Women's Aid Survivors Forum

Women's Aid Survivors Forum	Poster	Posts	Last Post
Watching others get married and have children	SUGARB	2	22-05-13 13:08
Work have found out :(	lilbird	5	22-05-13 12:38
i cant take anymore	Pulchrabelle	32	22-05-13 11:45
Day 7 and I miss him but hate him. why?	lonelyandsad	5	22-05-13 11:22
When does the crying stop?	Moniker	4	22-05-13 11:04
Broke down in work	tryingtomoveon	2	22-05-13 10:47
Gaslighting????	Comfort1	12	22-05-13 10:13
Still in limbo	aaml	3	22-05-13 10:06
binch eating	peace-NO-abuse	3	22-05-13 08:49
PLEASE HELP i got the sack- made a mistake at work would not have done if not been abused	flo	14	22-05-13 07:05
moving on?????	soashamed	11	22-05-13 01:30
New here!	Dimples	8	22-05-13 00:20
Does anyone else feel they have had so many lost years	stillhere	9	22-05-13 00:12
Meltdown	Clock	2	21-05-13 23:43
Maybe too nice and trusting for my own good!	Weakness	2	21-05-13 23:39
Concerns regarding access	thepennyhasdropped	7	21-05-13 22:38
something really struck a chord with me in the silent treatment thread	veryconfused	3	21-05-13 22:07
what counts as emotional abuse	cloret	23	21-05-13 22:05
Afraid of what will jhappen if he is found not guilty	tryingtomoveon	5	21-05-13 21:40
Moral Dilemma	Relieved	4	21-05-13 19:45
Can't take this "Silent teatment" it's swallowing me whole	lonelyandsad	14	21-05-13 19:38
had a letter from jail what do i do	pinklady	2	21-05-13 19:34
is it true?	myfault	12	21-05-13 19:14
had a letter from jail what do i do	pinklady	2	21-05-13 19:11
Counselling assessment and I feel defeated !	inneed1	3	21-05-13 16:45
missing him	anotherday12	2	21-05-13 16:11
failed	Pumpkinpot	8	21-05-13 14:19
Do they ever stop?	sansmoke	2	21-05-13 13:48
should i report this?	sansmoke	9	21-05-13 13:37
Mixed emotions about his arrest	tryingtomoveon	8	21-05-13 11:37
Ongoing struggles	thepennyhasdropped	5	21-05-13 11:12
i am trying no contact but the abuse gets worse	veryconfused	7	21-05-13 10:59
suicidal thoughts	yoyo	3	21-05-13 10:30
Difficult weekend	SUGARB	6	21-05-13 09:11
Little steps	Fluffyhun	1	21-05-13 08:14
should have stayed with first husband, regrets	cloret	5	21-05-13 07:37
Re, PTSD	springflower	2	21-05-13 00:41
Thankyou	Determinedthistime	5	21-05-13 00:06
Being confused and frustrated with myself.	Weakness	5	20-05-13 22:06
anxiety taking over my life!	Pog28	3	20-05-13 20:51
I cannot stay away .i need help !	Bubbles	12	20-05-13 20:42
Too scared to get help!! :(	Ford25	2	20-05-13 20:06
Really depressed and struggling	Tatters	6	20-05-13 20:02
Own worst enemy	Mumof2	3	20-05-13 19:09
I dont even know where to start.	Sakura	4	20-05-13 18:58
So, I left...	Butterfly11	8	20-05-13 18:58
Oh no, has got me thinking!!! From previous post...	Relieved	2	20-05-13 18:50
Love	littlemiss13	8	20-05-13 18:07
Strange question-Note Book	SUGARB	4	20-05-13 17:56
chilling conversation	currentbun	17	20-05-13 17:31
Afraid	Dandelion	9	20-05-13 15:07
How do you overcome these feelings.	springblossom	4	20-05-13 14:34
Your Bill Of Rights	Tryingtoswim	10	20-05-13 14:11
been sentenced	cloret	3	20-05-13 14:00
silly question i know but...	Pulchrabelle	20	20-05-13 11:44
woke at 3am	currentbun	13	20-05-13 09:43
Don't know what's come over me	Lizzyloo	11	20-05-13 09:40
Rape crisis	Comfort1	3	20-05-13 09:17
I miss him	thepennyhasdropped	7	20-05-13 09:16
Avoiding people when you go back to him	Ashley	18	20-05-13 08:57
Has he been abusive from day one? So drained and confused	lonelyandsad	14	20-05-13 07:13
Low, Low. And not the low fat type,	Moniker	11	19-05-13 23:19
Living with the dominator	Clock	1	19-05-13 22:32
just remembered	ka3n	6	19-05-13 22:25
help with him sending messages through friends and family	cloret	9	19-05-13 22:19
and today, surprise surprise	veryconfused	3	19-05-13 20:53
feeling bitter and down	billy123	3	19-05-13 20:41
Help - desperately need to get out but don't know if I have the strength to stay out	Ashley	11	19-05-13 19:16
:( screwed me over	dyinginside	6	19-05-13 18:48
How do i recover	newbeginnings	6	19-05-13 17:14
a wise women once told me....	Pulchrabelle	14	19-05-13 15:26
Can't get this out of my head today!	Are we there yet?	1	19-05-13 14:23
wordless	TwistedSister	7	19-05-13 14:09
police say one thing and do another....arrested him tonight, cps said no trial and let him go	olliebob	6	19-05-13 13:54
ive let myself down....	Pulchrabelle	16	19-05-13 13:07
Very lucky escape	Can't pick a nickname!	4	19-05-13 12:43
Why do I feel like I am going crazy?	Cupcakes	6	19-05-13 11:18
What to do next	Lizzyloo	9	19-05-13 10:15
Worried	Clock	8	19-05-13 09:58
Naive?	whoaminow	10	19-05-13 00:25
Everything feels so hopeless	littlemiss13	3	19-05-13 00:18
does any body get this??	pinkone21	1	18-05-13 23:43
Contact help and confusion	pinkone21	2	18-05-13 21:48
Subtle threats	Mumof2	4	18-05-13 21:34
Bleh	Dandelion	3	18-05-13 21:22
Confused :/	thepennyhasdropped	2	18-05-13 18:15
and then there was the explosion!	veryconfused	3	18-05-13 18:15
feeling constantly tearful	angelgirl	5	18-05-13 18:04
unsupportive support	anotherday12	2	18-05-13 09:45
He is the cause of my poor health. He is telling everyone it's my family who are to blame.	neverthoughtitwouldbeme.	1	18-05-13 09:34
I don't know where to start :(	thepennyhasdropped	8	17-05-13 23:46
Devastated at social service's lack of support and in need of advice	nonidentifiablenickname	3	17-05-13 22:59
apologies for lack of update i went into meltdown mode last night, on a positive note there IS cctv meaning there will be an arrest x	olliebob	4	17-05-13 22:46
Why can't I 'see' the danger?	Ashley	7	17-05-13 22:30
cant say whats happening	myfault	9	17-05-13 21:46
child maintenance	atlast1983	1	17-05-13 21:43
Freaking out!	ConfusedNScared	4	17-05-13 16:12
is this still abuse am I just compliant now?	currentbun	1	17-05-13 15:40
feeling strange...	marshallmay	4	17-05-13 13:54
A month on...	Fluffyhun	3	17-05-13 12:33
OVERWMELED	bluebird	2	17-05-13 10:51
Received a letter from a law today	Head up high	1	17-05-13 00:10
Joint Residency	rosey1	2	17-05-13 00:01
Mistake	littlemiss13	13	16-05-13 23:46
Non-mol	Clock	7	16-05-13 22:35
how to break the bond	veryconfused	12	16-05-13 22:33
felt so liberating...	marshallmay	5	16-05-13 21:54
Work and telling our employer what?	Moniker	8	16-05-13 21:37
grandparents	atlast1983	5	16-05-13 21:34
The pain is physical today!	Are we there yet?	5	16-05-13 17:51
was it sexual abuse	marshallmay	3	16-05-13 17:05
Feel guilty for being 'strong' and afraid to feel proud of my achievements	Ashley	2	16-05-13 16:25
Time to say goodbye to you all...	Bubbles	8	16-05-13 16:22
Just exhausted	Mumof2	7	16-05-13 16:19
One of those days	SUGARB	4	16-05-13 16:17
Grr sometimes I doubt myself	SUGARB	6	16-05-13 15:50
Bumped into ex after [detail removed by moderator] years	Hollywood	5	16-05-13 13:59
not my friends :(	atlast1983	7	16-05-13 07:52
For anyone who is confused by MYTHS surrounding RAPE please read!!	ShoeButterfly563	2	16-05-13 00:38
Feeling let down	Mumof2	3	15-05-13 23:29
part one - Need help/other people's thoughts	sansmoke	7	15-05-13 23:08
For those who need a pick me up	SUGARB	9	15-05-13 22:32
home	whoaminow	3	15-05-13 22:27
Hi ladies ,well here is the latest twist ..	Bubbles	9	15-05-13 21:57
eventually....hes been caught out!!! at last	olliebob	7	15-05-13 21:42
children access with abusive ex.	marshallmay	9	15-05-13 21:36
havent felt like this for a while	anotherday12	1	15-05-13 21:08
Bi polar is visiting. On a see-saw ride.	Moniker	3	15-05-13 21:00
Breakdown!! no really :(	tinyclanger	2	15-05-13 20:51
Why is it not important?	TinyToes	9	15-05-13 19:39
wobbling	Pulchrabelle	6	15-05-13 19:03
Feel devastated	PollyC	2	15-05-13 16:40
Sorry I haven't been around lately, little court update.	Ico	2	15-05-13 16:33
Contact Concerns	pinkone21	3	15-05-13 14:58
What do you do to keep safe?	Relieved	9	15-05-13 09:24
please please read and help....i dont know what else to do, im in shock	olliebob	14	15-05-13 09:00
Legal Aid mess!	Poppyfield	12	15-05-13 06:20
Losing Grip :(	lilbird	1	14-05-13 23:36
Avoided the doctor.. Now Fluoxetine!	UnderConstruction	10	14-05-13 21:59
Hello	Escaped76	5	14-05-13 21:48
time for the papers.....nobody cares!	olliebob	7	14-05-13 21:31
broken	nelladean	14	14-05-13 20:49
I keep recalling	SUGARB	4	14-05-13 19:16
CAFCASS	freedomgained	0	14-05-13 13:02
death wish	TwistedSister	22	14-05-13 12:29
thank you....10 minutes away ill be thinking of you all xx	olliebob	3	14-05-13 12:28
Please help, I'm crumbling :(	lilbird	10	14-05-13 12:05
Re final hearing	springflower	2	14-05-13 11:56
Tough Cookie	ShoeButterfly563	2	14-05-13 11:17
Power Games or reading too much?	TinyToes	27	14-05-13 08:45
court in the morning........representing myself and dreading it	olliebob	16	14-05-13 08:39
He is still pressuring me to see him	littlemiss13	13	14-05-13 01:34
in need of reassurance	littlemiss13	43	14-05-13 01:27
Rape/SA	Comfort1	21	14-05-13 00:23
First cut	UnderConstruction	7	13-05-13 23:31
What is wrong with me	Comfort1	12	13-05-13 23:20
Ex called the police on me last night	freedomgained	4	13-05-13 23:06
Don't know how I will get through it	PollyC	6	13-05-13 21:52
when does it get easier?	atlast1983	4	13-05-13 21:12
counselling next week	inneed1	2	13-05-13 20:42
My son keeps asking for he's dad..	UnderConstruction	2	13-05-13 20:19
why do these horrible people have to ruin it	pinklady	11	13-05-13 19:16
In a quandary and would appreciate some advice	Ashley	3	13-05-13 19:02
Feel so betrayed	zedbeds	1	13-05-13 16:47
last night - nothing really	myfault	5	13-05-13 16:21
feel like we're back to the beginning	nelladean	10	13-05-13 14:04
Cookie Crumble	Tough Cookie	7	13-05-13 13:31
Comparing them to him	anonymous	6	13-05-13 12:12
CROSS! CROSS! CROSS!	Relieved	2	13-05-13 10:45
Woke up and I have	SUGARB	9	13-05-13 10:39
I wish	feelinglostagain	1	13-05-13 07:58
Do any of you know?	angelgirl	19	13-05-13 06:42
Failed tonight	Mumof2	3	13-05-13 00:24
Have heard from police regarding my video evidence last week	Ashley	5	12-05-13 23:52
restraining order	cloret	6	12-05-13 22:31
Gave him email ultimatum	Someday	3	12-05-13 22:23
Nearly 6 months and still so sad	whoaminow	5	12-05-13 21:56
Who was I kidding...	phoenix1	5	12-05-13 20:25
what to do when you think they are back on track?	veryconfused	3	12-05-13 20:09
why do i feel like this soooo confused!!!!!	atlast1983	15	12-05-13 18:39
blimin knew it.	Pulchrabelle	10	12-05-13 18:22
Since the CPS decided	Bubbles	28	12-05-13 18:06
do they ever pay the price for what they've done	billy123	3	12-05-13 17:49
stepping out of that circle	anotherday12	1	12-05-13 17:40
How much more can I take	Clock	10	12-05-13 17:25
Venting, don't know what else to do anymore	twiglet	2	12-05-13 15:52
It is nearly four years	Mysmileismymask	2	12-05-13 15:51
I might be a nuisance today, I'm sorry...	phoenix1	3	12-05-13 15:29
Is someone listening at long last?	springflower	3	12-05-13 15:15
Concerned about mediation	Mumof2	3	12-05-13 15:12
Fed up of trying to be strong	Ashley	3	12-05-13 14:52
MARAC help	freedomgained	6	12-05-13 12:07
Nights alone	Poppyfield	12	12-05-13 10:26
Stood up for myself today	Pumpkinpot	9	12-05-13 10:23
Hard Weekend	Mumof2	4	11-05-13 22:55
Another good for one for us to look at	ShoeButterfly563	3	11-05-13 22:38
Stress!!!!	Dandelion	3	11-05-13 20:03
im having a wobble	Pulchrabelle	11	11-05-13 19:43
Cyclical behaviour	Mumof2	7	11-05-13 19:22
A couple of things to look at :)	ShoeButterfly563	1	11-05-13 18:03
how do you	TwistedSister	29	11-05-13 17:48
court in 4 days....if anything happens to me i fought it till the end x	olliebob	4	11-05-13 17:29
Just so sad	whoaminow	2	11-05-13 17:04
confused	myfault	5	11-05-13 14:12
TwistedSister	Comfort1	2	11-05-13 11:18
Not looking forward to the weekend	Pumpkinpot	8	11-05-13 10:18
therpy tomroww scared	pinklady	3	11-05-13 09:18
1 year today since I got out of that horrible relationship	Linky	5	11-05-13 08:47
Pre trial therapy/medication	Comfort1	17	10-05-13 22:58
please stop me	Pulchrabelle	33	10-05-13 21:15
Care proceedings update	Out-With-The-Old	5	10-05-13 19:49
Amazing how one song can make you	SUGARB	17	10-05-13 19:19
Terrible Sentence Outcome	yoyo	1	10-05-13 17:28
Thought it would be easier :( Is it really justice?	x_blueyes_x	1	10-05-13 17:14
Thought it would be easier :( Is it really justice?	x_blueyes_x	4	10-05-13 15:57
heads all over place :'(	surviverCAB	4	10-05-13 15:20
Sorry I have been absent	SUGARB	1	10-05-13 10:30
I liked it when daddy lived here, well except for the shouting	freedommaybe	6	10-05-13 10:18
help strange things with mobile and netbook	pingu2	14	10-05-13 10:09
Its not physical, its emotional....	tweedlezee	5	10-05-13 09:10
Supervised Contact	littlemiss13	6	09-05-13 23:58
angry. so angry	Pulchrabelle	12	09-05-13 23:43
when your family dont know - or dont want to know	myfault	58	09-05-13 23:27
Rights of women helpline	inneed1	2	09-05-13 22:54
Abusive grandfather. How do I help my kids?	Treetops	3	09-05-13 22:28
Lost faith completely now	CB27	28	09-05-13 22:12
Accused of child abuse.	Didz	1	09-05-13 22:06
really need help feel like im gonna go nuts	jenbob	4	09-05-13 21:33
been sentence but now what do I do about my son HELP!	pinklady	3	09-05-13 20:20
still wobbling	nelladean	13	09-05-13 20:03
Where can I make a formal complaint	peace-NO-abuse	1	09-05-13 19:54
Please help, son turning into his father.	cloret	6	09-05-13 19:47
In need of reassurance.	sunshinesoon	3	09-05-13 17:50
Trying to raise awareness	Relieved	6	09-05-13 17:32
soo stupid	zedbeds	4	09-05-13 13:18
just needed to come somewhere safe...	nelladean	6	09-05-13 12:19
My exes partner at end of her tether. Don't think I needed another bombshell, need to rant	Hopenothate	5	09-05-13 10:47
ShoeButterfly563	Are we there yet?	6	09-05-13 09:17
he has crossed the line	feelinglostagain	2	09-05-13 08:21
Stuck...	lilbird	3	09-05-13 07:40
Worried...	PollyC	6	08-05-13 23:30
Taken a stand today	littlemiss13	21	08-05-13 19:49
He says he doesn't want to live without me	Mixedupgirl	11	08-05-13 19:27
Feeling really down	Clock	4	08-05-13 19:25
It's been nearly 2 years and still seem to be struggling	Loosingitslowly	6	08-05-13 17:27
Sentencing Friday...	yoyo	4	08-05-13 16:23
Pattern Changing......	Tryingtoswim	1	08-05-13 15:26
feel like am still owned	pinklady	1	08-05-13 15:06
Reply for shoebutterfly - sorry for delay	stillhere	3	08-05-13 14:38
is this normal	357goingmad	6	08-05-13 11:22
Struggling at the moment	Mumof2	6	07-05-13 22:13
Why won't he leave?	i want to break free	7	07-05-13 21:38
last few days, my worst nightmare	pinklady	8	07-05-13 20:55
Really strong urge to contact him	Lizzyloo	3	07-05-13 19:20
Controlling behaviour???	sunshinesoon	2	07-05-13 18:52
Im in a desperate situation	Sindymmm	3	07-05-13 17:19
Refuge	chazz86	3	07-05-13 13:12
help:-(	Pulchrabelle	10	07-05-13 10:25
After a good period it's back to square one :(	Ashley	7	07-05-13 00:16
I'm a fool	Pulchrabelle	9	06-05-13 23:01
2nd wife - do they get better treatment	Matilda999123	13	06-05-13 22:04
There's no hope	Pumpkinpot	21	06-05-13 21:00
Have given video evidence	Ashley	4	06-05-13 19:58
Humbled	Comfort1	6	06-05-13 19:55
Social services are trying to take my kids. Need advice	Out-With-The-Old	7	06-05-13 15:15
He says he's sorry and takes full responsibility	whoaminow	14	06-05-13 13:01
at my wits end	zedbeds	3	06-05-13 12:06
fear I'm unlovable	forestfox	9	06-05-13 08:03
feeling so anxious all the time	stillhere	3	06-05-13 05:08
An ending to end all endings	SCHUSS	5	06-05-13 00:49
A man who truly loves a woman....	TwistedSister	8	05-05-13 23:32
He hurt me....	Tatters	6	05-05-13 23:13
3rd week on medication	Lizzyloo	4	05-05-13 22:42
want it to go back to how it was	myfault	35	05-05-13 21:21
Have to give video evidence	Ashley	7	05-05-13 20:29
im actually losing it.	Pulchrabelle	4	05-05-13 19:25
diagnosis of bipolar	tinyclanger	7	05-05-13 16:44
Calming down after a panic	ScaredNoMore	6	05-05-13 16:19
I hate hate hate the weekends.especially Bank holidays	billy123	5	05-05-13 12:48
Taking another step....	sunshinesoon	1	04-05-13 22:25
Has an'one heard from Rosie	flo	0	04-05-13 22:06
first session	SUGARB	1	04-05-13 22:05
Feeling really bad today	bobby26	1	04-05-13 22:01
When will this get easier?	littlemiss13	6	04-05-13 22:00
I made the break	Clock	2	04-05-13 20:16
well I could've screamed at the judge	troubled88	6	04-05-13 18:47
My story	Olli2	4	04-05-13 16:18
struggling to understand	nelladean	18	04-05-13 12:24
Need help is it my fault?	xbellsx	5	04-05-13 09:30
having such bad time	scarb99	2	04-05-13 09:10
bad experience with solicitor, what to do? I	desperatereturn	3	04-05-13 04:56
finding it really hard	pinklady	3	03-05-13 23:38
All time lows	inneed1	1	03-05-13 23:13
New here	future	3	03-05-13 20:24
certainty	whoaminow	2	03-05-13 19:33
The sun is out, skiy is blue but its raining...	phoenix1	4	03-05-13 18:52
I've just had an email from my ex	freedommaybe	4	03-05-13 17:31
I WAS GRANTED PROHIBTED STEPS ORDER	pinklady	5	03-05-13 17:10
how do we know?	TwistedSister	14	03-05-13 15:25
abusive remarks re my body still haunt me 3 years on	stillhere	5	03-05-13 15:05
I think he's found a new method of harassment	Determined	2	03-05-13 12:17
Worried about tomorrow	Pumpkinpot	1	03-05-13 11:27
Troubled88	phoenix1	3	03-05-13 10:09
tomorrow I can finally start to put him and this mess behind me	troubled88	9	03-05-13 09:57
Worried it's starting again!	sjjinx	14	02-05-13 23:30
There may be some justice...?	Tesserae	4	02-05-13 23:28
Ladies urgent re Nelladean. Please please read	Guardian angels	59	02-05-13 23:21
When will he be out of prison?	sasha82	14	02-05-13 21:55
Does anyone know why...	Are we there yet?	1	02-05-13 21:21
Mind Games???	Clock	2	02-05-13 20:18
me again...need some courage	duckegg	4	02-05-13 20:02
brick thru windows now police conntacted can't prove it was him	pinklady	12	02-05-13 20:02
e-petition re child contact issues?	Relieved	10	02-05-13 18:26
He's being sentenced today	Fluffyhun	15	02-05-13 14:18
Taken the step and booked counselling	SUGARB	11	02-05-13 12:40
Useful link for PTSD	sasha82	0	02-05-13 10:08
Nelladean	PollyC	12	01-05-13 23:35
kindness of strangers	nelladean	3	01-05-13 23:26
OMG..........	springflower	4	01-05-13 23:00
Bad week	Pumpkinpot	1	01-05-13 22:38
Opening a drop in for women/children experiancing domestic abuse this weekend!	olliebob	2	01-05-13 21:29
Restraining orders.... And how to lift them	miss kitty	11	01-05-13 21:06
Court later	Confused29	6	01-05-13 17:14
Head is mashed	Clock	3	01-05-13 17:09
Child contact, the injustice!	Relieved	5	01-05-13 16:01
how can i trust again?	dyinginside	11	01-05-13 14:56
He wants me to try again with him	Tatters	22	01-05-13 13:41
torn apart	nelladean	25	01-05-13 13:03
for those of us who have had to leave our homes...	ka3n	2	01-05-13 12:46
cafcass and court	rockystinker	5	01-05-13 12:22
New man?	sasha82	3	01-05-13 09:11
Big day for Me...	elizadoo	13	01-05-13 08:46
Babys home safe! :)	pinklady	10	01-05-13 07:47
I told him he can come back if he changes	cloret	11	30-04-13 23:38
Dress Sence?	silentbob	5	30-04-13 23:00
A bit random but does anyone know...	Relieved	2	30-04-13 21:57
Why isnt anyone hearing me?	Happy2013	3	30-04-13 19:41
am i a nutter	shirly	6	30-04-13 18:54
he's taken my baby	pinklady	13	30-04-13 18:45
sinking into depression	cloret	6	30-04-13 17:43
He killed himself this week	Saved4	26	30-04-13 15:35
Nelladean	PollyC	11	30-04-13 15:32
He's broken to contact again	SUGARB	10	30-04-13 15:29
why does it go from bad to good?	pinklady	2	30-04-13 08:55
Permanent Protection from Abuse hearing tomorrow	caf2013	17	30-04-13 06:37
feel like friends/family dont understand	surviverCAB	6	30-04-13 00:38
full custody	pinklady	9	29-04-13 23:24
Back away from home	Fluffyhun	2	29-04-13 22:29
My way of thinking has changed	Catlover	2	29-04-13 21:54
Nearly reached my limit!	Are we there yet?	3	29-04-13 21:51
legal aid mess up	inneed1	11	29-04-13 21:23
I Have told him NO	pinklady	5	29-04-13 19:27
Moniker - Mediation - my insight on the subject........	ka3n	3	29-04-13 18:24
Feels like I was raped by him,what to do	Moniker	12	29-04-13 18:19
Crying isn't a weakness.....	ka3n	7	29-04-13 16:42
The Wright Stuff	Relieved	2	29-04-13 15:54
what type of guy	feelinglostagain	9	29-04-13 14:46
all over the place	nelladean	19	29-04-13 14:46
just need to talk	Aquarius21	15	29-04-13 14:23
Guilt	littlemiss13	12	29-04-13 14:20
Feel so low....	Tryingtoswim	2	29-04-13 13:56
Our old life	Swan10	13	29-04-13 11:16
My first post::-)	ShoeButterfly563	11	29-04-13 11:11
Monday morning	Tough Cookie	2	29-04-13 10:24
Nelladean	Guardian angels	22	28-04-13 23:55
"The Commandments"	Tough Cookie	55	28-04-13 23:44
loss of faith	quite one	3	28-04-13 23:26
How to cope with badfather manipulating daughter	Can't pick a nickname!	2	28-04-13 23:11
confusion (sorry for posting)	myfault	13	28-04-13 23:07
Starting to lose faith!	Are we there yet?	2	28-04-13 21:39
Conflicted - got together with a friend	forestfox	4	28-04-13 21:28
Advice for children	Clock	4	28-04-13 20:16
hes still controlling me.	s	4	28-04-13 18:11
did i do the right thing? feeling lonely n low	surviverCAB	12	28-04-13 16:39
Help! court order	beebop	7	28-04-13 13:23
I'm getting what I wanted so why am I not happy	Lizzyloo	8	28-04-13 11:40
State of Shock	Clock	14	28-04-13 11:24
Knew it wouldn't happen.......	f.adams	4	28-04-13 10:20
A big few days...	Fluffyhun	1	28-04-13 09:53
all too much to handle now, flashbacks, hospitals fears	anotherday12	4	27-04-13 22:51
i couldn t stop crying	shirly	7	27-04-13 18:03
starting to doubt whether its abuse	cloret	5	27-04-13 15:16
can't even face FP right now	TwistedSister	17	27-04-13 14:38
Dark thoughts :(	sunshinesoon	2	27-04-13 13:54
Don't judge please. I need to rant	Hopenothate	4	27-04-13 10:47
why can't I stay away?	sunnysideup	2	27-04-13 10:20
grateful for advice on this	flybird	4	27-04-13 09:37
Why am I still not feeling better?	sasha82	16	27-04-13 09:07
fat and frumpy	cloret	9	27-04-13 07:56
Support in [area removed]	pili-pala	4	26-04-13 23:52
Hope, peace and calm	Lizzyloo	6	26-04-13 23:01
has anyone ever just packed up and left	Memyself	5	26-04-13 22:52
On a lighter note...	Relieved	2	26-04-13 22:50
advice.	Blessedbyanangel	2	26-04-13 21:36
Looks like going back again!	desperatereturn	2	26-04-13 20:41
Do i stay or go?	bobby26	1	26-04-13 19:03
Exhausted-Cried myself to sleep last night	SUGARB	6	26-04-13 18:37
Feeling so depressed	Tatters	18	26-04-13 17:39
my son is starting school, had threats to take him from ex, advise please	stillhere	2	26-04-13 17:34
EVA project	formydaughter	6	26-04-13 17:29
Baby poorly does he need to know?	TinyToes	10	26-04-13 15:30
More rain...	Fluffyhun	3	26-04-13 15:20
Hey ladies! It's been a while...	Lady Luck	10	26-04-13 14:44
Sorry me again!	Relieved	5	26-04-13 13:18
On Breakfast news today	wendy34	8	26-04-13 13:12
Compromise?	Pumpkinpot	6	26-04-13 11:12
heart's breaking	nelladean	7	26-04-13 09:52
ssri anti depressants	how mad am i	3	26-04-13 08:26
5 a.m ramblings	Relieved	3	26-04-13 08:08
out of prison sending threats!	Blessedbyanangel	2	26-04-13 07:11
The Freedom Programme and Cafcass...	Lady Luck	2	25-04-13 23:44
I need some help on legal matters	inneed1	6	25-04-13 23:34
Legal Aid help	MsMax	4	25-04-13 23:13
Feeling hopeless	PollyC	10	25-04-13 22:20
absent father	crazymum	1	25-04-13 21:53
terrified of another check up	anotherday12	5	25-04-13 21:20
Just watched the final The Syndicate....	Head up high	4	25-04-13 20:17
Things that you don't need	Fluffyhun	2	25-04-13 19:48
do they know theyre bad...?	SeaShore	8	25-04-13 18:55
The most commonly told lie in the English language...I'm fine	sunshinesoon	3	25-04-13 18:54
what do you do when you have no money?	freedommaybe	6	25-04-13 18:11
Admitting that going it alone is	SUGARB	3	25-04-13 15:43
Anyone heard from How Mad I Am?	SUGARB	2	25-04-13 15:29
and so my campaign to have a normal life goes on....this time with support though	olliebob	1	25-04-13 15:04
no title - just hurts	myfault	2	25-04-13 11:34
Please help me ,i am broke	Bubbles	14	25-04-13 09:34
It didn't go well today	Tatters	1	25-04-13 08:30
What's my motive?	whoaminow	5	24-04-13 23:27
OMG - I reported my first abusive boyfriend's assaults to the police and they've taken it really seriously!!	Ashley	5	24-04-13 23:25
trying to get counselling	anotherday12	4	24-04-13 23:07
Floodgates	Fluffyhun	2	24-04-13 22:56
When, or what to tell the children?	Relieved	7	24-04-13 21:59
So indecisive it's doing my head in :(	Tatters	13	24-04-13 21:21
trying to admit what happened was real	fuzzy	7	24-04-13 21:17
He wants me to have a key to his new home. Could things be better if we live apart ?	Spagetti head	6	24-04-13 21:00
I am on a roll at the moment!	Relieved	1	24-04-13 20:53
Why do I want to break no contact	SUGARB	15	24-04-13 20:26
What a difference...	TinyToes	5	24-04-13 19:29
I admire my daughter...	Moniker	1	24-04-13 18:15
I admire my daughter...	Moniker	0	24-04-13 17:32
my 15 year old isn't coping with abuse !	springflower	9	24-04-13 16:55
Really cheesed off !!	inneed1	3	24-04-13 16:39
A typical Wednesday...	Smile234	4	24-04-13 15:43
Contact centres	Pumpkinpot	1	24-04-13 13:21
Anyone had the same....	Relieved	5	24-04-13 13:17
Presssure to break no contact from in laws	cloret	8	24-04-13 11:57
I found this very relevant to us in the difficult of separating and coping alone after	TwistedSister	7	24-04-13 09:32
Taking back control!	Are we there yet?	3	24-04-13 08:49
What to do, what to do?	sunshinesoon	2	24-04-13 07:59
Please help me to clear my head...	lilbird	15	24-04-13 07:49
Feeling so down	littlemiss13	2	24-04-13 07:33
Nearly 6 years ago...	starry_eyed	1	24-04-13 00:10
One of those moments...	Fluffyhun	4	23-04-13 23:17
Question	Pumpkinpot	7	23-04-13 22:31
Advice and getting free	Dandelion	1	23-04-13 20:40
He hasn t hurt me physically recently	shirly	5	23-04-13 20:08
Please help	Bubbles	1	23-04-13 19:59
How the hell do court recorders keep straight faces ??	Bubbles	8	23-04-13 19:35
Amateur psychologists out there? Can you explain...	Tough Cookie	28	23-04-13 17:18
Fluffyhun wondering how you are ?	TwistedSister	2	23-04-13 14:58
Living in a Twilight Zone	Hopenothate	4	23-04-13 11:34
CPS....Compo	Bubbles	6	23-04-13 10:31
Hope it helps	Swan10	2	23-04-13 09:21
Do they abuse all their partners?	Ashley	7	23-04-13 08:59
Still depressed and struggling	Tatters	2	23-04-13 08:50
Very confused and muddled	Can't pick a nickname!	4	22-04-13 23:31
why do i feel so guilty to just leave.	pam	5	22-04-13 22:07
Red campaign with Refuge - sign the petition	whoaminow	1	22-04-13 21:40
Does anyone else feel guilty taking away financial support? :(	doublelife24	2	22-04-13 19:21
Happy Birthday SUGARB...	phoenix1	1	22-04-13 13:14
They can just go back to normal	Hopenothate	2	22-04-13 11:45
Eyes wide open	Lizzyloo	1	22-04-13 11:18
Cr*p weekend - run down	SUGARB	0	22-04-13 10:45
Feels like my mother is taking over where he left off	martian29	3	22-04-13 09:31