....	lilbird	14	05-01-13 21:16
And the nightmare continues	blondey86	2	04-01-13 22:17
a bit confused	neagley	2	03-01-13 14:55
Sad and lonely!	hopefulness	1	02-01-13 21:57
Having a really bad day	Pumpkinpot	3	02-01-13 18:59
Need to stay strong.....but how when I haven't before??!!	Lozboz27	2	02-01-13 10:55
lonely cant sleep :( long just needed a rant, sorry	bla	1	02-01-13 06:31
Nowhere to turn	Little Miss Sad	10	02-01-13 02:55
Am so angry and need advice	rayofsunshine	6	01-01-13 22:24
He wrote i love you in BLOOD	need2leave	1	01-01-13 20:53
what do i do?	need2leave	10	01-01-13 20:40
He's kicked off again!	Lady Luck	6	01-01-13 00:41
I wasted my time	feelinglostagain	3	31-12-12 21:40
Survived and conquered -there is light at the end of the tunnel xxx	sunnytown	11	31-12-12 18:23
New here - Feel like I'm going insane.	AlternativeGirl87	5	31-12-12 11:31
am feeling so unsure and apprehensive	wendy34	7	30-12-12 22:50
which way now	s	2	30-12-12 22:19
My story (a bit long sorry!)	Pandorasbox	3	30-12-12 22:16
Very anxious	Tryingtoswim	1	30-12-12 17:08
He's being super nice now	Ashley	3	29-12-12 18:03
Sometimes people just don't understand...	seeking_peace	6	28-12-12 23:16
so low, why did I make a fuss	Hopenothate	3	28-12-12 21:29
He came to my work!	clover	7	28-12-12 11:40
Please help....I don't know what to do	lilbird	8	28-12-12 09:30
New here - need the strength to leave abuser	Phoenix_1	7	27-12-12 12:18
refuges	bubbalicious	7	24-12-12 01:02
Can't take this any more	Flamegirl	2	23-12-12 23:31
Opinions please (not urgent, just interested)	Perfect_day	10	23-12-12 23:06
where does it end?	wishingforpeaceandhappiness	7	23-12-12 01:55
I just dunno how to cope anymore? (New here)	Pretend_Optimist	9	22-12-12 23:27
my mistake	needsupport	5	22-12-12 13:56
How to stop contact?	Pumpkinpot	4	22-12-12 13:46
"Would you even care if I died?"	TinyToes	13	22-12-12 13:24
PTSD Xx	Doris29	2	22-12-12 07:23
why cant i say it	julez73	2	21-12-12 17:33
What to do?	Tryingtoswim	2	21-12-12 14:22
horrble day	unluckyinlove	1	21-12-12 10:17
Why can't I just tell him to F off!?	Belle72	2	20-12-12 17:10
what happened to me?	Marionette	7	19-12-12 21:59
worry and anxiety driving me mad	anotherday12	1	19-12-12 09:23
I hate feeling so emotional :( why can't I be strong?	Ashley	12	18-12-12 13:44
Very up and down - can't make my mind up	elektra	14	18-12-12 12:49
panicking	bla	1	18-12-12 06:56
No closure Xx	Doris29	8	18-12-12 05:55
Just had the SS round	Lolliloo	3	17-12-12 23:31
no contact, slightly worrying	wendy34	2	17-12-12 21:20
He turned up	TinyToes	5	17-12-12 21:18
Think it might be happening again..	ConfusedNScared	1	17-12-12 17:50
i need to rant!	Tryingtoswim	1	17-12-12 13:46
New to boards - preparing to confront husband	elektra	38	17-12-12 08:46
I've just had the police out and he's been made to leave	Ashley	7	17-12-12 08:44
had a fight :(	27midge	5	16-12-12 21:39
Endless Mind Games	Tryingtoswim	2	16-12-12 13:02
He's being verbally abusive again...	Lady Luck	4	15-12-12 01:47
impy	1day-ill-fly-away	0	14-12-12 14:04
Don't know what to do	Ford25	10	10-12-12 22:55
Thinking about all I've lost	Beau	11	09-12-12 23:01
today was so hard	wendy34	5	08-12-12 13:59
Going Back :-(	Tryingtoswim	3	07-12-12 22:26
thinking of you all......you ladies are my inspiration to not give up xx	olliebob	1	07-12-12 22:17
Hey everyone, I'm new here!	Lady Luck	14	06-12-12 23:40
the stability of abuse	myfault	9	06-12-12 19:56
Am I overreacting?	Tryingtoswim	7	06-12-12 11:59
I am a new member ... is it normal to feel like this?	Smiley	4	05-12-12 14:43
starting on my cat again	unicorn	7	05-12-12 14:31
I didn't go	unicorn	3	05-12-12 12:24
trying to keep strong	wendy34	4	29-11-12 16:06
his change didnt last long	anotherday12	3	28-11-12 11:44
do social services get involved if they find out ive gone back?	anotherday12	6	27-11-12 19:09
Rambling on	snettie	12	25-11-12 23:25
Could do with some advice	StarryTears	8	25-11-12 20:16
I feel so weak	MilfordSound	8	23-11-12 16:27
it's very subtle but I think it's still abuse - help?	dazed57	7	21-11-12 09:54
Am trying again to keep away from him	Tatters	7	20-11-12 19:44
Smashed doors!!!	feelinglostagain	13	20-11-12 16:06
He's flown into a rage and I've told him it's over	Ashley	13	17-11-12 20:33
Well, I sent him a letter...	Gnasha83	13	17-11-12 19:08
Don't know if I can ever trust a man again	Ashley	1	17-11-12 18:22
No Remorse?	Enigma	2	17-11-12 16:34
basically i feel	myfault	3	16-11-12 13:19
Reacting to the abuse	bambi	7	16-11-12 09:56
The crafty so and so..	Ashley	4	15-11-12 22:00
cant sleep so stressed.	stuckin	3	15-11-12 09:33
New here....my story	JulietGolf	2	15-11-12 08:37
Me and my partner, don't know what to do?	Tatters	4	15-11-12 00:17
very low and dont know what to do	anotherday12	2	14-11-12 14:12
Can it ever be the same when you go back?	stupidme	2	14-11-12 13:01
Here I am again	littleandlost	2	14-11-12 12:27
The fear doesn't go away	CandyCaneArmy	4	13-11-12 22:42
I feel guilty for discussing him on here	stupidme	3	13-11-12 13:03
oh crumbs....my anger exploded....	neagley	6	13-11-12 09:19
Trapped with psychological abuser.	littleandlost	8	12-11-12 22:55
Blamed Me for a previous attack after he attacked me !	stupidme	2	12-11-12 21:55
Abusers are manipulative, Victims could play a game back to survive	stupidme	19	12-11-12 19:31
this is bigger than me	runnergirl	19	12-11-12 19:11
He's been here	raggedyanne	3	12-11-12 08:11
Please help	Beau	1	12-11-12 07:18
a light bulb moment.....	neagley	4	12-11-12 00:51
Should I be worried?	stupidme	7	11-11-12 23:40
Hi am back again after hell, need to get this out and get some help, advice please.	Tatters	3	11-11-12 16:56
Feeling very triggered PTSD and feeling desperate	Tatters	3	11-11-12 10:43
Now he is begging and denying the threats	Tatters	3	10-11-12 20:25
I know it's not a huge thing	Hopenothate	10	09-11-12 23:10
I DID A STUPID THING :-(	extra-large-momma	4	09-11-12 17:25
Still awake	littleandlost	10	09-11-12 14:10
im devastated	s	4	09-11-12 10:14
When will the strength return	bella9	1	09-11-12 01:36
So my ex phoned me....	Pog28	4	08-11-12 22:03
May have to go back to abuse	teary	10	08-11-12 19:48
he is so horrible .. feel so vunrable	needsupport	5	08-11-12 19:35
Divorce and legal aid?	teary	5	08-11-12 09:59
:(	Marionette	2	08-11-12 07:22
Failure	Beau	1	08-11-12 04:20
Anti depressants	Beau	5	07-11-12 23:51
made the first step-looking for support	needsupport	5	07-11-12 23:44
CPN has advised refuge again	Ashley	2	07-11-12 21:47
making excuses.	s	2	06-11-12 20:40
cant go any further with this	myfault	1	06-11-12 20:31
So fed up	Perfect_day	1	06-11-12 19:04
some things	myfault	7	06-11-12 09:38
He's agreed to contact Respect	Ashley	6	05-11-12 19:31
I feel like I'm going three steps back :(	springflower	8	05-11-12 19:22
Scared and can't sleep	Ashley	3	05-11-12 06:19
we saw cpn	myfault	10	02-11-12 21:14
Divorce or Separation ?	magpie	7	01-11-12 13:33
Confused	Perfect_day	7	31-10-12 22:52
Where to go with a disabled teen?	teary	7	31-10-12 11:42
Saw solicitor today	Ashley	5	28-10-12 19:49
anxiety	WaterLily	4	28-10-12 14:12
what the hell is the point	myfault	19	26-10-12 20:52
Why do the silly things get me down?	hummingbird	6	25-10-12 08:54
They never ever can change !!	bella9	3	25-10-12 07:49
Its been along time since I've been on line	springflower	19	24-10-12 23:24
How do I overcome these guilty feelings?	Ashley	7	24-10-12 14:35
Still waiting...	magpie	1	24-10-12 12:31
I want to give up!!!!	feelinglostagain	24	24-10-12 00:07
Just seen support worker at refuge	Ashley	6	23-10-12 22:44
and here we go again with the abuse.	unsure82	11	23-10-12 21:58
Thinking of giving up	unsure82	9	23-10-12 18:50
What a complicated mess - really worried and scared now	Ashley	8	23-10-12 13:05
His justification hurts	Flamegirl	2	21-10-12 22:53
He just kick me so hard I fell to the floor and have already bruised.	welshlady87	4	21-10-12 22:17
I've bloody relapsed in the worse way............	unsure82	2	21-10-12 12:52
Maybe I need the violence to help me realise??????	unsure82	15	20-10-12 10:08
This site helps the feeling of loneliness pass	unsure82	2	20-10-12 00:01
Can I put this down in my diary as abuse?	hummingbird	19	18-10-12 08:54
Has anyone else experienced this	Perfect_day	3	17-10-12 18:02
what do you do when they are good, really	myfault	5	16-10-12 14:28
Hello everyone, new here and could do with a friendly ear or two.	raggedyanne	17	15-10-12 23:15
can i please beg a listening ear - or two, very low again , sorry to moan	1day-ill-fly-away	5	15-10-12 13:47
My family court statement	Beau	1	13-10-12 22:03
All done!	whysitsohard	1	12-10-12 23:51
on tenterhooks	Marionette	1	12-10-12 14:37
so he has taken responsibility for his actions	button14	7	12-10-12 09:40
bla bla bla	s	1	11-10-12 12:48
Had a wobble last night and now feel annoyed with myself	Ashley	2	11-10-12 11:49
Please give me some advice!	fedupofoxford	7	10-10-12 23:48
no good	s	1	10-10-12 22:17
i feel so usless	s	2	10-10-12 12:04
Don't know what to do	Asaldis	1	09-10-12 09:35
I know I will never speak to him again	Moniker	4	08-10-12 15:57
On the edge	fairy77	3	05-10-12 22:22
lies and deceit - yet still he thinks he is the victim	1day-ill-fly-away	2	04-10-12 23:58
Today I had a mini meltdown	Hopenothate	6	03-10-12 09:32
Feeling like it's all my fault	Flamegirl	7	02-10-12 23:47
am I stupid?	splodge1972	6	02-10-12 08:10
Not a good weekend	Hopenothate	5	30-09-12 23:38
Suffering Abuse and violence for over 2 years	cookies	6	30-09-12 20:02
feel so sad right now	cookies	4	30-09-12 18:22
is this really happening to me ? or is it all in my mind? would appreciate your thoughts?	1day-ill-fly-away	2	30-09-12 11:32
i cant cope anymore.why cant he leave us alone?	ladylumps21	7	30-09-12 11:07
Worried	BeautifulInside	1	29-09-12 22:16
"tell me you dont love me anymore and i'll leave you alone"	anxiousann	12	29-09-12 22:03
I deserve all I get	blondey86	8	29-09-12 12:09
seem to be getting everything wrong	myfault	17	29-09-12 11:32
First counselling session today and meeting with ISVA	Tobefree	4	28-09-12 10:55
LOST ALONE AND SCARED Please help me!!!!	jo4545	8	27-09-12 16:22
something needs to happen	myfault	2	27-09-12 15:21
Living together while completing perpetrator programme?	unhappyhildebrand	9	27-09-12 07:50
Handover this evening	Beau	7	26-09-12 22:00
Can't get my head around what's happened!	garnet	4	26-09-12 16:58
Im weak and pathetic	Tobefree	5	25-09-12 23:52
Might be able to leave sooner than planned	Ashley	6	25-09-12 21:25
Does your abuser hold you responsible for everything that goes wrong in his life??	neverthoughtitwouldbeme.	6	25-09-12 17:37
When you think it's all over and it's not !	inneed1	2	25-09-12 08:17
Confused, dont know what to do, help needed, advice desperately needed.	Sweetlilac	11	25-09-12 07:11
guilt	lillymay	5	24-09-12 14:50
This is the single most informative thing i've found on why i kept having him back yet felt stifled around him: trauma bonding	sunshine smile	9	23-09-12 19:57
I'm sure the lady next door is a dv victim	Beau	8	23-09-12 19:46
ime going crazy	lissylou	2	23-09-12 14:04
Where to start	JAJL	6	23-09-12 13:48
the S**T as finally hit the fan :-( anything i can do?	extra-large-momma	2	23-09-12 10:48
New here	Blueshoes	5	23-09-12 09:20
A big wake up	zana	1	23-09-12 08:30
Never thought I would	peace-NO-abuse	5	22-09-12 19:43
Betrayal bond	blondey86	2	22-09-12 12:25
New here - How do I find the strength to end this	Holiday1973	6	21-09-12 10:17
Refuge	JaneDoe	9	21-09-12 09:42
I cant afford to go into refuge :'(	Peanut	16	20-09-12 19:50
Had enough	Lara	3	19-09-12 23:21
going to refuge	Confused29	1	19-09-12 23:10
Had enough	Lara	2	19-09-12 17:50
I've made a mistake	foolinlove	9	16-09-12 22:43
Has anyone fled to a refuge and left everything behind?	Ashley	7	16-09-12 21:21
Being re-referred to MARAC	Ashley	10	13-09-12 10:33
round and round in circles	endlesscycle	6	12-09-12 19:40
so confused	In denial	2	10-09-12 14:03
Very Mad ? In denial	In denial	3	10-09-12 13:58
I need some advice re emotional abusive husband, house & kids	Intheshade	5	09-09-12 01:45
Think he might be seeing someone else	Ashley	5	08-09-12 15:28
I feel silly	Lucky7	1	08-09-12 09:36
Been to solicitor - absolutely drained....	neagley	4	08-09-12 09:23
Is it controlling behaviour i am experiencing?	twicesurvived	2	07-09-12 14:39
I want to get out!!	Sadmummy	2	07-09-12 14:19
Not sure where to start (this may be long one, sorry!)	Stargazer	6	07-09-12 00:19
Should I stay or should I go	Beau	3	05-09-12 20:24
My partner has left but I know the pattern. I will have him back and I want to be strong, help.	Hopenothate	5	05-09-12 20:04
Don't know how to get out of this paralysis.	Ashley	3	05-09-12 08:58
How to stay positive in the face of adversity	Beau	3	03-09-12 18:23
the pain is all consuming	runnergirl	24	03-09-12 12:50
I don't know what to do??? new on here	twicesurvived	6	03-09-12 05:53
7 long years and i think i am finally ready to leave him	lollypop	7	02-09-12 11:34
It's over.	flossy	1	01-09-12 09:17
I went from a physically abusive relationship to a mentally abusive relationship.. LOST	Dee	16	31-08-12 08:52
an update..I've been brave...	neagley	7	29-08-12 22:24
how do i get out of this?	stuckinwhirlwind	9	29-08-12 13:25
is there hope?	dreamer7369	7	29-08-12 10:29
He still thinks I owe him a living!	lookinforward2	7	29-08-12 09:15
On the verge of leaving him	Peanut	10	28-08-12 08:06
true colours !!!!!	courage	1	27-08-12 23:32
Have i made a big big mistake	Tobefree	8	27-08-12 21:42
feel so stupid	courage	4	27-08-12 21:40
Question about leaving	worriedmummy	1	27-08-12 21:37
everythings stopped for now but im too scared to leave my mum	twinkletoes94	5	27-08-12 17:30
Feeling good	Struggling	1	27-08-12 09:08
Have i made a big big mistake	Tobefree	1	26-08-12 15:43
Overwhelming dread	dazed	1	26-08-12 11:15
I've done it!!!	Struggling	7	26-08-12 09:45
respect programme	courage	1	25-08-12 22:35
Had the mother of all panic attacks	Ashley	8	25-08-12 19:59
Again	Struggling	12	25-08-12 12:24
Help - feeling really desperate!	Ashley	6	25-08-12 09:07
Confused!!	shootingstar	6	24-08-12 23:24
He's right	Peanut	6	23-08-12 23:34
When will he just stop	TinyToes	18	23-08-12 22:44
Has anyone else felt this way?	Ashley	4	23-08-12 11:43
So now I can drive	Asaldis	2	23-08-12 11:00
Just left abusive partner, now what do I do?	dazed	10	22-08-12 16:01
Corrupt Society	drose	1	22-08-12 08:22
I don't know what to do	Maelstrom	6	21-08-12 19:18
Feeling vey depressed	martian29	4	19-08-12 18:17
he hasnt changed!!!!	courage	1	18-08-12 15:26
its been a while sorry but im not coping and really need support	olliebob	3	18-08-12 06:31
Have i done the right thing?	mummysgirls3	5	18-08-12 00:03
My story....bit confused at the moment.	neagley	7	17-08-12 22:38
sorry for keep posting and never helping others	myfault	19	17-08-12 20:56
Am I just a wimp??	Rosie123	5	17-08-12 11:35
A fight for Justice	drose	2	17-08-12 10:07
he has signed up for the 'RESPECT' programme ????	courage	8	17-08-12 09:10
Carnt see the wood for the trees	s	8	16-08-12 22:23
Strong??	africangrey	2	16-08-12 21:40
cold turkey!!!	africangrey	2	16-08-12 19:23
will power	africangrey	2	16-08-12 19:06
my life in limbo	anxiousann	1	16-08-12 18:55
The first week	africangrey	5	16-08-12 15:22
dnt feel well .....advice pls	courage	7	15-08-12 21:45
He's unpacking all his tat!	Ashley	2	15-08-12 21:34
its over forever	bla	3	15-08-12 11:40
Tried and failed	fairy77	5	14-08-12 21:51
I need to leave	Ashley	10	14-08-12 10:48
How do i find the strength to never take him back??	nomorechances	5	13-08-12 21:46
Cant snap out of it :(	sleepingdogs	3	12-08-12 15:42
stuck between my family/myfreedom/my father	thisconfusion	18	10-08-12 23:14
why do they do this to us???	courage	12	10-08-12 13:21
feeling exhausted and weepy	Ashley	7	09-08-12 07:27
now or neva :/	courage	6	08-08-12 19:21
leaving	Confused29	9	08-08-12 18:47
So confused	feelinglostagain	9	07-08-12 14:06
(nationality removed by moderator) Wife & (nationality removed by moderator) Husband	HelloKittyLover	6	04-08-12 00:11
Help - feeling so trapped	Ashley	3	03-08-12 22:30
Feeling so alone	Peanut	4	03-08-12 20:16
Have told him it's over	Ashley	7	03-08-12 15:32
Mr very nice guy............so frustrating...i want it over and done with now...but	pocket	9	02-08-12 23:32
Is this abuse - advice please	Ribena	6	01-08-12 23:56
What do I do now?	Doormat	5	01-08-12 21:54
I've told him I'm leaving	Ashley	10	01-08-12 08:27
I don't know what I'm supposed to think	SJW	8	31-07-12 13:22
Am I being too harsh or did he get back into my head?	evaluna	4	29-07-12 17:00
feel so ashamed & confused, pls help	Chloe	5	28-07-12 09:59
Worst day ever	feelinglostagain	1	27-07-12 23:56
Just to let you know I've done it x	Lisse Lou	8	27-07-12 11:35
I need to leave	Ashley	6	26-07-12 23:46
Feeling numb!	blondey86	15	26-07-12 12:26
Is there any help to get x;'x possessions out of the house	SarahJane	13	26-07-12 04:30
How to not go back to emotional abuser	Blonde2	3	25-07-12 15:47
I need some encouragement.	inneed1	4	24-07-12 21:27
I went to make an appointment with police today	scared2011	1	23-07-12 21:19
Sadness and tears	Ashley	19	23-07-12 14:21
need support please i just want to die	bobby09	20	22-07-12 18:52
When will it stop hurting?	Tatters	6	22-07-12 17:39
Less than a week to go	Lisse Lou	5	21-07-12 22:57
please help.....hes kicked off again!!!!	lioness	3	21-07-12 21:51
Have I been encouraging him? feel so stupid.	PurpleButterfly	3	20-07-12 18:50
Money...money...money!!	lookinforward2	11	20-07-12 15:44
Hi therre...	lilbird	19	20-07-12 15:30
Having bad moments of despair	inneed1	11	20-07-12 11:23
do u feel comfortable talking to your support worker? bit waffley sorry.	sarah	2	19-07-12 12:11
Pettr, petty, petty...	Flowerchild	9	18-07-12 17:58
Everything was a lie.... feeling low today	Tatters	3	18-07-12 15:05
Please read - and be honest..	Chloe	17	18-07-12 07:20
what goes around comes around, or does it???	anxiousann	7	17-07-12 22:59
He's moving here tomorrow	Ashley	2	17-07-12 20:43
Why am I so tired	inneed1	4	17-07-12 18:52
Did he ever care?!	blondey86	4	17-07-12 15:09
harassment	rockystinker	7	17-07-12 11:43
mentally ill	rockystinker	9	17-07-12 09:59
Moment of clarity	WaterLily	8	17-07-12 09:52
Need reassurance	thetallestsunflower	1	16-07-12 17:43
come to the conclusion that my lifes just crap !	set me free	12	16-07-12 15:19
Have been to court today	Tatters	12	16-07-12 12:44
i know he's around the corner	anxiousann	7	16-07-12 01:55
so many reasons to leave so why don't I????	daisy123	13	16-07-12 00:27
Stress,stress and more stress	inneed1	3	15-07-12 20:08
Not sure what to do about this	inneed1	3	14-07-12 21:37
dont know where to turn	smellysock	7	13-07-12 20:07
mood swings	WaterLily	11	13-07-12 13:56
Is this normal?	inneed1	2	13-07-12 13:28
i need to go, get away b4 i crack up.	anxiousann	1	12-07-12 18:36
In denial	inneed1	8	11-07-12 17:26
FINALLY MAKING THE BREAK???	extra-large-momma	8	10-07-12 21:32
Why do people think	Beau	5	10-07-12 20:22
should i drop charges?	zara	5	10-07-12 14:17
housing advice needed please.	s	4	09-07-12 19:18
THANK YOU Xx	Emma-Jane	10	09-07-12 17:24
I took him back and now I wish I had stayed strong!!!	confusedwoman	9	08-07-12 20:20
havent got any more fight left	s	7	06-07-12 11:35
how to leave him..?	and_now	24	06-07-12 09:22
How many times?	LadyBlahBlah	9	05-07-12 01:30
First Time	Runnningmum	9	04-07-12 15:23
i am new	lilly6	6	04-07-12 12:29
Am I being heartless ???	Lisse Lou	15	03-07-12 23:17
Making plans	Ashley	7	03-07-12 23:10
Hmmm...he hasn't text today..	lookinforward2	3	03-07-12 23:02
I've given him a date to leave....	lookinforward2	0	02-07-12 22:48
I don't know..	WaterLily	4	02-07-12 20:59
Blackhole	thetallestsunflower	4	02-07-12 00:27
Feel like my soul is slowly dying :(	Asaldis	4	01-07-12 18:10
He's been let off	blondey86	3	01-07-12 16:10
knocking my head against a wall.	s	1	29-06-12 15:47
need a friend	piey	1	29-06-12 03:58
What should have been	nessi	2	28-06-12 16:20
now what?	runnergirl	39	28-06-12 12:47
Refuge	Ashley	16	28-06-12 08:33
to absoloutly everyone.....old and new members please read	olliebob	9	27-06-12 22:53
its so hard.	s	8	27-06-12 12:37
I feel ruined	Tatters	10	27-06-12 00:28
Pointers for advice please	ejm	7	26-06-12 23:14
its over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	olliebob	13	26-06-12 21:21
my ex is a total d**khead!!!!	tinyclanger	5	26-06-12 20:14
Deleted and blocked	Givemestrength	5	26-06-12 16:08
Closure	Beau	2	26-06-12 15:29
Absolute idiots, both of them!	sunshine	1	26-06-12 15:21
Another solicitor	inneed1	8	26-06-12 14:45
My mum	Beau	2	26-06-12 00:21
where to start....	thetallestsunflower	11	25-06-12 23:22
where to start....	thetallestsunflower	0	25-06-12 20:38
In pieces	inneed1	8	22-06-12 21:51
What Can One Do?	munchkin	6	22-06-12 15:34
Thank You	bellaboo	1	22-06-12 13:56
a bit about me	nettie2	3	22-06-12 12:21
feeling more unhappy	thetallestsunflower	1	22-06-12 10:46
I need to read something.	s	7	21-06-12 19:16
Problem fixed!	bemsie	8	21-06-12 16:59
hes agreed to leave BUT	nettie2	4	21-06-12 06:52
guess what ive had to go home	anarchy	3	20-06-12 22:56
do i have convictions	anarchy	4	20-06-12 19:23
well i told him this morning	nettie2	2	20-06-12 17:08
i left now they cant find a refuge	anarchy	2	19-06-12 14:18
longest night	anarchy	1	19-06-12 09:45
A weekend from hell!!	feelinglostagain	11	19-06-12 09:02
i feel so stupid.	s	4	18-06-12 22:04
its my fault	buzzby	6	18-06-12 21:44
Just woken up	nettie2	6	18-06-12 21:28
is there anybody there?	madders	8	18-06-12 17:55
thankyou	anarchy	1	18-06-12 16:33
Too far in for things to change now	bemsie	18	18-06-12 11:30
Friendly ear and advice plz	madders	0	18-06-12 02:25
Feeling embarrassed	Lisse Lou	8	17-06-12 16:06
need support doing no contact	runnergirl	20	15-06-12 12:28
Getting him to leave...	lookinforward2	3	14-06-12 10:18
Feeling depressed and anxious	Kite	9	13-06-12 23:14
Veryunsure	Ashley	1	11-06-12 18:03
survival	Rainbow83	6	10-06-12 14:25
How do you shake it off?	Mistreated	7	10-06-12 10:19
Don't let them win..	ConfusedNScared	2	09-06-12 15:13
The penny drops!!	lookinforward2	6	09-06-12 10:22
Nagging Doubts!!!	lookinforward2	3	09-06-12 09:51
Dont know were to go from here.	Crystal	11	08-06-12 13:25
help me with my muddled up head	mommanna	6	08-06-12 11:26
Help! How do I divorce him?	Flowerchild	7	08-06-12 01:09
Need Strength...	lookinforward2	20	08-06-12 00:28
Peanut	Beau	0	07-06-12 22:36
For some strange reason	Beau	0	04-06-12 23:58
Things getting to me	Givemestrength	14	30-05-12 11:13
Ex turned up at house	lolipop	1	27-05-12 22:37
Dont want to leave, just know i have to	lolipop	8	27-05-12 22:35
I feel like crying	Rayofhope	8	23-05-12 23:36
Feeling scared	pinki	6	23-05-12 20:17
Do I dare......	Ashley	6	22-05-12 19:32
somebody please advise me,i cant take anymore of this	olliebob	9	22-05-12 11:14
Can't do it	Ashley	4	22-05-12 04:25
No way out :(	Peanut	10	21-05-12 20:58
carnt take anymore!	s	7	21-05-12 17:52
He's been round	sickandtired	2	21-05-12 12:07
phone calls in middle of the night	?	6	20-05-12 14:32
Advice needed please	sickandtired	31	19-05-12 23:35
actions speak loulder than words!	awoken	8	19-05-12 19:26
I am one silly idiot!	Ashley	5	19-05-12 00:42
It is getting worse	feelinglostagain	3	18-05-12 07:37
I just feel like crying	feelinglostagain	14	16-05-12 23:42
How quick can i get into a local refuge	julez73	5	15-05-12 17:36
My brain is turning a corner	awoken	5	15-05-12 09:23
I've had enough ='(	Hopeless	4	14-05-12 22:14
Go to refuge or wait to see?	yorvikprincess	4	14-05-12 21:32
Ive escaped! Everything feeling such a blur!	Katherine10	14	14-05-12 12:47
Anybody here compromised r.o what was your outcome?	yorvikprincess	3	14-05-12 11:39
Emotional / Mental Abuse. Struggling to be heard. Feel like it's all in my head?	rainbowfighter	4	12-05-12 09:52
Emotinal abuse and in denial.	inneed1	3	12-05-12 07:31
the uprising	youcanbefree	9	11-05-12 18:08
Trying to get away from an abusive relationship	charlie4674	2	09-05-12 22:17
I wish I had never gone back in [date removed by moderator]	Moving On 2012	0	09-05-12 00:20
feel so alone	?	10	06-05-12 21:55
Struggling to find the courage to leave	Peanut	2	06-05-12 17:28
he's been trying to reel me back in.	PurpleButterfly	5	06-05-12 12:16
I feel like I am on the verge of a mental breakdown...	Pog28	2	04-05-12 17:29
How do I be strong?	Tiffyco	4	30-04-12 19:37
Mind games and I am tired of it.	ejm	5	30-04-12 16:47
Abuse	thetallestsunflower	12	29-04-12 22:56
I am new - sorry this is long	twiglet	2	29-04-12 20:18
After months of threatening me with court for access he's now changed his mind!	elizabeth31	1	29-04-12 11:46
he's at it again.....	beau123	2	28-04-12 14:53
I'm not going to sink anymore	beau123	0	28-04-12 14:49
i will not cry	pregnant&heartbroken	4	28-04-12 14:41
Yesterday was a bad day! This is probably quite long!	Pog28	0	28-04-12 14:35
all from the begining x	leighwill	5	27-04-12 13:27
I don't know what to do	surfinggirl	2	26-04-12 23:15
I saw him today for the first time since I left....	Roodles	3	26-04-12 22:24
Miss. Peanut, how are you? :o)	HMP	2	26-04-12 22:14
How can I learn to love me???	wishful thinking	3	26-04-12 21:15
Feeling angry	Daisy67	3	26-04-12 18:11
He's getting under my skin again	fizz	5	24-04-12 09:17
How much worse can life get?	inneed1	3	23-04-12 11:18
Bad day	Confused29	8	22-04-12 17:25
Help.what r my rights now had contact with.ex even with restrainon order	yorvikprincess	6	21-04-12 23:15
Leaving	Confused29	18	16-04-12 23:31
should i go	summer12	5	16-04-12 15:18
quitting his job and leaving me	shirly	5	14-04-12 09:27
gasp: stood up for me	Rapaiola	28	13-04-12 18:49
feel so desperate	Confused29	1	13-04-12 11:08
Just realised I've been enabling his addiction	Ashley	1	12-04-12 20:03
Just to say	Confused29	5	11-04-12 21:54
I can't do it :(	Peanut	8	11-04-12 13:24
Please help me to leave him	Peanut	14	10-04-12 22:26
confusion	s	4	08-04-12 16:37
Why is this so painful?	Ashley	2	07-04-12 11:38
5 months on and I'm still so sad:(	pixie74	12	06-04-12 19:38
Six more sleeps	beingbrave	4	06-04-12 10:48
Feeling frightened	Confused29	4	05-04-12 23:42
was this abuse... my head everywhere	brokensoul-07	2	05-04-12 21:12
Plucked up the courage to talk to a friend	Lisse Lou	4	05-04-12 17:11
Help me to leave please	1shineday	9	05-04-12 12:04
Out of my mind	julez73	4	05-04-12 09:31
tired of trying	runnergirl	20	05-04-12 00:17
Strong one day, weak the next!!!	Ellen04	5	04-04-12 20:52
If you dream of leaving...	true to myself	1	04-04-12 16:12
He's Hit Me...	lilbird	3	04-04-12 12:16
legal aid	crazychick	3	04-04-12 11:36
He's just threatened suicide	Ashley	11	03-04-12 21:02
I have had enough !!!	feelinglostagain	14	03-04-12 14:09
What I know for sure	KiaKahaWahine	4	02-04-12 21:56
HELP.. I think I have PTSD, can anyone give me some advise?	rayofsunshine	9	01-04-12 15:15
am getting no were fast	poisonivy	5	31-03-12 22:44
why do they all take advantage?	xmas123	3	30-03-12 21:37
Is it too much to ask!!???	feelinglostagain	1	29-03-12 23:38
Male attention	Lisse Lou	4	29-03-12 20:34
just dont know what to do....	cantdoitanymore	4	29-03-12 17:38
Fed up with no family support or protection from HIM	Trina	7	29-03-12 11:57
HELP.. I think I have PTSD, can anyone give me some advise?	rayofsunshine	0	28-03-12 21:15
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh	1shineday	1	28-03-12 20:00
I thought I was ready....	surfinggirl	1	28-03-12 16:52
Talking things over	Ava	7	28-03-12 09:20
7 Month's pregnant + being abused... PLEASE HELP ME!	tictac	18	22-03-12 16:04
moving away to flee domestic violence	expectant81	6	21-03-12 00:29
Dear Rap	springflower	1	20-03-12 23:05
Anothers setback	Lisse Lou	7	20-03-12 15:17
I miss my mum, I miss my baby :(	littleone	12	19-03-12 17:55
what's the best piece of advice you can give us?	wishful thinking	6	19-03-12 16:50
don't know what's going on..	WaterLily	1	19-03-12 13:31
had the best night ever	poisonivy	1	18-03-12 11:54
what is wrong with me? he has left me and I am sobbing!	wishful thinking	2	17-03-12 22:06
He is begging me to reconsider!	Moving On 2012	11	17-03-12 20:46
i left the house today	poisonivy	3	17-03-12 09:56
Take away	Lisse Lou	2	16-03-12 18:35
quickly help me	mlk3	10	16-03-12 15:10
Proactive week	surfinggirl	5	16-03-12 09:48
Guilt	WaterLily	7	16-03-12 04:51
Great Day!!	HushBAB4	1	15-03-12 01:07
why cant i hate him ?	tkf	7	13-03-12 11:21
Struggling	Ashley	7	12-03-12 22:21
Coping strategies	fizz	3	12-03-12 21:48
please help how do i finally finish this and get him to leave me alone?	Moving On 2012	8	12-03-12 21:25
Do You Think Womens Aid Can Help ???	set me free	4	12-03-12 16:24
do i fight or walk away ?	tkf	3	10-03-12 23:05
Think his mum is contributing to the abuse...	Asaldis	7	09-03-12 23:18
I want to leave him sometime this year	Asaldis	5	09-03-12 23:15
mr nastys back	tkf	1	09-03-12 20:52
Yet again...	xmas123	3	09-03-12 20:48
confused and lonely	gloria	3	07-03-12 15:49
lost	berkley31	2	07-03-12 11:08
strange, awkward, sad	pregnant&heartbroken	3	06-03-12 18:38
Why???	bambi	7	06-03-12 16:46
BUT....I still love him	Buttercup	8	06-03-12 11:29
The aftermath	illgetthere	6	06-03-12 08:16
a mixed up jumble of thoughts	PurpleButterfly	1	05-03-12 21:20
I am a coward :(	Asaldis	2	05-03-12 20:34
Trying to leave an abusive relationship	starlight123abc	3	05-03-12 20:02
Wish I could bottle this feeling	Lisse Lou	2	05-03-12 19:40
feeling down again please help	awoken	5	05-03-12 17:34
New to this and I'm scared and don't know what to do	abc123	6	05-03-12 17:25
In transit	bambi	6	05-03-12 15:01
So annoyed with myself right now	unstuck	3	05-03-12 08:41
bit scared and jumpy right now	charlie&woodstock	3	04-03-12 20:40
Lisa help please	feelinglostagain	1	04-03-12 11:45
Anxiety	Lisse Lou	8	04-03-12 10:49
Why do I stay?	Daisy67	6	04-03-12 00:42
Lisa	springflower	2	03-03-12 22:39
Toxic parents	awoken	8	02-03-12 17:18
Dearest Peanut	Trina	1	02-03-12 16:46
Could he ever change, with help and support?	LifeOrDeath	12	02-03-12 01:44
Going to have to leave him	Ashley	12	01-03-12 00:16
is it over?	Treetops	3	27-02-12 22:01
learnt not to threaten him, especially with leaving, to him it means warning	pigeon	3	27-02-12 17:14
:-( what a night	xmas123	10	25-02-12 21:00
its over.... (hopefully for good this time)	pregnant&heartbroken	11	25-02-12 13:33
i cant do it	pregnant&heartbroken	4	25-02-12 01:25
I cried my way through the pain,	springflower	2	24-02-12 21:47
Does anyone really care	ugla	3	24-02-12 17:35
soo fed up	pregnant&heartbroken	1	24-02-12 11:35
Am I doing the right thing?	Carol Ann	7	23-02-12 11:45
I wish my heart would stop pounding	Lisse Lou	3	23-02-12 06:32
strange	tkf	0	22-02-12 21:51
How did you tell him it was over?	awoken	16	21-02-12 23:46
how to get people to understand	scrumpy	2	21-02-12 21:49
Now I have had enough	ugla	4	21-02-12 18:29
A bit of my story.....	whysitsohard	5	18-02-12 23:38
In refuge	whysitsohard	3	18-02-12 19:16
Backlash	beingbrave	6	18-02-12 13:07
NC 'The No Contact Rule'	awarenow	14	18-02-12 09:24
My Story...	WaterLily	13	18-02-12 08:57
Worried about going home	beingbrave	10	17-02-12 22:12
Please disregard my previous post - I spoke too soon!	Ashley	8	17-02-12 16:53
I dont know - still confused!	whysitsohard	5	16-02-12 23:26
In laws getting involved...	Helena	8	16-02-12 00:06
travel	whysitsohard	2	14-02-12 15:20
Nearly time	springflower	9	13-02-12 10:09
racked with guilt	whysitsohard	1	12-02-12 21:44
Extremely angry...	ConfusedNScared	11	11-02-12 11:52
how do you know if he's telling the truth?	runnergirl	0	09-02-12 17:26
i'm so angry.....	Chloe	9	07-02-12 19:54
hes making me ill :(	runnergirl	13	07-02-12 16:03
Getting cold feet	Lisse Lou	5	06-02-12 22:49
New to the forum - need help to empower myself - PLEASE READ !!	set me free	16	06-02-12 18:10
is this relationship still abusive?	awoken	2	05-02-12 20:19
once again.......	xmas123	4	05-02-12 09:35
is this abuse or just a bad temper	Treetops	7	04-02-12 09:52
Choice - your own and theirs..	Chloe	10	04-02-12 07:34
Now how do I proceed	stillunsure	2	01-02-12 13:49
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!	Starlight	10	30-01-12 22:56
i need advise asap	mlk3	6	25-01-12 23:34
awful week - reserves running low - please may i talk	Restricted	17	25-01-12 19:48
im struggling to cope	julez73	2	25-01-12 14:12
Terrified	autumn	8	23-01-12 10:40
Help	springflower	9	22-01-12 23:41
He's just so horrible	beingbrave	8	22-01-12 22:52
I have been so stupid please help me	awoken	6	18-01-12 22:03
is it just him	cross roads	6	16-01-12 20:30
oh ladies you have to hear this one	awoken	4	16-01-12 10:14
Tired of life...	littleone	8	15-01-12 23:07
Frightened	beingbrave	2	15-01-12 21:52
If leaving him is the right thing to do why is it so hard to stick to it? Please help me understanding.	Sydney	15	15-01-12 19:42
HELP PLEASE!!	dusty	2	14-01-12 21:08
This is a nightmare	awoken	4	14-01-12 11:43
You are NOT responsible for HIM	Someday	1	13-01-12 00:31
I feel I need closure	FreedomWriter	14	12-01-12 14:04
Court tomorrow	Betty	40	11-01-12 22:43
Just so tired of it all.	LJ_84	5	11-01-12 20:07
Telling his next 'victim'	nowisee	8	11-01-12 14:13
Aghh... it's like a drug...	camden	6	11-01-12 02:33
Can anyone offer me advice please?	Butterflyhugscureall	1	10-01-12 23:39
So Proud- message to all others	nowisee	1	10-01-12 21:52
Just so tired of it all.	LJ_84	0	10-01-12 21:48
whats my next step??????	lola-lee	5	10-01-12 21:43
why am i so easy	cross roads	4	10-01-12 21:30
I dont even know what i feel any more	Helena	5	10-01-12 17:52
Feeling so sad	beingbrave	1	10-01-12 12:42
First step feels good	nowisee	1	10-01-12 00:16
My partner left 2 days ago, I'm not coping too well... could use some friendly words	camden	6	09-01-12 21:27
Want to be closer to my mum and dad.	Asaldis	5	09-01-12 17:37
My New Year's not good so far	FreedomWriter	4	09-01-12 12:21
Another circular argument	Ashley	6	09-01-12 02:09
confused newbie	WitchGirl	6	09-01-12 00:06
Getting worried	fool4beleivinghim	2	08-01-12 20:06
The cheek of him!! Grrr	Looby_Loo	3	08-01-12 16:21
he came round last night...	Chloe	3	08-01-12 14:21
So stupid	nowisee	3	08-01-12 09:42
can't turn my head off	PurpleButterfly	4	07-01-12 22:56
I'm typing this to stop me from e mailing him. help	pixie74	7	07-01-12 21:52
can't turn my head off	PurpleButterfly	0	05-01-12 02:51
This is what my life has become	worriedmummy	6	02-01-12 10:45
He just r**** me	Peanut	13	01-01-12 17:57
I am completely stuck or up the creek without a paddle	tiffanys	2	31-12-11 18:25
How do u break free?	Befree	7	31-12-11 17:01
how do you stop yourself giving in?	bambi	1	31-12-11 09:34
Scared	Peanut	21	30-12-11 00:18
sad	Looby_Loo	4	29-12-11 11:44
back to square one	s	4	29-12-11 10:35
Doubtful today	lorry	3	29-12-11 07:59
I need to talk	springflower	12	28-12-11 22:26
i look around	billie	1	28-12-11 09:10
I'm sat here, Convinced I'm insane. (Explicit/Sensitive descriptions)	Silas	20	26-12-11 16:12
Feel alone	Confused29	6	26-12-11 13:44
... he's back in contact!!	Roodles	7	25-12-11 23:10
Reflecting	beingbrave	3	25-12-11 19:46
Where am i?	Marionette	1	25-12-11 13:24
I've escaped!	lorry	14	24-12-11 22:55
Guilt	worriedmummy	7	22-12-11 21:52
Nervous	confuzzled	6	15-12-11 23:47
Feel so alone	RainbowBrite	7	15-12-11 17:25
Support Worker help	worriedmummy	2	13-12-11 13:30
When will it stop ?	pixie74	7	13-12-11 00:41
another man kills his wife and children	Betty	1	12-12-11 23:03
another man kills his wife and children	Betty	2	12-12-11 19:18
Breathing	beingbrave	6	11-12-11 20:20
think im in a bad place - please help, any insights will be so valued.	babyh	4	11-12-11 12:53
He's been released on bail...	littleone	26	11-12-11 00:06
Sunk	Marionette	10	09-12-11 19:57
Hi, just left my husband after 25 years of marriage	freecat	15	09-12-11 08:36
I don't know who I am any more	Ashley	3	08-12-11 19:18
He makes me want to end it all	worriedmummy	4	07-12-11 17:30
inspiration	Rapaiola	13	06-12-11 21:58
Need to leave now!	Asaldis	7	01-12-11 12:19
cant take anymore....	olliebob	11	29-11-11 21:28
feel stupid =(	anything is possible	7	29-11-11 19:28
My abuser tried to make me out to be the abuser	Catlover	4	28-11-11 23:58
Just confusing	beingbrave	0	28-11-11 13:36
FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and....SAFE....and so relieved to be here......	abused abroad	13	27-11-11 18:48
Why do I miss violent ex	fool4beleivinghim	4	27-11-11 07:35
Not sure if I can do this	worriedmummy	2	25-11-11 22:59
barriers	forwards	5	24-11-11 21:52
much much stronger	luv4luv	3	24-11-11 18:39
last minute doubts	aaml	4	24-11-11 09:25
No strength. So so tired	worriedmummy	8	23-11-11 16:30
Can't cope	beingbrave	6	23-11-11 08:46
Hes back in my life	RainbowBrite	3	21-11-11 22:58
Struggling	beingbrave	2	21-11-11 18:37
Lisa - anyone - I need counselling - any advice???	beingbrave	4	21-11-11 14:42
has anyone experienced this?	awoken	6	21-11-11 14:29
My head is going to explode!!!	auntyspuddy	8	21-11-11 13:43
How do you find the strength to leave?	redchicken	30	20-11-11 22:52
They've arrested him	Jelly17	10	19-11-11 21:03
Need to vent	Confused29	4	18-11-11 10:34
update... possible upsetting content...	littleone	23	17-11-11 19:11
first times	Rapaiola	6	16-11-11 17:33
I have left...	Nel	4	16-11-11 07:44
False memories	Marionette	5	15-11-11 13:42
realised it is me,hes turned me to a paranoid mess....	olliebob	2	14-11-11 22:20
What do you think? I am going to set him a test	awoken	5	14-11-11 19:09
Sad :(	Ashley	5	14-11-11 18:02
sticks and stones.....	PurpleButterfly	5	14-11-11 12:06
am I doing the right thing	awoken	6	13-11-11 17:33
I live with a phsyco	needshelp	6	11-11-11 22:59
Worn down	Mortil	3	11-11-11 22:51
Hey Ladies	PurpleButterfly	3	10-11-11 18:41
Feel guilty for thinking of leaving	Ashley	6	10-11-11 16:26
im going to refuge.....	olliebob	11	10-11-11 11:58
Why is it so difficult to not be in contact?	dazed_and_confused	4	09-11-11 18:57
What will they do next?	Marionette	1	09-11-11 18:01
:'(	Marionette	3	09-11-11 17:37
pre trial hearing today	citizensmith	5	09-11-11 17:33
He is winning	Butterfly1120	3	09-11-11 17:21
In need of advice!	Gemini88	5	09-11-11 17:18
he`s losing control	luv4luv	2	09-11-11 17:09
Going into refuge in the morning...	tabularasa	8	09-11-11 13:27
Miss T	olliebob	4	08-11-11 21:44
i have stopped contact, i am furious...	olliebob	6	08-11-11 17:55
Scared to make the decision to go to refuge	MissT	8	08-11-11 16:43
best week ever for a long time	luv4luv	7	08-11-11 15:54
next week...	citizensmith	8	08-11-11 15:43
Fed up	Mortil	2	08-11-11 12:18
got the trial date now	out	4	07-11-11 22:37
:/ breaking down	littlebundlebiglove	6	07-11-11 18:19
Went to court today	Skyo1	4	07-11-11 18:11
It breaks my heart...	Ashley	10	06-11-11 19:48
Terrified of what the weekend holds	worriedmummy	21	05-11-11 12:22
someone to talk to	littlebundlebiglove	11	03-11-11 20:46
Things are moving - slowly!	sunshine	1	03-11-11 14:14
breaking the cycle	luv4luv	5	02-11-11 18:00
Only when he drinks	Anon1979	14	02-11-11 17:44
His family helped me to safety	dazed_and_confused	5	02-11-11 13:01
I let him have it.....	Headache	8	02-11-11 00:49
Am i being the victim here?	Marionette	2	02-11-11 00:38
Lower than I've ever been	worriedmummy	4	01-11-11 16:54
once again.....	anything is possible	2	31-10-11 20:27
starting to feel bad for him	rockystinker	8	30-10-11 21:38
I am falling apart	Butterfly1120	1	29-10-11 18:42
Bad day :(	Ashley	6	29-10-11 16:30
Want to be rescued	beingbrave	3	29-10-11 09:01
He's decided to go for therapy!!!	Ashley	8	27-10-11 12:21
Not a good day	Confused29	13	27-10-11 10:54
Pre-trial visit. ?	Skyo1	19	26-10-11 21:22
Did I imagine it all	Butterfly1120	2	26-10-11 19:35
Double standards by abusive men	Ashley	9	26-10-11 16:06
Can anger ACTUALLY be cured???	survivor82	5	26-10-11 14:35
Should I go to the police?	littleone	13	26-10-11 00:22
Mr Kiplings french fancies in the living room with my son	awoken	9	25-10-11 14:10
Mixed up	Confused29	9	24-10-11 20:40
finding it difficult tonight	bella9	2	24-10-11 11:26
I must be the stupidest person ever	Allalone786	3	24-10-11 00:22
I blew my rag last night	Ashley	6	24-10-11 00:12
time to give up?	Marionette	5	23-10-11 22:39
Just asked him to go	awoken	10	23-10-11 22:02
Trying so hard to be brave	beingbrave	4	23-10-11 21:37
what do i do?	s	6	23-10-11 10:13
Advice	Allalone786	7	22-10-11 21:55
I'm so mad that he has got into my head again!	Gemini88	1	21-10-11 22:09
Police statement	27midge	1	21-10-11 20:03
And another worry	Ashley	0	20-10-11 20:47
Have made a decision	Ashley	4	20-10-11 20:02
Bailed back to the house	runningscared	6	20-10-11 12:48
Locking partner out of house after violent incident.	runningscared	4	20-10-11 10:27
Went ok	Laue82	4	19-10-11 22:37
scared for my children	rockystinker	7	19-10-11 16:15
he wont stop	bella9	7	19-10-11 03:18
Angry	Confused29	14	16-10-11 15:52
Another bad day	iwantout	6	14-10-11 21:14
Just felt the need to post	LadyBlahBlah	12	13-10-11 09:42
New and not sure what to do	NotSure43	12	12-10-11 21:52
Angry at myself for being so weak!	Ashley	9	10-10-11 22:48
New here	Jelly17	8	10-10-11 15:45
Sometimes I still dream of a normal life with him-	FreedomWriter	4	10-10-11 14:28
Bad day	Confused29	12	10-10-11 11:53
Terrified of being lonely!	stuck123	6	10-10-11 10:09
just like to say. u wonen are an insperation and so strong.	jasmine	5	09-10-11 16:54
refuge and social services	youneek	4	07-10-11 03:35
Daughters schooling	stuck123	3	05-10-11 14:14
I write a diary	beingbrave	7	05-10-11 11:28
Cant leave because i fear for my children and family members lives..	stuck123	4	05-10-11 06:19
Rock bottom	paris	6	04-10-11 13:15
support from friends	rockystinker	5	04-10-11 11:15
Confused!!	stuck123	5	03-10-11 23:38
IS THERE ANYWAY FORWARD??	extra-large-momma	4	03-10-11 23:15
He asked me to meet up,I didnt go and feel sad about it :(	how2moveonx	7	29-09-11 19:39
Over at last	littlemissc	1	29-09-11 07:53
saw mental health team today....	olliebob	2	28-09-11 23:25
money is all a game to him	rockystinker	3	28-09-11 16:46
Kna3n	awoken	2	28-09-11 00:18
I have been so stupid	Confused29	8	26-09-11 11:52
Im sorry i haven't been on but i need help!	dream4better	7	25-09-11 22:49
feeling teary again	olliebob	5	25-09-11 22:39
woke up feeling a bit more positive	hopefullysafe	1	25-09-11 13:16
Starting to really realise I'm in an abusive relationship	SecretSquirrel	6	22-09-11 18:00
When will it get better?	Betty	8	22-09-11 08:01
So Frustrated	Trina	6	17-09-11 20:08
Driving me mad	Confused29	6	16-09-11 20:26
got to keep strong.... but how?	sansmoke	2	16-09-11 00:58
Hard to know where to start..	Cosmicgirl38	4	15-09-11 21:09
irritated and annoyed	PurpleButterfly	6	14-09-11 21:30
im back	Starlight	9	14-09-11 15:55
Same sh*t, different day!	Autumnfairy	12	14-09-11 14:49
Back again	5er	2	14-09-11 14:25
Feel let down	Confused29	21	14-09-11 11:00
greeted by a knife wielding madman.	summerrain	1	14-09-11 10:58
Muteness?	Trix	1	13-09-11 22:42
tension...	sansmoke	3	13-09-11 02:00
Sick of all this crap	sunnyg1rl05	2	12-09-11 19:27
HOW DO YOU WALK AWAY.........	extra-large-momma	9	12-09-11 11:41
time to leave	down and desperate	9	11-09-11 21:39
Still plodding on/being let down by social & all other crap	sunnyg1rl05	3	11-09-11 20:41
Shaken up	Ashley	3	11-09-11 12:19
..the madness continues but finishes soon...	abused abroad	16	09-09-11 14:53
now what	keep smiling	4	09-09-11 13:57
So worried	Butterfly1120	1	08-09-11 18:38
.	Butterfly1120	1	08-09-11 12:26
LEAVING THE REFUGE IN THE MORNING	forever_trying	7	06-09-11 22:34
summoned home again - not allowed out	daisy123	2	03-09-11 08:02
Thanks- Autumnfairy, lisa, forever_trying and Butterfly1120	iwantout	1	02-09-11 16:25
Thanks- autumn sun	iwantout	0	02-09-11 11:09
need some support please	iwantout	3	01-09-11 13:50
He went abroad after abusing me	stillunsure	3	31-08-11 10:06
hi again	on edge	2	28-08-11 15:12
Relocating	Butterfly1120	5	28-08-11 08:22
on edge	on edge	2	28-08-11 02:06
i thought i could just bury this	Dry-Puddle	2	28-08-11 01:46
es 2 quiet	on edge	2	26-08-11 22:49
How could I have done it?	Ashley	8	26-08-11 22:42
just want it to stop!	x BrAnDy x	3	26-08-11 19:31
hi again	on edge	0	26-08-11 16:25
hi its on edge	on edge	0	26-08-11 16:04
Bailiffs?	Rosy	1	25-08-11 22:36
My kids are upset	Autumnfairy	4	23-08-11 15:12
whens it supposed to get better??	olliebob	5	23-08-11 12:40
He finished me today,why am I so heartbroken	how2moveonx	5	23-08-11 11:57
it just wont work out	PSYCHO	22	22-08-11 17:09
why is it so hard to leave the second or thrid time round?	how2moveonx	3	21-08-11 12:19
no way out & panic attacks	monica	3	21-08-11 08:34
Advice Needed	ladybird84	2	20-08-11 18:36
Now he's found non violent ways to abuse me	Suzannah	12	19-08-11 18:24
Can't stop crying :'(	Marionette	5	18-08-11 13:35
Finally! (update)	lifes_end	3	14-08-11 20:02
I made it! 4th day in the refuge!	xazurax	5	13-08-11 20:07
I am out	Butterfly1120	9	13-08-11 00:25
considering to leave	Butterfly1120	2	12-08-11 15:08
How do you know if you are ready ?	Butterfly1120	4	11-08-11 20:30
hi need advise	on edge	1	10-08-11 11:12
very down	on edge	2	09-08-11 14:41
im lost again	PSYCHO	16	08-08-11 08:33
Lonely, vulnerable and broken :(	littlemissc	29	04-08-11 18:09
Weary	donut	5	04-08-11 17:45
I did it! I did it!	viviana	13	03-08-11 11:20
WAKING UP??	extra-large-momma	4	02-08-11 11:32
Dont know what to do.....	silent	2	01-08-11 11:57
FREE AT LAST!!!!!!	fugitive	9	01-08-11 11:56
This is it - Imm outta here!	lifes_end	13	30-07-11 22:45
I got out on Wednesday :)	gottagetout	10	30-07-11 10:58
What do I need to take with me!	needshelp	6	25-07-11 22:52
just gone through another round	celine87	2	25-07-11 13:11
stuck	celine87	5	24-07-11 19:57
Just want to stop feeling like this	Laue82	3	24-07-11 18:08
more phone calls	flowerpower	2	22-07-11 18:45
hi	celine87	4	21-07-11 18:33
hurtin	celine87	3	21-07-11 01:22
burnt	celine87	3	20-07-11 17:20
New here... tried calling the helpline today loads and couldnt get through to speak	SimmeringStar	6	20-07-11 16:19
do I have time?	daisy123	6	20-07-11 15:38
Tried to begin again......	silent	6	20-07-11 10:03
sons behaviour	CannoThink2	2	20-07-11 00:23
what do i do	twilight	5	19-07-11 23:51
hi	celine87	5	19-07-11 08:12
pain	celine87	1	19-07-11 00:01
I feel humiliated	Ashley	4	16-07-11 18:28
I finally did it.	Mimi	2	16-07-11 10:57
I just can't do it anymore...	CannoThink2	27	14-07-11 07:08
Trying to stay strong but finding it so hard	poutku	12	13-07-11 17:45
he has just hurt me- realising this is serous abuse now	iwantout	8	04-07-11 14:18
Will anyone believe me?	lifes_end	13	01-07-11 04:26
Loneliest Feeling Ever	living a lie	18	30-06-11 10:54
Proving your not to blame	Helena	3	28-06-11 13:39
Monster!	Newly Wedded	3	28-06-11 03:50
Are all abusers	needshelp	3	27-06-11 22:36
thankyou for your replies they mean alot x	how2moveonx	1	26-06-11 21:35
Scared of leaving	Littlemadam83	8	26-06-11 09:51
Back again :( please help	how2moveonx	4	25-06-11 20:49
Is this right	needshelp	9	24-06-11 23:05
Tomorrow a stranger will divide the fate of my children!	squiffey	6	24-06-11 18:24
Can't take that step to leave--please help me be brave	mumx5inuk	4	22-06-11 17:06
Why did i go back ?? Now i am back to square One!!!	emilypam3la	6	21-06-11 20:44
Trying to stay strong	Miffy27	6	21-06-11 08:37
im out	littleone	18	21-06-11 08:20
Am I being fair on the kids?	squiffey	7	20-06-11 17:16
My head is such a mess	MAUSIE	12	20-06-11 12:30
i cant do this anymore	littleone	13	19-06-11 21:32
message on behalf of brokensparrow.. (with her permission.)	penguin	14	17-06-11 22:25
What to do	florina	4	16-06-11 12:03
it's been one week....	mistyeyes	6	16-06-11 08:19
I leave at 1pm	BrokenSparrow	11	15-06-11 22:37
I was meant to have a call from the refuge	BrokenSparrow	9	15-06-11 09:04
I'm going into a refuge	BrokenSparrow	17	14-06-11 16:37
He is being so nice but................	needshelp	4	13-06-11 21:36
IM a fool	s	7	13-06-11 21:34
I want to talk to him!	cantcope123	8	12-06-11 22:59
I feel so alone and scared I'll never break the emotional tie	fallenangel	3	12-06-11 21:14
have had to run	Fallen	12	12-06-11 12:59
for my own good?	mistyeyes	2	11-06-11 20:38
Compromise!!	Miffy27	2	11-06-11 20:15
I need to be strong	mistyeyes	7	10-06-11 23:18
14 years of hell = help!	squiffey	3	10-06-11 00:07
New To The Forum	Doubt&denial	11	09-06-11 21:02
The penny finally drops.....	cantcope123	7	07-06-11 18:03
Do these men know what they are doing?	BrokenSparrow	1	07-06-11 11:26
I am ok :o)	BrokenSparrow	3	07-06-11 09:34
I did it!	BrokenSparrow	9	06-06-11 22:06
If I don't repost by 8pm	BrokenSparrow	8	06-06-11 22:06
How do I tell him I don't love him anymore	needshelp	5	06-06-11 17:42
The trouble with feeling like I've let myself down.......	Miffy27	1	06-06-11 00:59
shy wave Hi again...sorry for any worry caused by sloping off...	Cannotthink	16	05-06-11 22:59
need to tell someone	moomin	9	05-06-11 12:15
a highly interesting read - have a quick look let me know if u agree?	woman1	0	04-06-11 01:19
a shock when i got home	worriedmummy	2	01-06-11 21:23
Can't leave my son	Fallen	5	01-06-11 21:04
Why do I feel guilty?	worriedmummy	3	01-06-11 09:36
GOING BACKWARDS????	extra-large-momma	12	31-05-11 22:55
please advise	BrokenSparrow	13	31-05-11 22:53
He wants to impregnate me!	dazed_and_confused	8	31-05-11 13:24
oh god i'm scared	worriedmummy	3	30-05-11 09:40
Joint tenancy/why should I move?	Fallen	6	29-05-11 19:35
What do I say to him?	cantcope123	8	29-05-11 11:15
I don't know who else to ask...	'tabbycat'	5	27-05-11 22:22
Just feeling scared again	BrokenSparrow	7	26-05-11 18:55
how do i get out?	worriedmummy	7	25-05-11 23:51
It's time to leave this world.	dazed_and_confused	10	25-05-11 17:46
not again	had_enough	1	25-05-11 00:03
ok I have planned a day to leave	BrokenSparrow	6	24-05-11 21:38
who can i turn to	PSYCHO	3	24-05-11 19:20
Putting on a brave face!	worriedmummy	1	24-05-11 17:30
It's one thing after another with him	BrokenSparrow	6	24-05-11 11:04
feeling bad	had_enough	2	23-05-11 21:18
need help	PSYCHO	2	22-05-11 11:45
I rang the help line	BrokenSparrow	6	17-05-11 23:50
Feel mixed up	Lookingforward	3	16-05-11 14:48
miscarriage :(	littleone	11	14-05-11 22:29
Can't stop crying,	patsy	23	13-05-11 08:29
Day from hell !!!!	needshelp	30	12-05-11 00:57
Tonight again I am hiding away in the small box bedroom	BrokenSparrow	5	09-05-11 21:44
He's back from holiday and the abuse has already started	worriedmummy	15	09-05-11 14:21
I feel so alone in all this	BrokenSparrow	2	07-05-11 23:51
Is there anyone out there???	vconfused	8	03-05-11 21:58
I ahve no idea who I am anymore	vconfused	1	03-05-11 21:51
is it bad enough for help	what2do	9	03-05-11 11:51
the reason i cant leave	PSYCHO	14	02-05-11 14:26
he scares me	PSYCHO	4	01-05-11 21:44
Feel like crying	needshelp	1	01-05-11 20:24
Moderator	iwantout	0	30-04-11 09:51
scared of leaving	Lookingforward	1	29-04-11 22:07
I finally done it	Ploint	7	28-04-11 21:29
What plans do I need to make to leave him?	Dovestone	3	28-04-11 09:38
Goodbye :(	RMN	0	27-04-11 22:07
hey...	elizabeth9021	5	26-04-11 12:14
Wot hav I done?	Inamess	2	23-04-11 12:16
He has stayed away	patsy	24	23-04-11 10:20
Why did I go back??!!! I'm so suicidal...	dazed_and_confused	5	23-04-11 09:21
Decided to leave	Lookingforward	4	22-04-11 19:47
He said we are over ......	needshelp	1	20-04-11 23:45
I left. So why do I miss him so much?	dazed_and_confused	7	19-04-11 18:34
How can i do it again?	julez73	2	18-04-11 22:22
does anyone no..	cloudyday	2	14-04-11 08:40
fighting A loosing battle	nowayoflife	7	14-04-11 00:11
how do you kow what is the best deicson to make	Lookingforward	4	12-04-11 23:09
How do I do it?	oneday	1	12-04-11 14:01
feel lost :(	cloudyday	6	12-04-11 11:51
Out of relationship	Laue82	2	11-04-11 23:16
Here's my story....	Star27	7	11-04-11 22:29
I hate mornings	needshelp	3	10-04-11 15:08
Braced	unlucky	1	09-04-11 22:39
I told him	patsy	12	09-04-11 16:47
:-) A journey starts with but a single step...	Cannotthink	9	07-04-11 16:29
Want to run again	jarsofclay	3	05-04-11 23:29
I feel very alone	needshelp	5	31-03-11 11:00
He`s threatening to have an affair if I don`t have "relations" with him	Trina	3	31-03-11 06:19
feeling down today	Indigo123	2	24-03-11 21:07
new to all this. only joined	eire	9	24-03-11 16:52
Feeling weak	Polyanna	19	24-03-11 16:32
Really want to move	Lookingforward	6	22-03-11 22:30
advice on antidepressants	bugs88	8	22-03-11 20:46
comments please	LittleMissBlue	2	22-03-11 20:46
Love?	Helena	6	22-03-11 19:00
FREE TO BE ME	extra-large-momma	5	22-03-11 10:26
Today is the day. Help!	Meaka	7	22-03-11 08:58
No more stalling	Polyanna	27	18-03-11 22:55
I just want to crawl under a stone	Polyanna	1	16-03-11 15:00
need to go back!	belle2968	16	14-03-11 21:19
How do i know i am doing the right thing?	Meaka	6	12-03-11 20:18
Will I be stuck with him forever?	worriedmummy	6	10-03-11 22:06
******** UPDATE *******	extra-large-momma	12	06-03-11 15:49
Ka3n Trying to follow your very good ideas	tiffanys	2	03-03-11 10:01
Man and van booked! I'm out !!	Roo	6	02-03-11 22:56
Hi I'm new I need some advice	Trina	5	02-03-11 17:41
HES GONE	extra-large-momma	10	01-03-11 11:34
Girls I'm soooo scared	angels3	6	01-03-11 11:17
BAD NEWS	extra-large-momma	3	28-02-11 21:21
a light at the end of a tunnel	extra-large-momma	10	28-02-11 10:49
getting nervous	extra-large-momma	6	27-02-11 21:55
How long does mr nice last	angels3	5	27-02-11 12:04
JUST WANNA SOUND OFF!!!!	extra-large-momma	7	27-02-11 00:08
escape one to marry another	extra-large-momma	3	26-02-11 15:12
not been on here for a while	anibee	1	25-02-11 19:57
6 months later and still in the same place	Indigo123	4	25-02-11 13:37
I hate me	HM123	13	25-02-11 10:18
Having to face my abuser in court	astrid	1	25-02-11 09:38
HUGE NEWS - I phoned a shelter...	Cannotthink	22	24-02-11 15:01
trying to make sense of this.	getting better	9	23-02-11 21:31
speaking out	Dry-Puddle	8	23-02-11 18:24
feeling emotional today	gin	6	23-02-11 18:17
Candles	alcatraz	10	23-02-11 18:08
sorry!! i feel so ashamed	julez73	13	23-02-11 18:00
HELP PLEASE...Feeling very low	jo4545	7	22-02-11 23:22
Decision day	unlucky	5	22-02-11 18:55
I take, take, take - you give, give, give	Cannotthink	26	22-02-11 18:05
Concerned	GINA	2	22-02-11 11:30
non-molestation orders	lou123	2	22-02-11 11:27
Things are going beyond the point of no return.	Roo	8	22-02-11 00:35
MOVING FORWARD	GINA	11	21-02-11 12:00
It never stops,	patsy	6	20-02-11 15:53
what made you decide to take the step to end it...	hope2goon	3	20-02-11 14:00
Advice needed!!	Roo	5	19-02-11 17:53
New to the site, and need someone to confide in	Roo	16	18-02-11 21:22
confused and scared	autumn	9	17-02-11 21:09
{{{{VIV}}}}	Cannotthink	8	17-02-11 08:18
another weekend already...	lou123	13	16-02-11 18:47
Im new	Sadmummy	5	16-02-11 17:01
I need advice please	bunnymumy	5	14-02-11 18:13
how do you make the guilt go away?	nickname	6	14-02-11 16:39
crying..crying..just need to talk...not a good evening.	Bobbie	17	14-02-11 16:05
i feel so confused and helpless	sadgirl7	7	14-02-11 11:43
New here and panicking	Flora	21	14-02-11 11:34
I feel despondent	polyannna	4	14-02-11 11:17
thought i was strong	Athena	8	14-02-11 11:03
any advice would be great please ladies.	lis	6	12-02-11 11:00
Letting them loose on others	Bobbie	8	12-02-11 08:31
lundy bancroft?	IFeelSoAlone	9	11-02-11 22:46
just wondering	worriedmummy	5	11-02-11 10:54
good news = bad news	therandomone	1	11-02-11 08:54
why are they so evil?	sadgirl7	4	10-02-11 09:23
Advice needed please	sadgirl7	2	07-02-11 18:20
He says he loves me,,,	patsy	18	06-02-11 20:20
adice needed contiued	sadgirl7	4	06-02-11 19:26
Bit sad and confused...	Cannotthink	6	04-02-11 21:45
social worker	lou123	10	04-02-11 18:21
makes me feel so sad	gin	3	04-02-11 15:27
not good	pickle73	6	04-02-11 13:46
will there be ever a right time to leave?	lostintranslation	14	03-02-11 20:24
Cant think	patsy	4	03-02-11 20:13
Hello, I'm new, confused and tired...	lostintranslation	25	01-02-11 00:00
what and why??	lou123	11	31-01-11 23:04
help! i'm new!!	lou123	18	29-01-11 22:19
someone quick tell me to stay tough!	Bobbie	9	29-01-11 13:36
scared :s	earthangel	1	28-01-11 09:08
Need some advice	Caz	9	27-01-11 23:46
What am I doing??	wheretoturn?	16	26-01-11 22:39
I'm out!I did it!	devi	19	24-01-11 16:18
advice please	bambi	7	24-01-11 13:53
going on monday!	s	7	24-01-11 13:00
Hi ladies	bambi	16	24-01-11 09:29
How do I end it?	EnglishRose	6	23-01-11 00:10
How could I have fallen so low?	Bobbie	11	21-01-11 19:29
looks like this mess is going 2 go on a little longer!!!	lis	2	21-01-11 16:33
Dont tink i can cope,	patsy	5	20-01-11 22:10
Not sure how relevant this is	anibee	1	20-01-11 12:02
I cannot make sense,,	patsy	3	19-01-11 10:20
hi all :(	how2moveonx	3	17-01-11 21:33
What is wrong with me,	patsy	2	17-01-11 20:26
went out !!!!!!	patsy	5	17-01-11 13:50
He is being nice....	patsy	6	17-01-11 13:05
Am i being fair or unfair for my kids?	janet	8	16-01-11 23:09
im out but not out!!!!	NO TRUST!	24	16-01-11 01:25
Scared	rose72	15	13-01-11 16:46
I just cannot believe	patsy	3	12-01-11 23:23
help	s	9	11-01-11 23:49
he scared me so much	devi	4	11-01-11 00:09
The Movie Scene...	abused abroad	5	10-01-11 22:31
no lucky....	devi	10	10-01-11 16:57
the closer to my exit the worse I feel	devi	7	07-01-11 00:05
Don't know what to do	Ploint	5	06-01-11 15:49
waited all day but council never rang back	gin	7	06-01-11 14:09
fleeing	max	2	05-01-11 18:05
Want to Be free	Lookingforward	4	05-01-11 10:44
Happened again.	patsy	13	05-01-11 09:49
Another phone call.	patsy	1	04-01-11 21:01
advise please	bambi	11	04-01-11 20:54
Whats the point?	diamondstarss	2	04-01-11 20:21
please help I dont know what to do	gin	5	04-01-11 11:17
...Sorry?	rose72	18	04-01-11 09:41
Broken restraining order	redmutley	1	03-01-11 23:00
Dad emotionally/verbally abusing mum and family	PsychologyGrapes	8	03-01-11 18:21
horrible	patsy	10	03-01-11 14:29
I am so scared	gin	3	03-01-11 11:17
why deny it?	max	7	03-01-11 09:36
hi just a quick hello	amber-rose	5	03-01-11 07:11
confused and guilty	devi	9	02-01-11 03:37
i dont know what to do	dragonfly26	5	01-01-11 14:36
Help..	trueblue858	3	01-01-11 14:22
how do i move on	patsy	2	29-12-10 19:47
I knew it!	Christina	10	26-12-10 17:47
Someone help me please	GINA	5	25-12-10 09:59
I feel guilty	shannon	7	23-12-10 19:45
please help	worriedmummy	5	23-12-10 16:21
Any suggestions on safety plan when leaving?	Indigo123	4	23-12-10 10:33
terrified	worriedmummy	19	21-12-10 16:47
a good old rant. no responses	Laila	13	21-12-10 11:03
trapped	sofia	3	17-12-10 17:37
letting go	tiger	1	17-12-10 17:14
Im getting the money to move out in Jan	Indigo123	2	15-12-10 18:35
I just had a nigthmare...about a memory...	sofia	2	15-12-10 18:18
Never ending roller coaster but planning to leave in Jan	Indigo123	2	15-12-10 18:00
I feel awful...	sofia	6	15-12-10 00:10
I've done it	sillyme	25	14-12-10 20:35
Abused	Indigo123	1	13-12-10 11:06
Surely this isnt my fault?	Helena	3	13-12-10 09:24
Something else broken!	animal lover	3	13-12-10 09:17
Hugs and Happy Holiday Wishes to you all...	Cannotthink	16	11-12-10 16:35
It is all happening	sillyme	4	07-12-10 13:19
nice twin gone for good, nasty twin back	queenofwands	3	05-12-10 13:14
Legal advise	sillyme	7	04-12-10 21:50
Should I tell?	Hermeline	8	04-12-10 11:04
REFUGES?	life?	6	04-12-10 10:22
feeling a teeny bit more like me...	Cannotthink	5	02-12-10 23:12
Phone call today making me feel guilty	bellini	6	02-12-10 23:06
New on here ...hi	Christina	5	02-12-10 11:25
oh no!	scaredmum	6	01-12-10 00:07
Before Christmas!	Hermeline	3	30-11-10 18:08
How can I reduce the risk of being found once I have left?	scaredmum	11	29-11-10 22:36
Why do i feel bad about this?	scaredmum	3	29-11-10 14:46
Almost!!!!!!!!!!	s	3	27-11-10 23:42
Why can't I just stay strong	nickname	10	27-11-10 13:22
Tomorrow is off	sillyme	2	25-11-10 23:36
soo scared	life?	10	24-11-10 12:39
Is this abuse, am i right to leave	bellini	8	23-11-10 21:34
hav'nt been around for a while, now im back again :(	scaredmum	4	23-11-10 20:50
Got to go	sillyme	10	23-11-10 10:18
Having a bad day!	sillyme	11	19-11-10 16:45
Please someone tell me I am doing the right thing	Shelleybaby	9	19-11-10 12:36
Can you help me make a decision	julez73	8	17-11-10 23:25
I'm such a mess	EnglishRose	6	16-11-10 21:06
Can anyone offer advise please?	MaggieMoo	5	16-11-10 12:05
Baby Steps so Wish me Luck	tiffanys	5	16-11-10 06:49
His feelings...	EternalityFlames	6	15-11-10 15:01
how can I leave with kids??	WispaGirl	4	14-11-10 01:02
To Loopylou	Indigo123	0	13-11-10 22:37
Confrontation	sillyme	14	13-11-10 18:50
trauma bonding	lucy1	2	12-11-10 22:23
drinking again	jcsofedupeofmylif	3	12-11-10 16:41
So unfair	HMP	7	11-11-10 20:08
stop the bus i want to get off	monica	7	11-11-10 15:18
Am I doing the right thing??	Becks	6	10-11-10 11:57
left the syco abusive boyfriend today	jasmine	6	09-11-10 18:15
Why???	Becks	5	08-11-10 20:30
Confused	Indigo123	1	08-11-10 11:08
Urgent advice please	sillyme	17	05-11-10 20:39
Will he ever learn?	DancingQueen	6	05-11-10 15:30
is it me?	bambi	3	04-11-10 17:59
New Hello	micx	18	03-11-10 22:49
hey x	TINKS	4	03-11-10 20:05
How do you stop the cycle???	tired	3	03-11-10 19:15
The Get-Out Clause	abused abroad	9	02-11-10 15:08
In need of support :(	nickname	4	31-10-10 11:44
I dont want him to leave	ragdollyanna	4	30-10-10 23:55
ive been back	billie	5	30-10-10 13:14
Emotional Abuse	July15	4	29-10-10 21:07
great news...and sad	lonely	5	29-10-10 20:59
A day of mixed emotions!	sillyme	6	29-10-10 17:31
Hope	Maisie	0	29-10-10 14:40
got to do it.	BeeBee	21	29-10-10 13:20
whats the point anymore	billie	1	29-10-10 13:15
Seeing an MP on Sunday	saved	2	28-10-10 09:37
first time ive told this x	TINKS	2	27-10-10 18:10
maybe i wasnt ready	Nobacherie	7	22-10-10 22:08
Well, guess who I just spoke to...	Cannotthink	13	22-10-10 09:46
Feel like im in limbo x	TINKS	0	21-10-10 21:51
A real eye opener	sillyme	3	21-10-10 16:40
Victim of Domestic Violence	WhyMe	17	19-10-10 18:41
I'll never escape him	sunrise	4	19-10-10 17:12
I say this to myself each day x	TINKS	9	19-10-10 12:14
im so unhappy	billie	5	19-10-10 09:33
I have made my decision	sillyme	26	18-10-10 20:42
im so tired an no longer trust anyone anymore	billie	2	17-10-10 22:42
A shy hello.	HMP	5	17-10-10 09:09
'proving' emotional or psychological abuse	lucy1	6	16-10-10 12:13
secretly filming me	determined but broke	10	15-10-10 22:01
thank you. xxxxx	aprildaisies	3	13-10-10 20:57
today i promised my babies something and i will do all i can to achieve it	lonely	8	10-10-10 18:10
Money issues.	Mimi	5	09-10-10 22:52
Its just so hard :(	summer	2	09-10-10 12:31
Sorry if this goes on a bit!	Mimi	2	07-10-10 10:06
Not sure, I think its over and I am scared	Muffintop	2	07-10-10 09:06
HELP PLEASE	HELP PLEASE	2	06-10-10 21:58
Taking the next step	sillyme	4	05-10-10 12:42
Hi guys, sorry I've been so quiet	Indigo123	4	04-10-10 22:10
First Visit	clarehouse	7	02-10-10 22:02
i missed you all so much... im back and i have so much to tell you all.	lonely	6	02-10-10 13:30
11 weeks after leaving and things no better....	xAx	9	30-09-10 21:24
Hoping someone is around =/	Lollie	8	29-09-10 14:06
argh!!! :@	therandomone	6	27-09-10 00:12
All out of love	mich	4	25-09-10 14:22
closure	bambi	8	22-09-10 22:32
Thought I could finally move on	BeccaTxC4x	4	22-09-10 18:08
back to start	monica	3	21-09-10 23:37
Regrets and sex education	sillyme	6	21-09-10 21:35
what should i do?	determined but broke	13	20-09-10 22:09
REASONS FOR STAYING	lucy1	6	20-09-10 18:35
Can he hold me to ransom over money?	daisy333	6	17-09-10 16:28
so sad	lonely	4	17-09-10 13:49
I've had enough	EnglishRose	6	17-09-10 13:11
Online Safety Reminder	Cannotthink	1	16-09-10 23:31
for no good reason he asked me for a break...	lonely	2	16-09-10 19:30
Down down down	ps	2	16-09-10 17:19
Traumas of a terrible kind/ coming to an end HOORAY!!!!!!	silent	1	16-09-10 16:54
Will me and the Kids ever be really free??	moved on 71	6	16-09-10 11:54
for Fin2 & everyone here for your support	Nobacherie	6	16-09-10 11:24
need to get away	cantgetaway	10	16-09-10 00:45
Just a thought	eyhore	4	15-09-10 18:14
What do I do..	sillyme	5	14-09-10 20:25
Feeling guilty and stupid.......	scarlip	9	14-09-10 19:50
Help please	EnglishRose	6	12-09-10 17:22
im so confused and angry	unhappy38	1	11-09-10 16:34
Its happened again	eyhore	6	11-09-10 01:11
Practical tips...how did you leave...	monica	2	10-09-10 19:35
thanks	BeeBee	1	09-09-10 14:32
why am I dithering?	Cannotthink	14	09-09-10 13:21
I have told the police what he has done and he is due in court in the morning	maldives	7	08-09-10 21:30
Leaving?	BeeBee	2	08-09-10 18:16
This is how I feel today	Cannotthink	1	08-09-10 12:51
Why are they so desperate when you don't want them?	ps	8	08-09-10 09:13
Why do i want this?	Nobacherie	11	07-09-10 18:30
Nice or Nasty	ps	4	07-09-10 06:49
hi ka3n and others who know me	Lori	2	05-09-10 22:50
How do you keep the no contact rule?	sp	5	05-09-10 22:38
I am back at square one and so angry with myself !!!!	maldives	2	04-09-10 08:06
Thank you for kind advice	eyhore	4	03-09-10 14:40
He is away and he is upseting me	BeeBee	11	30-08-10 22:47
I DONT NO WHAT TO DO	where to turn	6	30-08-10 19:55
Little bit of hope I had has gone	scaredmum	14	24-08-10 19:39
help	BeeBee	3	24-08-10 11:33
Taking the first step today	Indigo123	8	23-08-10 23:42
Please help me, I miss him so much, feel like life is over	Ruby12	4	23-08-10 11:02
Left 48hours but feeling to go back :-(	babyboo	4	22-08-10 18:27
ka3n need ur words of wisdom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	lisa	6	20-08-10 09:05
OMG, im OUT! Womens aid are the best!!!	scaredmum	17	20-08-10 00:30
Hi	BeeBee	28	19-08-10 17:14
I am in an impossible situation??	Isolde	8	19-08-10 11:58
The last straw?	Mimi	3	18-08-10 15:34
helloooooo Ladies how are we all?	sunnyg1rl05	3	17-08-10 22:36
He coming home today ....	A.j	1	17-08-10 18:37
Any body there ?	A.j	12	17-08-10 01:46
Please help - I dont know what to do =(	scaredmum	17	16-08-10 19:57
Fingers Crossed!	TJ	14	16-08-10 17:41
telling my daughter	lucy1	6	16-08-10 11:11
SO HOPELESS	cantlivelikethisanymore	7	16-08-10 10:55
Torn	torn!	5	16-08-10 10:38
What should I do?	CRW	12	16-08-10 10:16
A COMPLETE AND UTTER WASTE OF TIME ...............	rockprincess	24	16-08-10 00:47
Scared after last night	scaredmum	7	15-08-10 17:34
I've been told to read the bible, because I'm going to need it!!! OMG	casper	13	14-08-10 22:17
Feel so low	Jane2010	3	12-08-10 23:14
I've left, but he keeps calling saying he loves me-so difficult.	neverthoughtitwouldbeme.	15	12-08-10 22:10
I will leave earlier than I thought	justice	2	12-08-10 19:45
Hi there, me again	justice	5	11-08-10 22:36
Not sure what to do	Indigo123	10	09-08-10 10:27
new to board. been to my local wa.	neverthoughtitwouldbeme.	1	06-08-10 13:45
No way back	Angefree2	5	06-08-10 00:04
Am I Insane?	deannatrois	9	03-08-10 18:18
we're out	Danni	8	02-08-10 19:34
Flagging a littlle	Angefree2	6	30-07-10 07:21
Feeling empty	Muffintop	8	29-07-10 06:31
A poem I wrote that might help you	sp	3	28-07-10 22:15
Newbie and advice?	girl25	8	28-07-10 14:56
Just Sort of Empty	deannatrois	1	27-07-10 12:28
Should I leave him?	vexed	3	27-07-10 11:54
confused	oko2517	2	26-07-10 17:05
Now I feel mean	Lonewolf	3	24-07-10 17:24
I have told him that I'm leaving	ugly	10	22-07-10 18:07
New and just wanted some support	Francesca	24	19-07-10 12:48
My discovery	ugly	5	19-07-10 10:51
i'm new and need advice	hannahfull	4	17-07-10 12:28
Help!	lou12345	4	17-07-10 11:38
I did it	Crystals	1	16-07-10 23:51
My friend has escaped!	Fozz	3	15-07-10 22:49
i did it	Domidoe	8	15-07-10 19:06
Just want him gone	Domidoe	5	14-07-10 11:25
meeting WA	monica	1	13-07-10 22:26
Pregnant, Lonely and Depressed	rockprincess	3	13-07-10 17:33
Am I doing the Right Thing?	lilmiss	3	13-07-10 09:47
Soon	Danni	7	10-07-10 22:17
very down	cantlivelikethisanymore	8	10-07-10 12:17
:(	monica	4	08-07-10 11:40
Plucked up courage..	silverbells	5	07-07-10 09:29
i feel so low today i can't do this anymore	worriedmummy	10	07-07-10 08:45
oh it's all going on now!!	Domidoe	2	06-07-10 21:12
That horrible doubting feeling	Danni	9	05-07-10 09:52
Lundy Bancroft book	silverbells	4	04-07-10 22:54
courage	cantlivelikethisanymore	3	03-07-10 18:02
The Loser and how you can get away	DVSurvivor	1	02-07-10 16:21
DVSurvivor thanks	Domidoe	3	02-07-10 16:00
Refuges	Danni	15	01-07-10 21:47
DV Worker, eeeep!!	Domidoe	3	01-07-10 17:40
so frustrated...	MK	15	30-06-10 12:44
The right thing?	Danni	4	28-06-10 12:50
So, i left him...	Octavia	9	28-06-10 12:39
Biggest mistake	Danni	10	27-06-10 08:09
hes completely lost it !!!	lucky lady	11	27-06-10 06:16
fear and worthlessness	tjbelle	2	26-06-10 22:14
What to do?	amz	3	25-06-10 19:47
two steps forward three steps back	mich	2	25-06-10 18:45
feel guilty and good at the same time	Domidoe	4	25-06-10 18:34
what do i do first?	just want my life back	6	25-06-10 17:33
bewildered by his behaviour	Domidoe	5	23-06-10 11:30
why am i so weak?	Lori	3	20-06-10 15:02
it can't be right.... can it?	Domidoe	9	20-06-10 10:26
Yes!	wkmmum	8	19-06-10 15:30
I have had a list of complaints	tiffanys	7	18-06-10 18:08
I plucked up courage...	Cannotthink	16	18-06-10 00:54
Abusive relationship?	silverbells	13	16-06-10 22:21
what would u do?	alone	2	16-06-10 17:58
my life!	cool sami	5	16-06-10 12:52
New here	cj x	9	16-06-10 12:23
Please help me!	poppy	6	16-06-10 12:02
two steps back...	Cannotthink	18	15-06-10 21:28
What made you decide..	alone	9	14-06-10 21:27
I need advice, please help!!!	Itsme	4	14-06-10 15:26
Good advise and a BIG thank you to this site...	bettyboo	1	14-06-10 13:37
how stupid can i get	Junglejane	8	14-06-10 12:38
Here we go again	J-B	16	13-06-10 15:54
What have I done?	wkmmum	4	12-06-10 07:12
it all going wrong	itsmylife	3	11-06-10 19:52
What do I do	alone	4	11-06-10 13:21
I feel so lost and alone	Sunnynunny	4	11-06-10 11:09
please!! nobody replied :(	lottiee	19	11-06-10 08:21
Trust	Fin	3	11-06-10 07:41
letter from him	lisa	7	10-06-10 18:31
Lori here just discovered something shocking.	Lori	1	10-06-10 12:02
I don't have a clue	Becks	3	10-06-10 09:06
Older lady in trouble	tiffanys	7	09-06-10 15:17
help and advice	kelsi	4	08-06-10 12:21
A Positive Note	JJ	7	07-06-10 22:18
a whisper while it's quiet	Domidoe	3	07-06-10 19:03
Am i being fair? is he dangerous? How can i make hime see its over?:0	mich	9	07-06-10 17:17
a step forward?	Cannotthink	8	07-06-10 17:03
bad to worse	itsmylife	3	06-06-10 16:52
Are friends of victims OK to post on here?	Fozz	3	05-06-10 18:41
Feel lonely and like Im losing my mind	Annette88	14	05-06-10 10:58
no contact !!!!!!!!!!!	lisa	2	03-06-10 20:20
Relationsip Over!!!	Pinkyzilla	7	02-06-10 02:18
The next couple of days	wkmmum	5	01-06-10 22:15
I HAVE LEFT HIM	Confused	4	31-05-10 22:08
cant seem to pick myself up!!	lisa	2	31-05-10 18:52
Financial advice?	Pinkyzilla	10	30-05-10 11:02
Leaving?	wkmmum	19	28-05-10 22:20
feeling all over the place	lisa	4	28-05-10 12:03
Hi everyone, welcome Newbies!	Cannotthink	8	27-05-10 23:17
not gettin the message	lisa	0	25-05-10 16:35
Need to get away again	wkmmum	4	25-05-10 07:22
Really confused and tired	x BrAnDy x	3	23-05-10 12:50
and we crash and burn!! as if i didn't see it coming	Domidoe	1	22-05-10 20:24
Next Step??	BabyH25	2	22-05-10 10:07
completly stuck	x BrAnDy x	22	21-05-10 22:10
4 steps forward 10 steps back....	susan	2	21-05-10 21:53
Need to get out soon	Pinkyzilla	4	21-05-10 14:45
Now i feel like i am in the wrong	Sunnynunny	9	21-05-10 11:45
Messed up	wkmmum	6	20-05-10 17:04
Not coping	wkmmum	24	20-05-10 15:22
Need some advice	Leena	7	20-05-10 13:08
So so wound up right now	madvixen	6	19-05-10 21:49
I guess its my fault	Junglejane	23	19-05-10 17:09
hav i messed up?	lisa	7	18-05-10 23:41
i feel like I'll never win the fight to fully escape	hope11	7	18-05-10 21:06
GP's Advice is too hard to follow	Domidoe	2	17-05-10 21:40
not sure what to do	lisa	7	17-05-10 11:20
I'm still standing better than I ever did!	spagbol	3	14-05-10 20:58
Any advice please on how to cope while planning to leave?	TJ	9	14-05-10 20:51
Help	nursie27	6	13-05-10 22:59
Left him and now struggling	NicNac	12	13-05-10 20:43
JEN	Confused	2	13-05-10 20:03
Not sure what to do now.	Confused	4	13-05-10 18:56
it's been so good and everyday i'm getting more afraid	Domidoe	2	13-05-10 15:52
Jen or anyone else who may be able to give advice	Confused	6	13-05-10 12:49
Have left him but really scared now	spagbol	13	12-05-10 10:04
Great.	BlackApples	20	11-05-10 12:12
I can't take much more of this.	TJ	3	10-05-10 17:51
Abit of an update......	Confused	2	10-05-10 16:18
finding it so hard	marachino	3	10-05-10 15:58
iam slowly but surely messing up....	itsmylife	7	07-05-10 23:22
D-DAY TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	Louise	6	07-05-10 16:36
New - not sure if I belong here?	NicNac	15	05-05-10 17:03
Scared but determined to get back my life	never give up	9	04-05-10 20:27
First Night	Jacqui	7	04-05-10 20:24
MARAC	itsmylife	5	04-05-10 19:32
I finally managed to make the call....	Confused	4	03-05-10 19:50
starting to feel abit better	lolagain	2	03-05-10 16:52
when will it end?	worriedmummy	6	03-05-10 11:32
Mr Nasty popped up to play again yesterday!	spagbol	3	03-05-10 10:04
when will it end?	worriedmummy	7	03-05-10 09:37
Questions about going to a refuge	spagbol	6	02-05-10 09:00
Hello x	Confused	6	30-04-10 12:45
Can't do it	wkmmum	27	30-04-10 10:02
Help me please?	TJ	12	30-04-10 08:08
Can I ring about this?	wkmmum	4	29-04-10 20:00
Leaving	wkmmum	22	29-04-10 19:52
I am depressed, don't know what to do?	TJ	12	29-04-10 16:43
Do I go?	wkmmum	17	29-04-10 00:08
feel embarrassed but still want him	April85	4	28-04-10 08:35
Leaving without my son	wkmmum	15	26-04-10 14:24
what do i do?	susan	7	25-04-10 22:04
confusing feelings after leaving	bettyboo	9	25-04-10 19:26
New and very confused	spagbol	12	23-04-10 18:28
in this on my own	susan	8	23-04-10 10:57
escapeplan	nicole	7	22-04-10 12:34
Please help me to tell him its over	nicole	12	21-04-10 22:43
DO THEY EVER CHANGE? Advice please ladies x	theendofmydreams	7	21-04-10 11:35
feeling isolated and unwell	mumof3	17	21-04-10 09:55
Why do I keep looking?	whyme?	1	20-04-10 09:43
Had enough	wkmmum	14	18-04-10 19:12
he sounds so sad	jb2710	5	18-04-10 11:53
My story	whyme?	4	18-04-10 09:54
Thank you from Debs	Debs	2	17-04-10 23:39
I'm new	wkmmum	3	17-04-10 14:35
losing the will to live	worriedmummy	23	15-04-10 19:17
dont know where to turn	unhappy38	2	13-04-10 10:47
guilt trip	bettyboo	14	11-04-10 11:47
Finally!	freeatlast	7	10-04-10 08:52
feeling awfull	itsmylife	6	06-04-10 15:35
Finding financial help to get out	worriedmummy	17	06-04-10 14:22
good friday	lulu1	9	04-04-10 20:32
Desperately need to leave - Help me find the strength	worriedmummy	10	01-04-10 09:22
i tried twice then gave up	penguin88	3	30-03-10 02:56
Planning the Great Escape	TheCoolerQueen	20	29-03-10 14:49
someone please help me !	pinkpanther	10	29-03-10 11:56
What if?	TJ	4	29-03-10 11:07
the drama continues....	bettyboo	8	28-03-10 18:18
good friday	lulu1	3	28-03-10 13:47
I've told him	CH	17	28-03-10 13:19
So there's nothing wrong with me!	notyours	5	28-03-10 12:40
why am i doing this?!	beth	3	25-03-10 19:02
good friday	lulu1	9	25-03-10 15:08
Getting help	Jen (WA Moderator)	1	25-03-10 10:01
Almost Ready to Leave	mlk	4	25-03-10 07:26
What's helped me most...	Jen (WA Moderator)	13	24-03-10 20:45
Daunted	Schmoo	6	23-03-10 18:08
leaving husband	fed-up	2	23-03-10 11:00
Living with any kind of abuse is harder than it is to leave, it might not seem that way, but from experience it is	roquers	1	21-03-10 00:20
after 6 years of mental abuse.........	jes	2	18-03-10 23:12
New here, very shy, where can i turn to now...	mim1234	5	18-03-10 19:17
Sporadic but consistent messing with your head, was weed the cause or just his character	weedwidow	6	17-03-10 13:37
Hope Today Is OK	cal	9	12-03-10 07:46
A lot of information, but I really need advice...	CH	10	11-03-10 18:20
Just reaching out for some support	WornOut	27	10-03-10 22:59
dont know what to do	katie	4	09-03-10 08:32
Lodger	Jackie	3	09-03-10 08:30
Big Day Tomorrw	cal	8	08-03-10 22:10
WornOut - I DID IT!!! :-D	WornOut	9	07-03-10 19:51
I don't even know where to start	hurtingbadly	16	04-03-10 14:44
My Best Friend Needs Help!	Kahli88	5	01-03-10 14:47
Just Dont Know	Ria	4	26-02-10 11:41
feel so alone, dont know what to do	kaycee	5	25-02-10 15:38
what to do now	sadandconfused	8	23-02-10 12:46
WornOut - I just want to let you know that I have taken a small step forwards!	WornOut	8	22-02-10 13:06
How do I stop going back to him?	soz	5	12-02-10 02:46
last hurdle	Evice	8	12-02-10 02:35
I'm stuck	Rusty	2	11-02-10 16:05
Don't know what to do.	missme	4	11-02-10 09:42
iam feeling trapped	muffy	4	09-02-10 09:07
No money & nowhere to go	Confused	3	01-02-10 16:32
domestic abuse	hillary	8	30-01-10 14:34
Help	alicat	4	14-01-10 13:08
How to help someone experiencing abuse	Moving On	1	14-01-10 12:03