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I am upset and scared , haven't , saw him earlier driving through my local town, my son said he saw 4 police cars at his house a couple of days ago and I can't get hold of my police officer. I don't know what is happening, I am acted, feel sick

Created by Marionette on 4-Aug-12 00:00 GMT

What is it you think may nbe happening, Marionnette?

Or is it just the not knowing? Are you afraid he may go on the rampage? Try your officer again, and make sure the house is safely locked up. Be ready to dial 999 if you are the least bit worried!

Is anyone there with you?

Thinking of you,

Flower xxx

Posted by Flowerchild on 4-Aug-12 00:11 GMT

i dont know what is happening

Dobt know if he is looking for us, don't know if he's been arrested. It was my daughters birthday and the house is full of teenagers. He never sent any birthday messages to her'. I feel permanently sick at someone else knowing what he did.

Posted by Marionette on 4-Aug-12 01:04 GMT

There is no shame for you and your children in what he did,

only for him. You will adjust in time to people knowing. It had to come out so justice could be done. It was not right for you and your children to live a lie to protect him, was it?

Whatever has happened he has brought on himself. It will take a while before the habit of protecting him disappears.

Hug your daughter and stay safe,

Flower xxx

Posted by Flowerchild on 4-Aug-12 01:10 GMT