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ARCHIVE - Life after abuse

Oh no

I dont want to admit that he is an abuser, I still love him and I miss soooo much. I am sorry girls must be on a down day. Was on facebook and a friend tagged another friend and up came a picture of him. I miss him girls :'( :'( help.......

Created by GINA on 29-Dec-10 12:51 GMT

Stay strong

Hi Gina - most of us feel like that from time to time. It sometimes helps to write a list of all the things you miss about him.....then all the things you DONT!! see which list is longer, I can have a good guess without even seeing it. Focus on the reasons you left, not on reasons why you might previously have stayed. Your feelings are normal, take a deep breath and move onwards and upwards.

Posted by alcatraz on 29-Dec-10 13:17 GMT

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