ARCHIVE - Is it domestic abuse?

ARCHIVE - Is it domestic abuse?	Poster	Posts	Last Post
for goodness sake dont start a personality disorder witch hunt	myfault	23	18-04-13 17:15
Just thoughts..	sasha82	20	17-04-13 20:00
Early Signs	May1990	5	17-04-13 14:41
moving on	AngelEllie	5	16-04-13 10:41
Need a friend or some support	Strawberrykiss	8	12-04-13 22:09
Just wondering..	Anothersurvivor	3	08-04-13 21:51
Big decision	babyblue	12	08-04-13 01:32
An awful lesson.....	Moniker	3	08-04-13 00:08
First contact in a week	elizadoo	6	07-04-13 22:51
trusting your gut feeling	pingu2	14	07-04-13 20:55
dreams	myfault	1	07-04-13 07:23
I need advice	Shopaholic	3	02-04-13 13:30
Coming out	fairymai	3	29-03-13 16:12
Sexual Abuse is making me depressed	feelinglostagain	14	21-03-13 22:31
narcisstic disorder	babyblue	9	20-03-13 23:53
Loosing perspective on what is normal.	babyblue	2	19-03-13 14:59
I think he just assaulted me	elektra	14	19-03-13 08:39
Hanaz	Flowerchild	12	18-03-13 23:36
coerced for sex - feeling used	Moniker	2	18-03-13 13:49
still confused	babyblue	1	17-03-13 20:09
what do you do when	myfault	8	12-03-13 07:22
My life is a horror story	rosie	7	11-03-13 20:28
Feeling very low	littlemiss13	19	08-03-13 11:51
new and needing advice	li982	19	06-03-13 23:31
Where do I start?:(	Stars*	7	06-03-13 21:12
Anyone else had this?	Coolbeans	5	06-03-13 13:31
Has anyone suffered this?	SUGARB	16	04-03-13 13:57
big mad rant...	how mad am i	1	03-03-13 23:44
huge question	how mad am i	30	03-03-13 11:33
Still not sure	tips	2	02-03-13 17:47
Advise. Is it really all my fault. Is this abuse or am I just getting things out of proportion.	babyblue	8	25-02-13 22:01
Toxic people	Beau	2	20-02-13 16:19
The day from hell	Tatters	12	20-02-13 10:28
Is depression an excuse/ explanation	Pumpkinpot	4	19-02-13 19:20
interesting to watch him try to turn things around	monica	6	18-02-13 09:56
I am told im mad. if I was could I have done this	how mad am i	6	18-02-13 06:05
GRAPHIC CONTENT....What did I really go through??	lilbird	23	17-02-13 21:31
HELP	how mad am i	16	17-02-13 17:38
can someone tell me	how mad am i	13	15-02-13 12:00
Is what I am experiencing DV	SadAndConfused0101	4	12-02-13 17:52
alone with my son.	Pog28	2	26-01-13 17:17
control- mine didnt seem that bad, was it really abuse?	SeaShore	5	25-01-13 14:27
Living with someone who is Bi polar who is abusive.	binkyc	5	20-01-13 01:05
Is this domestic abuse	Head cook	10	17-01-13 01:29
abuse becoming more subtle over time	forestfox	1	13-01-13 20:05
Think it's abuse, what do I do?	whoaminow	6	13-01-13 19:22
Made the break..now terrified about court	8msmdfss	5	13-01-13 00:00
Reliable signs that you are experiencing abuse	Ashley	3	06-01-13 22:36
New and in need of advice	Optimist	8	03-01-13 14:26
Follow up	Optimist	4	03-01-13 00:09
What is diff between normal arguing/ abuse	Pumpkinpot	9	02-01-13 15:17
I'm a bit confused	Tryingtoswim	4	29-12-12 06:28
Confused - emotional abuse? help.	seeking_peace	3	28-12-12 09:34
sore tired stupid confused	myfault	30	09-12-12 09:36
Please am I mad??	Tryingtoswim	3	07-12-12 20:05
is this manipulation? what is manipulation?	angel	6	07-12-12 14:11
no no no no	myfault	10	20-11-12 22:14
Looking back on a conversation- was I sexually manipulated?	Tatters	2	16-11-12 12:15
Is this abuse? Really sad don't know what to do	sljl060908	8	15-11-12 19:44
difficult to explain	myfault	9	15-11-12 08:18
If they can manipulate us, we can manipulate them	stupidme	4	13-11-12 13:11
Do abusers deliberately wind you up to cause you to get angry?	stupidme	4	13-11-12 11:25
Can you ever really trust him again?	stupidme	2	12-11-12 18:35
IS there such a thing as a one off attack?	stupidme	5	12-11-12 13:23
think it is one of those days	veryconfused	6	11-11-12 21:59
a question about pain (sorry bit gross)	myfault	21	07-11-12 22:50
this is what happened early hours today - sorry its long and probably too explicit	myfault	29	31-10-12 14:04
Am I over- reacting? So confused.	Belle72	8	22-10-12 18:00
new&dont understand what i'm going through please someone help me&my daughter	unsure82	9	18-10-12 15:55
do good people do this?	myfault	10	18-10-12 10:40
A question	suntree	2	15-10-12 14:46
is it mental illness	Hopenothate	6	15-10-12 11:30
Is there a way to check previous criminal history?	Theateam	1	15-10-12 10:46
The Irony!!	Buffy	2	14-10-12 22:06
see - this is how it is	myfault	3	14-10-12 20:49
Massive feelings of self doubt	Beau	7	14-10-12 11:26
staying WITH the abuse	myfault	19	12-10-12 23:07
Manipulative tactics	Ashley	9	12-10-12 07:49
New here and wanted some advice	hon I'm wrong	8	09-10-12 10:30
scared to post but need some outside view	myfault	6	09-10-12 08:29
Is this financial abuse?	Ashley	3	08-10-12 19:38
unsure if we should write	myfault	5	05-10-12 07:37
Step in the right direction? A good sign?	Tilly86	17	02-10-12 18:36
Really personal problem	Hopenothate	8	29-09-12 10:57
Not sure... Is it domestic abuse?	BeautifulInside	5	29-09-12 10:35
rape help please	whysitsohard	13	26-09-12 19:04
head is confused	myfault	22	25-09-12 13:58
is it me??	s	12	23-09-12 01:02
I don't even know if this is abuse. Don't know where to turn.	exhaustedandscared	5	19-09-12 23:03
First appointment at Sexual Abuse Centre on Monday ...	sunshine	1	14-09-12 13:48
He never hit me... BUT....	expectant81	7	06-09-12 13:17
Physical Abuse but not afraid of relationship	Tilly86	35	29-08-12 23:02
His lack of friends	HelloKittyLover	11	27-08-12 18:23
sorry	myfault	13	27-08-12 06:37
3am and this is what he did	myfault	30	25-08-12 08:06
this book is a must !!!!!!	courage	2	24-08-12 21:39
I need an opinion. Please.	CurlyGuuurl	9	23-08-12 11:12
myfault is trying to own it as s/a	myfault	47	22-08-12 20:43
is this emotional abuse or am i being over sensitive?	button14	33	19-08-12 08:29
2nd attempt - is this REALLY s/a	myfault	16	06-08-12 17:34
Someonr please help me?	Suffer	5	29-07-12 10:22
one minute...	thetallestsunflower	12	08-07-12 15:49
Has anyone else experienced this?	Ashley	20	06-07-12 22:41
i have some questions	runnergirl	36	05-07-12 17:52
I Think Im Being Emotionally Abused	confused12	6	26-06-12 23:29
First step? Admitting I'm in trouble?	Emma-Jane	15	20-06-12 09:18
Feeling so confused!!!	Bree	4	14-06-12 22:29
Unsure on my next move	fairy77	9	13-06-12 22:24
husbands always complaining	pinki	11	21-05-12 14:06
Am I a victim?	xBlondiex	21	19-05-12 16:45
Was this emotional abuse?	awoken	2	15-05-12 13:41
Is it really him?!	sunswitch	6	12-05-12 17:26
:'( he hurt me, but i cnt let go ..	joleigh	1	10-05-12 21:11
is it me?	awoken	7	10-05-12 14:19
long time	Laila	9	07-05-12 13:45
an innocent offer?	runnergirl	22	07-05-12 02:52
abuse from my son	marleybear72	4	13-04-12 21:10
2 days and 2 nights with him	Treetops	2	13-04-12 13:26
Life should be moving on........	springflower	2	02-04-12 18:48
;(	tomorrowsgirl	3	02-04-12 18:10
What's happening to me? my husband is driving me to frustration.	sea	14	31-03-12 23:10
Is he a monster?	surfinggirl	4	11-03-12 22:37
Hello.	SJW	5	09-03-12 23:24
How do I get through the weekends	feelinglostagain	10	03-03-12 20:15
What am I doing wrong?	iamlost	2	22-02-12 21:01
Sexual innuendos always lead to a fight	feelinglostagain	8	07-02-12 22:26
is it even domestice abuse?	pregnant&heartbroken	10	05-02-12 23:36
confused and lonely	littleredbird	5	05-02-12 23:16
I've not posted for a while.....	Neverforget	2	30-01-12 16:40
Would anyone tell me	beingbrave	8	27-01-12 21:21
abusers seem to be everywere	cross roads	4	16-01-12 15:17
Oh no, the thoughts of truth, Am a selfish???	Toon	4	16-01-12 13:19
Mutually abusive	beingbrave	14	16-01-12 11:02
Why cant I accept and believe this is abuse?	Peanut	10	14-01-12 15:28
Where do it end , is there a end	orchid	3	11-01-12 10:28
On breaking point!	miau	7	10-01-12 23:28
My response to his text messages tonight... (moderator pls alter the bad language, thank you x)	Bluet	7	08-01-12 07:31
Weak moment now stuck?	nowisee	1	26-12-11 00:34
Help!! Is this sexual abuse or am I reading too much into it??	feelinglostagain	9	23-12-11 12:01
Is this abuse? Or am I going mad...	Peanut	26	16-12-11 13:48
I'm new and very confused :(	elsie70	9	28-11-11 19:29
Some advice needed please	Ashley	6	14-11-11 15:57
I am so confused and need some advice please	Mishca	4	10-11-11 17:15
change of tactic	Helena	3	04-11-11 06:49
New here	Mishca	5	03-11-11 17:30
Hello Ladies...Advise please...	lilbird	9	03-11-11 10:25
Confused	Berry	4	28-10-11 02:09
Confused	Berry	4	24-10-11 22:00
Signs of anger	awoken	3	24-10-11 16:30
Dirty new Trick (fao lisa please)	Butterfly1120	1	23-10-11 17:28
HELP ME WAS THIS ABUSE?	awoken	5	17-10-11 16:13
Different personalitys	Helena	3	11-10-11 20:13
Its a mess	Daisy30	2	03-10-11 12:20
Did I deserve to be hit, kicked & strangled in front of my 3 year old girl?	notveryhappy	3	26-09-11 13:06
is this abuse	hopefulness	7	17-09-11 17:03
So subtle I can't even pick specific things out... totally frustrated!	Autumnfairy	7	11-09-11 22:41
Was I victimising him?	Ashley	9	03-09-11 20:23
Seeing a lady today who wants me to write out everything i can remember. Want to say it to people who care, first.	dream4better	7	02-09-11 22:55
so now its because he's bisexual	expectant81	2	20-08-11 22:50
on edge	on edge	0	10-08-11 17:17
is this abuse?	eggs	5	21-07-11 18:05
Is this really abuse?	Grasshopper	5	06-07-11 01:43
Is this abuse or am I being unreasonable	needshelp	8	05-07-11 14:28
I don't want to lose him...	resilient	10	01-07-11 08:19
Is my boyfriend using me for mony?please help me see the truth from the lies	how2moveonx	3	28-06-11 13:11
attention seeking?	monica	3	28-06-11 03:36
I was like it when	needshelp	9	21-06-11 22:46
Am I being a fraud using this forum?	Rita	2	15-06-11 15:15
Is this abuse?	Foxed	4	14-06-11 23:43
I need a friend...Is this abuse?	1988tt	16	13-06-11 17:06
New member	tigereyes	11	09-06-11 20:40
Verbal Abuse/Control/Justification	Squirrell	20	07-06-11 08:27
How stupid am I?	Chipmunk	5	07-06-11 08:13
oh no!!????? worried	penguin	8	01-06-11 22:11
hardest decision...	Helena	1	31-05-11 21:45
I knew it was	Mummy C	5	31-05-11 16:37
Is it DV or just me over reacting?	Mummy C	6	31-05-11 14:16
Don't know what to think any more	mistyeyes	1	28-05-11 14:24
Murder	Skip	13	23-05-11 19:00
is it my fault?	PSYCHO	10	23-05-11 08:25
is this normal?	PSYCHO	4	08-05-11 22:43
diary	PSYCHO	5	04-05-11 21:06
Is it right to always feel nervous	needshelp	5	01-04-11 23:03
He makes me bloody mad!!!!!!!!	Trina	2	01-04-11 17:46
Hi all.. wondering if this is the right place for advice.. is it really an abusive relationship?	dawny	14	19-03-11 00:53
is this abuse	dasher	6	17-03-11 10:44
I have no money, he froze my bank card	BlueRuby	1	15-03-11 14:19
Please help!	Chan	4	11-03-11 20:30
looking in the mirror	lou123	6	26-02-11 14:25
Important message from the Moderator	WA Moderator	11	23-02-11 19:57
do they know they are abusive?	Dry-Puddle	14	21-02-11 19:22
TROUBLE	GINA	5	16-02-11 21:22
I feel so bad	Laila	16	10-02-11 09:26
Help please!	bugs88	20	04-02-11 11:00
Is this abuse?	sadgirl7	6	03-02-11 20:59
was it abuse...?	Bobbie	8	02-02-11 21:51
My first ever post, bad thoughts again.	youngmum2009	4	01-02-11 15:28
Hi I'm new	2bon1own	2	01-02-11 15:19
left but just confused at what i've been through	Dry-Puddle	15	31-01-11 18:55
driving myself mad...	IFeelSoAlone	4	30-01-11 21:47
does this sound like and abuser	GINA	9	27-01-11 11:43
is this wrong? or am i being silly?	earthangel	3	25-01-11 15:18
feeling unsure	twilight	2	25-01-11 09:22
Is it wrong not to have contact with my own father	Lookingforward	5	22-01-11 16:51
New here, need some answers	cinderella	16	22-01-11 10:26
random wonder............	therandomone	8	11-01-11 23:51
Another tense night.	patsy	5	06-01-11 10:10
Had to ask.	patsy	5	05-01-11 23:59
Do you think it's all in your mind too.	Ploint	7	05-01-11 23:50
Why does he see my sister a a threat.	patsy	14	05-01-11 22:37
Have i pushed him to much	patsy	1	04-01-11 20:09
very low tonight	madvixen	3	31-12-10 10:52
given up	Laila	12	30-12-10 12:40
at a loss	s	15	26-12-10 23:58
Have any of you retaliated?	Christina	16	25-12-10 12:43
hello	Laila	9	22-12-10 16:37
Would i be stupid to stay?	shannon	10	21-12-10 20:44
new to this	Itsonlyme	6	19-12-10 12:26
It's that abuse or it's true that I'm crazy?	sofia	20	14-12-10 18:27
Is it abuse or am i oversensitive?	Mimi	7	13-12-10 08:34
Is this emotional abuse or am i just hormonal?	Helena	12	13-12-10 08:15
little help	therandomone	4	09-12-10 22:06
new member	Laila	28	24-11-10 19:40
Please Help	Help	9	16-11-10 16:11
Beginnings and signs?	Sailor	13	12-11-10 20:13
counselling together???	tired	6	12-11-10 10:58
all give	bambi	1	10-11-10 16:00
new and unsure	Serstar	4	05-11-10 23:08
What can I say to her??	WispaGirl	1	03-11-10 16:28
why ?	TINKS	11	18-10-10 20:45
how soon did the abuse start?	worriedmummy	14	17-10-10 21:55
there is always hope of change...	lonely	7	13-10-10 17:03
is voilent sex also abuse??	lonely	11	10-10-10 00:51
When will it end????????? sorry, long post!	jl	1	08-10-10 17:27
Easy option	bambi	4	08-10-10 02:01
How far would you take it?	nikki123	2	07-10-10 06:28
i am so desperate for him to care	lonely	2	06-10-10 14:54
GAS LIGHTING -form of mental abuse	ka3n	9	04-10-10 20:36
Am I a victim?	squiffy	2	01-10-10 23:09
Am I - sorry for no message attachment	parsley	8	22-09-10 21:18
he knows i have been coming on the site and didnt tell me until last night	lonely	1	16-09-10 00:29
women access to violence	Human Value	16	16-09-10 00:18
emotions are everywhere..	xokimmyox	3	05-08-10 20:48
Why am I doubting I was ever abused!	casper	11	04-08-10 20:49
Is it me?	Sunny	5	04-08-10 13:51
am i blind?	ludo	4	13-07-10 19:35
Verbal Abuse?	felinefriend	6	13-07-10 17:40
Depression	Nobacherie	2	07-07-10 17:25
New Here, Confused.	Nobacherie	10	05-07-10 18:05
Is this abusive?	Pat	8	27-06-10 19:15
excuse?	monica	9	26-06-10 09:05
is this abuse or am i over reacting	cantlivelikethisanymore	7	25-06-10 23:24
new here, any advice?	jojo63	10	25-06-10 14:21
Is this Dv or just grumpiness?	tiffanys	8	16-06-10 12:56
its a fair fight	monica	5	15-06-10 22:21
Question for Ka3N	tiffanys	4	15-06-10 18:31
it's just so unfair that....	Domidoe	2	14-06-10 13:02
Hi	Octavia	8	12-06-10 16:47
fed up	btoni	2	11-06-10 12:18
To stay or go????	Becks	2	09-06-10 22:32
Is this DV?	wkmmum	19	22-05-10 22:47
Scared & confused. Long, sorry.	Anon	5	21-05-10 21:29
Newbie here, just popping in...	Aonitha	6	19-05-10 20:47
New need help	Sunnynunny	3	19-05-10 15:52
is it just me?	becs146	6	13-05-10 10:20
It's got physical	wkmmum	22	06-05-10 22:02
Stormy waters	Patient Doc	9	06-05-10 16:12
Is that really domestic abuse? Or am I too sensitive??	Muffintop	10	04-05-10 11:01
am i going mad?	Domidoe	15	02-05-10 17:40
????	Confused	5	01-05-10 10:20
Annie	Annie	22	27-04-10 19:27
Thanks (to bx and Ka3n) and everyone really.	ITR	2	20-04-10 17:05
were the signs already there?	btoni	5	17-04-10 12:00
please help	unsure	6	16-04-10 15:15
dont know where to go from here...	itsmylife	16	13-04-10 12:10
New, need some support please?	Pinkyzilla	5	12-04-10 17:57
abuse in lesbian relationship? do i belong here?	Moving On	14	10-04-10 03:18
Narcissistic Abuse.. i've got a name for it what do i do now?	Fin	6	07-04-10 16:48
Please help me	glow-worm27	5	03-04-10 00:23
hi i need help!	kira	4	01-04-10 11:48
WHY JUSTIFY???????	itsmylife	3	30-03-10 11:33
hello, first time on here	itsmylife	6	23-03-10 16:13
I don't know what to do????	Nat	6	22-03-10 12:04
was it emotional abuse?	bettyboo	15	20-03-10 17:57
I just tried to talk to him about his abuse, was it the wrong thing?	mummy21	6	15-03-10 20:54
What is domestic abuse?	Jen (WA Moderator)	2	11-03-10 15:49
Exhausted	polly	5	04-03-10 20:02
Not sure what to do	SRconfused	3	04-03-10 14:08
What can I do?	Amanda	8	04-03-10 13:43
Family	pinkpanther	7	25-02-10 16:08
Is it Domestic Violence/Abuse??	Herblady	5	25-02-10 15:48
Help	Dolly	1	30-01-10 14:05
How do I know who's right?	VintageRose	5	14-01-10 13:23
I think I need help...	jenufa	10	13-01-10 13:14